Will you forgive the man who has been voilent to you? ( Archived) (116)

Mar 28, 2009 2:41 AM CST Will you forgive the man who has been voilent to you?
FloraFlora
FloraFloraFloraFloraauckland, Auckland New Zealand4 Threads 97 Posts
Girls, will you forgive him?
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Mar 28, 2009 2:43 AM CST Will you forgive the man who has been voilent to you?
sasseez
sasseezsasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1 Threads 3,150 Posts
i forgave to many times and still ended up back in hospital, forgive once no more.doh
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Mar 28, 2009 2:47 AM CST Will you forgive the man who has been voilent to you?
FloraFlora
FloraFloraFloraFloraauckland, Auckland New Zealand4 Threads 97 Posts
There's an old chinese saying, "forgive once and twice but no more times"
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Mar 28, 2009 2:47 AM CST Will you forgive the man who has been voilent to you?
KajunQueen
KajunQueenKajunQueenSomewhere, Louisiana USA18 Threads 630 Posts
Flora,
There is no excuse for violence,but I have been able to forgive.I do not beleive in staying in a relationship if there is violence involved.If your getting abused,get out.It will only get worse unless the person gets counceling.You are way to pretty to be unhappy and getting hurt.You don't deserve that.
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Mar 28, 2009 2:58 AM CST Will you forgive the man who has been voilent to you?
FloraFlora
FloraFloraFloraFloraauckland, Auckland New Zealand4 Threads 97 Posts
KajunQueen: Flora,
There is no excuse for violence,but I have been able to forgive.I do not beleive in staying in a relationship if there is violence involved.If your getting abused,get out.It will only get worse unless the person gets counceling.You are way to pretty to be unhappy and getting hurt.You don't deserve that.


You are right, no one deserves voilence, especially in a relationship where two people are getting together to enjoy the life not to suffer.

Did you forgiveness changed him or it only helped him being more arrogant?
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Mar 28, 2009 2:59 AM CST Will you forgive the man who has been voilent to you?
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
FloraFlora: You are right, no one deserves voilence, especially in a relationship where two people are getting together to enjoy the life not to suffer.

Did you forgiveness changed him or it only helped him being more arrogant?


Not sure if their is a solution to turn a pig into a decent Human Beingconfused
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Mar 28, 2009 3:22 AM CST Will you forgive the man who has been voilent to you?
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
FloraFlora: Girls, will you forgive him?

Forgive or forget???


sorry Mercedes i clicket the wrong line and wiwed your profil
againdoh doh doh
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Mar 28, 2009 3:23 AM CST Will you forgive the man who has been voilent to you?
rusty_knight
rusty_knightrusty_knightGozo, Malta175 Threads 2 Polls 6,840 Posts
You can forgive somebody.

Forgiving somebody is a lot easier if you never have to see them again - ever!¬

grin

'Forgive and forget' is a wonderful thing to strive towards.

It IS possible, but how can you ever forget if seeing a person's face or even hearing their name brings back painful memories?

Forgive them - yes!

Do your best to also 'forget' them!

When a painful remimder of the past hits you in the face, just smile, change the subject, and move on!

Anybody for tennis? batting
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Mar 28, 2009 3:24 AM CST Will you forgive the man who has been voilent to you?
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
FloraFlora: Girls, will you forgive him?



nopeeee and nevaaaaaahhh....i swear to all saints....
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Mar 28, 2009 3:26 AM CST Will you forgive the man who has been voilent to you?
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
BOBANBOBAN: Forgive or forget???sorry Mercedes i clicket the wrong line and wiwed your profil
again


Alls good mateyhug

I will never forgive and I keep that time in my life a closed chapter

I dont beleive that for me to forgive is what it takes to move on..

I dont forgive murderers and rapists doing time so why would I forgive that germthumbs down

Im stronger for the experience though and a little dumb if I was to end up in a relationship as far as making love goes..

But hey their are much peeps off worse tham myselfwave
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Mar 28, 2009 3:26 AM CST Will you forgive the man who has been voilent to you?
rusty_knight
rusty_knightrusty_knightGozo, Malta175 Threads 2 Polls 6,840 Posts
krisha: nopeeee and nevaaaaaahhh....i swear to all saints....


I just spoke to Mother Teresa - ashe told me to say:

'I am a saint. Forgive him.'

That's all she said. She should know. She's going though the papal thingybob process of becoming a saint.
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Mar 28, 2009 3:27 AM CST Will you forgive the man who has been voilent to you?
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
rusty_knight: You can forgive somebody.

Forgiving somebody is a lot easier if you never have to see them again - ever!¬



'Forgive and forget' is a wonderful thing to strive towards.

It IS possible, but how can you ever forget if seeing a person's face or even hearing their name brings back painful memories?

Forgive them - yes!

Do your best to also 'forget' them!

When a painful remimder of the past hits you in the face, just smile, change the subject, and move on!

Anybody for tennis?
Im afraid to say YES on that one uh oh
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Mar 28, 2009 3:30 AM CST Will you forgive the man who has been voilent to you?
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
krisha: nopeeee and nevaaaaaahhh....i swear to all saints....

Father forgiv them coz they dont know what they doing
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Mar 28, 2009 3:33 AM CST Will you forgive the man who has been voilent to you?
FloraFlora
FloraFloraFloraFloraauckland, Auckland New Zealand4 Threads 97 Posts
rusty_knight: You can forgive somebody.

Forgiving somebody is a lot easier if you never have to see them again - ever!¬



'Forgive and forget' is a wonderful thing to strive towards.

It IS possible, but how can you ever forget if seeing a person's face or even hearing their name brings back painful memories?

Forgive them - yes!

Do your best to also 'forget' them!

When a painful remimder of the past hits you in the face, just smile, change the subject, and move on!

Anybody for tennis?



Forgive and Forget, well said.

Colossians 3:13
Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.

angel
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Mar 28, 2009 3:34 AM CST Will you forgive the man who has been voilent to you?
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
FloraFlora: Forgive and Forget, well said.

Colossians 3:13
Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.


Its quite obvious the dear lord wasnt looking down on this little ray of sunshine in Ozangel
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Mar 28, 2009 3:35 AM CST Will you forgive the man who has been voilent to you?
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
rusty_knight: I just spoke to Mother Teresa - ashe told me to say:

'I am a saint. Forgive him.'

That's all she said. She should know. She's going though the papal thingybob process of becoming a saint.






asssuh suree?i dont think so , cause mother theresa cant because of so many hard assshess in her way,,,,, devil
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Mar 28, 2009 3:36 AM CST Will you forgive the man who has been voilent to you?
rusty_knight
rusty_knightrusty_knightGozo, Malta175 Threads 2 Polls 6,840 Posts
BOBANBOBAN: Father forgiv them coz they dont know what they doing


They often know what they are doing.

They are often insecure excuses for men let alone human beings.

They have to live the rest of their lives in the knowledge that they have used brute physical force to try and control women they profess to love.

They should be forgiven, but they should not be allowed the opportunity to continue to spoil the lives of those they claim to love.
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Mar 28, 2009 3:37 AM CST Will you forgive the man who has been voilent to you?
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
rusty_knight: They often know what they are doing.

They are often insecure excuses for men let alone human beings.

They have to live the rest of their lives in the knowledge that they have used brute physical force to try and control women they profess to love.

They should be forgiven, but they should not be allowed the opportunity to continue to spoil the lives of those they claim to love.


Yeah they dont have the balls to stand up to a mancheers
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Mar 28, 2009 3:41 AM CST Will you forgive the man who has been voilent to you?
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
FloraFlora: Girls, will you forgive him?


In short..... NO!! But one shouldn't harbour resentment and bitterness about it, it will only hamper one's life further and then he's won!
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Mar 28, 2009 3:42 AM CST Will you forgive the man who has been voilent to you?
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
rusty_knight: They often know what they are doing.

They are often insecure excuses for men let alone human beings.

They have to live the rest of their lives in the knowledge that they have used brute physical force to try and control women they profess to love.

They should be forgiven, but they should not be allowed the opportunity to continue to spoil the lives of those they claim to love.

Thats the point!!!thumbs up
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