Niceguyaaa and Fallenangel74 are meeting!! (105)
zombie01Dublin, Ireland13 Threads 3 Polls 387 PostsFallenangel74: Update!!! I am not going. He pulled a major red flag moment and i am not going to put myself into that situation even if he was telling the truth....
Not too worry. Plenty more fish in the sea. Maybe give him a chance to explain himself. He may of got shy. Who knows.------ This thread is Archived ------
LOL 
well i just said he is more than welcome to meet me on my own turf? If not then see yea many fish in the sea?
well i just said he is more than welcome to meet me on my own turf? If not then see yea many fish in the sea?------ This thread is Archived ------
Just stay safe.
In response to: OMG! my first CS meeting I am going to Fredricton to meet him. I have been talking to him for about 4 years now pretty much since i started here. I am so nervous. We are going to drive from Fredricton to Calgary and he is moving there. Help I may be too scared to?
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Cant rush a good thing. Take your time...be safe. Better red flag now then months from now. Good luck...
PS-hope the fishing is better your way cuz the nets keep coming back empty here..
PS-hope the fishing is better your way cuz the nets keep coming back empty here..
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Fallenangel74: Update!!! I am not going. He pulled a major red flag moment and i am not going to put myself into that situation even if he was telling the truth....
Let me get this straight - You've been communicating for four years (give or take) and you finally have a chance to meet and this is the first red flag you've had? Wow... Are you still communicating with him? If so, why? I mean why bother?
You're obviously scared to death by all the stories you've seen, read, heard, etc... and have no intention of ever meeting him anywhere - short of maybe a police station - and I can't really say that I blame you. Seems like if something big, like love, was going to happen, it would have been here by now.
At the same time, I guess I don't really see the point of putting all that time and energy into something with zero payoff.
He obviously comes across as a decent sort, otherwise you wouldn't have maintained contact for all these years. From what I've seen in the forums, you're a pretty decent sort yourself. But, for whatever reason, it would appear that you don't really want to meet him face to face and never have.
It would seem that it's time to break things off altogether; If he really is a nice, decent guy it would only be the honorable thing to do, since he obviously is hoping for a chance at something more than you're willing to give. If, on the other hand, he is a closet axe murderer who only picks one victim every four years or so, then you're much better off dumping him now and never communicating with him again. Either way, good or bad, breaking things off completely seems the best way to proceed.
Good luck, I don't envy your situation.
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