How Would You React If YOU Meet Your Ex-girlfriend Or Ex-boyfriend? (23)

Mar 28, 2009 3:50 PM CST How Would You React If YOU Meet Your Ex-girlfriend Or Ex-boyfriend?
samisalah
samisalahsamisalahdublin, Dublin Ireland86 Threads 297 Posts
How Would You React If YOU Meet Your Ex-girlfriend Or Ex-boyfriend, Cool and calm or ignore and run? This can happen to anybody who had a relationship in the past except me of course cos i don't have any so far ...touch wood!tongue
Mar 28, 2009 3:56 PM CST How Would You React If YOU Meet Your Ex-girlfriend Or Ex-boyfriend?
Big_John_Deere
Big_John_DeereBig_John_Deeretullamore, Offaly Ireland21 Threads 3 Polls 399 Posts
depends on break up... some of mine id be forced to shout the judge said kepp at least 500 metres away!!!! ah no i wouldnt pass any remarks, be civil of course
Mar 28, 2009 3:57 PM CST How Would You React If YOU Meet Your Ex-girlfriend Or Ex-boyfriend?
chuckles25
chuckles25chuckles25Dublin, Ireland73 Threads 3 Polls 5,479 Posts
Id actually ignore and run,
Mar 28, 2009 4:00 PM CST How Would You React If YOU Meet Your Ex-girlfriend Or Ex-boyfriend?
Big_John_Deere
Big_John_DeereBig_John_Deeretullamore, Offaly Ireland21 Threads 3 Polls 399 Posts
whats the point? all that does is make you the smaller person, i see some of my exes regularly, say hi and have manners...
Mar 28, 2009 4:03 PM CST How Would You React If YOU Meet Your Ex-girlfriend Or Ex-boyfriend?
chuckles25
chuckles25chuckles25Dublin, Ireland73 Threads 3 Polls 5,479 Posts
Big_John_Deere: whats the point? all that does is make you the smaller person, i see some of my exes regularly, say hi and have manners...


well you dnt know my ex,he doesnt have manners towards me so why shud i have manners towards him,
Mar 28, 2009 4:04 PM CST How Would You React If YOU Meet Your Ex-girlfriend Or Ex-boyfriend?
Big_John_Deere
Big_John_DeereBig_John_Deeretullamore, Offaly Ireland21 Threads 3 Polls 399 Posts
well thats different then... if they a reasonable person then id treat with respect, if a bunny boiler psyco id run too
Mar 28, 2009 4:10 PM CST How Would You React If YOU Meet Your Ex-girlfriend Or Ex-boyfriend?
Fraya
FrayaFrayaCork, Ireland1 Threads 3,762 Posts
Id probably be nice and hope for the best........and wish I`d brushed my hair
Mar 28, 2009 4:19 PM CST How Would You React If YOU Meet Your Ex-girlfriend Or Ex-boyfriend?
kg95326
kg95326kg95326Cork, Kerry Ireland33 Threads 858 Posts
Fraya: Id probably be nice and hope for the best........and wish I`d brushed my hair


I see most of my exs regulary. Always smile and be nice and polite. two regret cheating on me, acting civilised makes me feel better. im the better person. dunno
Mar 28, 2009 4:21 PM CST How Would You React If YOU Meet Your Ex-girlfriend Or Ex-boyfriend?
Tamarin
TamarinTamarinsomewhere, Lothian, Scotland UK173 Threads 1 Polls 3,267 Posts
I'de say hi, how are you?
Mar 28, 2009 4:26 PM CST How Would You React If YOU Meet Your Ex-girlfriend Or Ex-boyfriend?
Fraya
FrayaFrayaCork, Ireland1 Threads 3,762 Posts
kg95326: I see most of my exs regulary. Always smile and be nice and polite. two regret cheating on me, acting civilised makes me feel better. im the better person.


I dont hold any animosity what so ever toward my exs....sounds like there have been loads....

I like to be friendly but my ex husband wouldnt piss on me if I was on fire. Needless to say I was the one who did the walking there.
Mar 28, 2009 4:36 PM CST How Would You React If YOU Meet Your Ex-girlfriend Or Ex-boyfriend?
jampet
jampetjampetwexford, Wexford Ireland28 Threads 1 Polls 2,549 Posts
Fraya: I agree absolutely. Ill feeling is a waste of energy and being nice spreads the feel good factor......jez I`ll go polish my halo now.


ha ha- I'm no angel either!!, but i do feel that there is no point making conflict when there is none- like i said, i don't really know how my (separated) husband really feels about it all, but we seem to get along ok and the kids have even expressed the fact that they are used to it all now.
Mar 28, 2009 4:46 PM CST How Would You React If YOU Meet Your Ex-girlfriend Or Ex-boyfriend?
Fraya
FrayaFrayaCork, Ireland1 Threads 3,762 Posts
jampet: ha ha- I'm no angel either!!, but i do feel that there is no point making conflict when there is none- like i said, i don't really know how my (separated) husband really feels about it all, but we seem to get along ok and the kids have even expressed the fact that they are used to it all now.


My kids told me recently they were relieved when the split finally happened (8 yrs ago). They have a good relationship with both of us, but he choses not to be friendly with me. Thats fine with me. However if we meet he`s civil enough.
Mar 28, 2009 4:47 PM CST How Would You React If YOU Meet Your Ex-girlfriend Or Ex-boyfriend?
scorpiosiren
scorpiosirenscorpiosirendrogheda, Louth Ireland24 Threads 1 Polls 1,100 Posts
i just get on with it say hello goodbye wotever
Mar 28, 2009 4:52 PM CST How Would You React If YOU Meet Your Ex-girlfriend Or Ex-boyfriend?
mmmmuntouchable
mmmmuntouchablemmmmuntouchableNorthern ireland, Dublin Ireland10 Threads 309 Posts
it all depends on how it ended etc. if it ended on good terms i always say hi and be polite but if it didnt i hold my head up so high and make hi realise what he's missing he he x JMO cheering
Mar 28, 2009 5:23 PM CST How Would You React If YOU Meet Your Ex-girlfriend Or Ex-boyfriend?
jampet
jampetjampetwexford, Wexford Ireland28 Threads 1 Polls 2,549 Posts
mmmmuntouchable: it all depends on how it ended etc. if it ended on good terms i always say hi and be polite but if it didnt i hold my head up so high and make hi realise what he's missing he he x JMO


ha ha- yers- call me shallow, but if he had dumped me, be sure i would be praying that i never met him when i hadn't just........ had a 'wash and blow dry' /manicure/ makeover/ wearing best clothes/ fully made up/ just lost 2 stone... and if they had come for me on ''''complete Irish makeover''..i could be irish as quick as a flash !!
Mar 28, 2009 6:04 PM CST How Would You React If YOU Meet Your Ex-girlfriend Or Ex-boyfriend?
trapr
traprtraprDundalk/Dublin, Louth Ireland6 Threads 542 Posts
It really depends on how they react.
Mar 28, 2009 6:07 PM CST How Would You React If YOU Meet Your Ex-girlfriend Or Ex-boyfriend?
Fraya
FrayaFrayaCork, Ireland1 Threads 3,762 Posts
trapr: It really depends on how they react.


Yes, for both parties
Mar 28, 2009 7:19 PM CST How Would You React If YOU Meet Your Ex-girlfriend Or Ex-boyfriend?
FriendlyFeline
FriendlyFelineFriendlyFelineMayo, Ireland18 Threads 2,908 Posts
Unless there is a good reason them treat them the same as anyone else, with manners and politeness.
Mar 28, 2009 7:38 PM CST How Would You React If YOU Meet Your Ex-girlfriend Or Ex-boyfriend?
shakademus1
shakademus1shakademus1Dublin, Ireland1 Threads 83 Posts
kg95326: I see most of my exs regulary. Always smile and be nice and polite. two regret cheating on me, acting civilised makes me feel better. im the better person.


Did they all cheat on you?? confused
Mar 28, 2009 8:47 PM CST How Would You React If YOU Meet Your Ex-girlfriend Or Ex-boyfriend?
kg95326
kg95326kg95326Cork, Kerry Ireland33 Threads 858 Posts
shakademus1: Did they all cheat on you??


no. If one cheats on you i think you just lose trust for a lobng time and i never trusted many men since i was cheated on, actually none. Major issues as you're not too slow to point out to everyone here. Thanks conversing confused
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