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Jun 25, 2006 7:26 AM CST A persons picture
I have always look for what is in a persons heart, more then what they look like for beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and age and looks doesn't matter, what matters is that it comes from the heart. Anyone disagree or agree?
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Jun 25, 2006 7:30 AM CST A persons picture
greeneyedgal1970
greeneyedgal1970greeneyedgal19706 Threads 410 Posts
I have to agree but looks does help to a point,,,,,,rolling on the floor laughing just kidding. I think all people should speak from the heart. Tell it like you see it. Don't beat around the subject. Like if u are into someone but that person is not really into you, then they should say so, save you time and heart ache and they can get on to find whoever they want.
Same goes if someone was into you but you not into them, tell them.
It is better to be friends than to have none at all.
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Jun 25, 2006 8:39 AM CST A persons picture
steve25
steve25steve25Nerja, Andalusia Spain1 Threads 251 Posts
Sorry to disagree. Age and looks do matter. They are not the only things that matter but they are significant.

There's someone for everyone out there but you can't afford to ignore the age and looks factors when seeking that person.
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Jun 25, 2006 8:45 AM CST A persons picture
ladyluck
ladyluckladyluckToronto, Ontario Canada34 Posts
ofcourse heart is the most important thing i think natural attraction is important and people have to take care of themselves be healthy ultimately though i want to be with someone who resonates with me on the deepest level this makes me physically attractedblushing
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Jun 25, 2006 9:04 AM CST A persons picture
Steve. I disagree with you. I was raised among handicapt people, I am handicapt myself and I don't care what a person looks like or how they are, for it is in their heart and who cares what society thinks. I support greeneyedgirl's responce.
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Jun 25, 2006 9:51 AM CST A persons picture
steve25
steve25steve25Nerja, Andalusia Spain1 Threads 251 Posts
Hi Rock

You have a good point and I respect it.

Just wish everyone thought like you.

But how much chance would you or I have with Angeline Jolie or Jennifer Aniston? No matter how good their hearts.
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Jun 25, 2006 12:00 PM CST A persons picture
Raynew
RaynewRaynewConcord, North Carolina USA99 Threads 2,400 Posts
I have to agree that it is what is on the inside. Maybe back when I was younger looks mattered but now that I'm older and somewhat wiser, I know enough not to judge a book by it's cover
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Jun 25, 2006 12:07 PM CST A persons picture
jimbhoy
jimbhoyjimbhoyHamilton, Strathclyde, Scotland UK80 Threads 2 Polls 4,142 Posts
Angelina was at my house 9 1/2 moths ago but had to dump her cos some guy called brad was stalking uswink jennifer is coming for a visit next weekend. So live in hope stevelaugh
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Jun 25, 2006 12:10 PM CST A persons picture
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
I think age and looks do matter.

AND what's inside the person.

I've been attracted to folks on here from their pictures, but after hearing their thoughts....NOPE.....





I know about the handicapped thing too, since I have a handicapped son - the isolation - being different - a tough row to hoe - for him and for me, his caretaker.
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Jun 25, 2006 12:44 PM CST A persons picture
IrishLass1
IrishLass1IrishLass1Metairie, USA71 Threads 1,998 Posts
I think we are all attracted to a person's physical attributes first, especially when we are online. Then as we get to know them, we decide on whether we like what is inside or not. Why else do people response more to someone that posts a picture then not? And as individuals we all find different things attractive about someone's looks. I mean there are times when someone's picture will peak my interest to look at their profile and what they write will either grab me or disinterest me. This is only my opinion.
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Jun 25, 2006 12:59 PM CST A persons picture
steve25
steve25steve25Nerja, Andalusia Spain1 Threads 251 Posts
Hey Jimbhoy, nine and a half months ago eh? Ooh!

And either you or jennifer are lying cos she's supposed to be here!
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Jun 25, 2006 1:03 PM CST A persons picture
jimbhoy
jimbhoyjimbhoyHamilton, Strathclyde, Scotland UK80 Threads 2 Polls 4,142 Posts
she's only popping in for a couple of hourswink
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Jun 25, 2006 1:03 PM CST A persons picture
steve25
steve25steve25Nerja, Andalusia Spain1 Threads 251 Posts
Hi Arabella, hope you're not talking about me?

Did you drop the laundry to write this?
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Jun 25, 2006 2:56 PM CST A persons picture
I do have a good point steve and how many peoples pictures, posted on this site, are real? Doesn't matter about Jolie or Jennifer, as I look for what is in the heart.
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Jun 25, 2006 3:08 PM CST A persons picture
Jetblackstare
JetblackstareJetblackstareOkanagan Valley, British Columbia Canada9 Threads 366 Posts
A picture lets you know if someone is your 'type'. Looks can draw you in. If you show no personality or substance to back it up, you are not going to create any further interest. I have become attracted to people on the basis of their personality, when I wasn't neccessarily attracted to them physically at first. When you become attracted to someone in other ways, you start to find them more physically attractive. At least that is my experience.
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Jun 25, 2006 3:22 PM CST A persons picture
jetblackstare, what do you think of my photo?
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Jun 28, 2006 9:14 PM CST A persons picture
Jetblackstare
JetblackstareJetblackstareOkanagan Valley, British Columbia Canada9 Threads 366 Posts
You just said looks don't matter, so why do you care what I think? confused
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Jun 28, 2006 9:17 PM CST A persons picture
kentr
kentrkentrniagara falls, Ontario Canada2 Threads 9 Posts
your so right rock5, the eyes do not lie they show the inner person and eyes never age no matter what, its the first thing i look for
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Jun 28, 2006 9:24 PM CST A persons picture
soulmateTWS
soulmateTWSsoulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA8 Threads 4,935 Posts
Eyes are the first thing I notice when I meet someone also. When I was younger-looks mattered a little more than now(I think someone else has said the same thing..)Now that I'm older--what's inside counts more---although attraction helps!!!!
Just my opinion.....:bye:
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Jun 28, 2006 9:41 PM CST A persons picture
on my part i don't look at the age it's just a number i don't look for my beauty prince no one is perfect. eyes either i know what variety of color they come from. well i'm more attracted to the voice and thinking of other's it's nice talking here knowing what other people think but it's just a wisper ti'll you hear them for real and touch them a see them and smell them.
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