I have always look for what is in a persons heart, more then what they look like for beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and age and looks doesn't matter, what matters is that it comes from the heart. Anyone disagree or agree?
I have to agree but looks does help to a point,,,,,, just kidding. I think all people should speak from the heart. Tell it like you see it. Don't beat around the subject. Like if u are into someone but that person is not really into you, then they should say so, save you time and heart ache and they can get on to find whoever they want. Same goes if someone was into you but you not into them, tell them. It is better to be friends than to have none at all.
ofcourse heart is the most important thing i think natural attraction is important and people have to take care of themselves be healthy ultimately though i want to be with someone who resonates with me on the deepest level this makes me physically attracted
Steve. I disagree with you. I was raised among handicapt people, I am handicapt myself and I don't care what a person looks like or how they are, for it is in their heart and who cares what society thinks. I support greeneyedgirl's responce.
I have to agree that it is what is on the inside. Maybe back when I was younger looks mattered but now that I'm older and somewhat wiser, I know enough not to judge a book by it's cover
Angelina was at my house 9 1/2 moths ago but had to dump her cos some guy called brad was stalking us jennifer is coming for a visit next weekend. So live in hope steve
I've been attracted to folks on here from their pictures, but after hearing their thoughts....NOPE.....
I know about the handicapped thing too, since I have a handicapped son - the isolation - being different - a tough row to hoe - for him and for me, his caretaker.
I think we are all attracted to a person's physical attributes first, especially when we are online. Then as we get to know them, we decide on whether we like what is inside or not. Why else do people response more to someone that posts a picture then not? And as individuals we all find different things attractive about someone's looks. I mean there are times when someone's picture will peak my interest to look at their profile and what they write will either grab me or disinterest me. This is only my opinion.
I do have a good point steve and how many peoples pictures, posted on this site, are real? Doesn't matter about Jolie or Jennifer, as I look for what is in the heart.
JetblackstareOkanagan Valley, British Columbia Canada366 posts
A picture lets you know if someone is your 'type'. Looks can draw you in. If you show no personality or substance to back it up, you are not going to create any further interest. I have become attracted to people on the basis of their personality, when I wasn't neccessarily attracted to them physically at first. When you become attracted to someone in other ways, you start to find them more physically attractive. At least that is my experience.
Eyes are the first thing I notice when I meet someone also. When I was younger-looks mattered a little more than now(I think someone else has said the same thing..)Now that I'm older--what's inside counts more---although attraction helps!!!! Just my opinion.....:bye:
on my part i don't look at the age it's just a number i don't look for my beauty prince no one is perfect. eyes either i know what variety of color they come from. well i'm more attracted to the voice and thinking of other's it's nice talking here knowing what other people think but it's just a wisper ti'll you hear them for real and touch them a see them and smell them.
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