Are there any good men left? ( Archived) (82)

Yes, cutelildevilsmom, it's those red flags that we need to be conscious of...and, just because we might be "attracted" to someone doesn't mean that person is the one. Heck, I think lots of guys have great pictures on here and can charm the wallpaper off the walls, but.......

there are lots of good men and women left all one has to do is get past the fear of being hurt or quit setting conditons and you will see them

you have to set some conditions Will but you need them to be realistic and flexible.I find when the conversation is good I forget all about what they look like or whether or not they have six toes.I think as long as the personalities mesh the rest takes care of itself.It's when you listen too other people's opinions of what's acceptable or the norm is when things go awry.

NAH!!

Yes there are good men left out there, But you know I think we set our sites to high for what we want We all have known love, But you know there is no perfect man . when we look we try and look for the ones who maybe are someone like maybe that was in our past but the past is dead. and we need to focus on the real world. Men are different than they use to be so are women. we search for a a perfect man and not find him maybe we should look for the not so perfect person. and look at what is really out there and be bold enough not to lie to one another and be honest about what we all look like and what we really need from one another.
signed lilncute

There are some, even if they are hard to find. It seems to me that women, like men, seem all to often to look at the cute ones hopeing for the good inside. They won't accept someone less than their ideal man/woman, then complain because they don't work out. I am guilty of it also dateing someone because they are pretty and then being disapointed because the are not the person that you want to spend your life with or getting dumped on because they found someone prettier or hansomer than you. I even gave up dating for a while because I decided that there wern't any women left worth the effort. But I am a hopeless romantic. There has to pe a decent woman that be true and loyal somewhere. I know that many of you ladies have been there also. Why is it that the loyal, loviong, good hearted people never seem to find wach other. If I have to kiss a few frogs to find my princess so be it. The alternate, being lonly, is not an option. Even a blond hog finds an acorn once in a while. So I will just have to look harder, you too, don't give up.

Paitence my friend!!!!! Something we all need more of. We are so ready for that next chapter of our lives to begin that we will do anything to rush it along. I know for me the ole clock is ticking on the wall and I am not getting any younger. However, I did meet a guy online and we talked for two straight months almost everynight. I would rush home just to talk to him. I found myself falling hard for this man. I did begin to fall back into that same pattern I use to be in "the nurturing mother figure". One day I never heard from him again just like that. I was devastated, but with anything you get over it and move on. But don't jump on the first man that comes along and says what you want, does what you want, Be smart & alert. Never, Never put yourself last in a realationship and let that be a signal if you find yourself doing that "Get Out" because if it is the right one there will be no give all/get none. It will be 50/50. He will want to give has much to you as you want to give to him. That's my own opinion, Good Luck!

I haven't found him yet, but there have to be a few good ones out there.

Maybe we just aren't digging in the right spot,hmmmmmm.

Not a lot of digging going on where I'm standing.

dpw