jayodub: hi there this is my first thread here id like to find out from the woman here how do they would like to be wooed by a man?might help me in the future
For a start...
Look at our faces when you speak to us....our eyes are about 12" above where men think they should be!!!
for me ... pay attenton to her in all aspects... listen to what she has to say and vice versa.. smple things mean so much rather than showy things but it depends on the woman... if there is thought in it and she appreciates it then thats cool... if u do something nice for her and she doesnt appreciate it.. walk away..
leave the past behind.. not all are the same...dont keep bringing it up in conversaton ,. wait till u get to know each other...
if u send a flower write your own message not one from the list.. dont just send a an email with HI wrtten on it lol..
jayodub: hi there this is my first thread here id like to find out from the woman here how do they would like to be wooed by a man?might help me in the future
Its all about listening and paying attention to the little details and its not all about grand gestures. When she tells you what sort of things she likes make an effort to include or get those things bring her places you have heard her talking about maybe places she was at on family days out as a kid. Go for a picnic once the weather warms up a bit.
ladylumps: Its all about listening and paying attention to the little details and its not all about grand gestures. When she tells you what sort of things she likes make an effort to include or get those things bring her places you have heard her talking about maybe places she was at on family days out as a kid. Go for a picnic once the weather warms up a bit.
some interesting stuff but really like sineads coment sometime i like to think of myself as aguy who does listen to other people but then theres listen and really hearing cause to be honest questions as sinead said like favourite places and things like that il hold my hands up and say i dont ask but will do in future and also thanks to all other coments
yeah thats so true have been on dates where i can see that the plonker is not listening to me at all and just thinking of what hes going to say next
as for looking at ur phone constantly
so ignorant!!
oops im venting
ok ways to woo?? well i think the above ladies hit the nail on the head, also i love to be surprised!! any surprise will do as long as its dinner/jewellery/chocolate ... just kidding!!!
all the little things mmm like just being interested
another nono for me is Dont kiss her if u have no intention of seeing her again ... that is something i do not get with guys.
little_miss: yeah thats so true have been on dates where i can see that the plonker is not listening to me at all and just thinking of what hes going to say next[/color
as for looking at ur phone constantly
so ignorant!!
oops im venting ok ways to woo?? well i think the above ladies hit the nail on the head, also i love to be surprised!! any surprise will do as long as its dinner/jewellery/chocolate ... just kidding!!!all the little things mmm like just being interested another nono for me is Dont kiss her if u have no intention of seeing her again ... that is something i do not get with guys.
We can tell when you're not listening. Its insulting and rude whether is a man doing it or a woman.
The snog and run! I don't get that either!!!
If you don't want to see her again..have the balls to say so!!!
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