why do couples feel threatenend by sperated people (14)

is it me but some couples rather not invite their sperated freinds who once were couple mmmmmmm

The women get scared....now that you are a freebie....they are conserned that you may be a threat to them.....

hi stefonline yes i felt that in some cases but if their there together wat chances are there of things going astray.......

hi stefonline yes i felt that in some cases but if their there together wat c


Men always go astray....believe me I should know.....it's the cursed drink you know.....

have to say, i think it depends on the couple- I am so glad that since i separated over a year ago, from the start, all my couple freinds still invite me to EVERYTHING- i went to things even when i was the only single person there and was happy for the company of my pals.

they are my friends regardless of whether we are all couples or not and they accept invites to things here too.
I guess it was more because i was the common denominator in our friendships- ie. i made the connections and nurtured them, so why wouldn't i still be in touch with them 'he' could be in touch if he wanted, but isn't,-

the way we are, I would be fine with it if my friends( or their husbands) were still friendly with my ex but he doesn't seem to want that))

As it is... my friends are all happy to meet my new partner and glad to see that he makes me happy

Totally agree Steph....

For example if at a house party....a woman who once was the best of friends with you, will try to without you noticing pull her partner away from you if he is chatting to you.....

i find the same thing happens with me, wot is it with women why do they feel im a threat to them?

I`m always invited into the realms of coupledom.Im single. Apparently I`m not a threat. I dont know how to feel about that

feel happy that your friends see you as just that..a friend- they love you and trust you- you may be desperate or not for a mate, but they realise that you would not break the trust that you have.

Rather than worrying about it, you, and me, should feel honoured that we have true friends that hold our friendship above our relationship is- I have no problem with them being friends with my ex, as long as our friendship remains intact too. because we are sepaRATED, WE SHOULD NOT STOP BEING CIVIL, COMPASSIONATE HUMAN BEINGS.... oops sorry about caps