I am finding it difficult to find dates online. Mostly I meet men who are interested in nsa and that's not for me. I am wondering what other peoples experiences and expectation are when it comes to online dating.
Sparkle28: I am finding it difficult to find dates online. Mostly I meet men who are interested in nsa and that's not for me. I am wondering what other peoples experiences and expectation are when it comes to online dating.
Not sure what the acronym NSA stands for since I am firewalled at work from the Urban Dictionary, but get it as f#*k buddies with benefits.
My online dating from this site has brought me four dates in four years...one was NSA, but that was not for me either....
Sparkle28: I am finding it difficult to find dates online. Mostly I meet men who are interested in nsa and that's not for me. I am wondering what other peoples experiences and expectation are when it comes to online dating.
Sparkle ,u r right,but all the men are not intrested in the usa they are in the search of a soulmate,
petalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland3,101 posts
Sparkle28: I am finding it difficult to find dates online. Mostly I meet men who are interested in nsa and that's not for me. I am wondering what other peoples experiences and expectation are when it comes to online dating.
Most of the people I am connecting with are a long way aways..
But I have met some lovely people online on here, and am very hopeful of finding that special guy...
I am also making some great lady friends too..
I think its a great site; you just have to be patient, and dont rush things..
I am finding this site to be the most positive so far. I have only been sent a few mail and they were not offensive in anyway. It seems to me people here are more interested in actually getting to know one another as a person not just a body. I like that. I enjoy people who can carry on a conversation and have more than three word in their vocabulary.
Expect nothing and you aren't disappointed. I've been disappointed enough for one lifetime, so I've learned to live for today and for me. Selfish, I know, but I have to please me first before I can share me with someone else. No matter what it is that "pleases me". Best (for me) to think of what may be (in the future) rather than what might have been.
I've been one of the very lucky ones. I had only been on this site a very short time (2 weeks) when I met the man I will now spend the rest of my life with. I was just looking to make some friends and have someone to talk to after the kids went to bed but fate, destiny, or what ever you want to call it had other plans for my future. Just enjoy the friends you will make here and let happen what will happen.
I have had good luck so far......But i am very upfront and honest with them.........we will text,email,whatever before we will ever meet,but i have 3 kids that live with me and they come first....thats a whole new set of rules tho :) ........Keep looking and good luck!!!!!!! there are good ones out there they are just hiding. You may need to YELL MARCO once in awhile (lmao) just to see who says POLO
I am very excited for those of you who have had success! Way to go. I gave up looking way too hard and did realize for a long time I was looking for someone to take care of me. I believe it was too soon after my seperation and I needed to step back and get myself back. I am still hoping to find some special people, but mostly friends. I haven't been on this site for a few months and am glad so far to be here.
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