Fallenangel74: OMG! my first CS meeting I am going to Fredricton to meet him. I have been talking to him for about 4 years now pretty much since i started here. I am so nervous. We are going to drive from Fredricton to Calgary and he is moving there. Help I may be too scared to?
go for it girl and goodluck..just do what you feel you want to do..rely on your intuition..and dont ignore it..take care.4years..i guess its about time.
All I can say is don´t go with any expectations other than meeting and putting a live person to the hours of writing you have shared... It´s lovely to meet a friend in person... and if it develops into more then great...
In response to: OMG! my first CS meeting I am going to Fredricton to meet him. I have been talking to him for about 4 years now pretty much since i started here. I am so nervous. We are going to drive from Fredricton to Calgary and he is moving there. Help I may be too scared to?
If you have doubts, recruit a friend to go along.
I do find it strange that you don't have an address for him and could not sent him cards.
The nervousness shouldn't come for the reason that he's an ax murder
It should come more from the possibility that he has a wife or girlfriend who picks up the mail
Fallenangel74: OMG! my first CS meeting I am going to Fredricton to meet him. I have been talking to him for about 4 years now pretty much since i started here. I am so nervous. We are going to drive from Fredricton to Calgary and he is moving there. Help I may be too scared to?
Congratulations , oh I would be nervous too of finally meeting someone that I have talked to for that long, wow I just need one that is interested in talking a good while with me.
Dawn7z: Don't be afraid. It's an adventure. If you have both been able to keep in touch online for four years online that is like forty. Have fun and just approach him as a friend. He obviously is looking forward to meeting you also so you must be very special to each other. Whoo hooo it's almost Spring and love is in the air.
careful girl that in the air stuff just might be carcasses of animals being thawed out from under the snow ,, i however dont kno what love smells like in the spring
Fallenangel74: Update!!! I am not going. He pulled a major red flag moment and i am not going to put myself into that situation even if he was telling the truth....
Fallenangel74: Update!!! I am not going. He pulled a major red flag moment and i am not going to put myself into that situation even if he was telling the truth....
Fallenangel74: Update!!! I am not going. He pulled a major red flag moment and i am not going to put myself into that situation even if he was telling the truth....
If it had to happen better now then when you were alone. Hope all goes well with you and just continue to get to know people in the forums. Never know who might fall into your life. Merky and Slim come to mind. What a sweet CS couple.
sassy49senior: If it had to happen better now then when you were alone. Hope all goes well with you and just continue to get to know people in the forums. Never know who might fall into your life. Merky and Slim come to mind. What a sweet CS couple.
Fallenangel74: Update!!! I am not going. He pulled a major red flag moment and i am not going to put myself into that situation even if he was telling the truth....
jessejess47: well here is the thing ,you could take a friend ,prefrreable malee ,meet in a public place ,in the day for say lunch, do not go any where with him? It does not matter how long you have known him on line you could be just one he has been playing. JMHO
Good Man Dave. I agree with you. Also make sure you leave a photograph of him/her with someone you love, a family member, friend etc. Always make sure that somebody knows that you're going to meet someone that you meet online. Tell your families and friends about your plans. If something, unfortunately, bad happened to you, at least the police may have a lead in the case. As Dave said. JMHO.
But I'm sure all will go well, 4 years is a long time. But its good to be secure along the way.
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
You need to do for you..but you still sound very hesitate..
Pls listen to ur inner self it wont lie to you..
yum yum made some could assumptions here..
I never met Eric until i felt it was good..
Some people are saying wow he waited 4 years and you stil
didnt see him he must really care..
If he really is interested in you he will wait as long as it
takes for you to fully trust and beleive you are very safe
with him..
Just think about it Ok..
SAFETY IS THE MAIN CONCERN HERE..
Your children Nedds a MOTHER