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Mar 29, 2009 12:47 PM CST Do you really want.....
nfowler
nfowlernfowlernowhere, Washington USA89 Threads 2,634 Posts
Do you really want an intellectual significant other?

OR


Would you pefer someone that thinks a little less about social life?
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Mar 29, 2009 1:08 PM CST Do you really want.....
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
nfowler: Do you really want an intellectual significant other?

ORWould you pefer someone that thinks a little less about social life?



I would like a man who can at least hold his own while having a good conversation...I like to talk a lot about anything under the sun...soooooooo he doesn't have to be intellectual as much as a good conversationalist...I myself am not much good with small talk...I'm more subject oriented...or just like to have a good laugh....wave wink thumbs up
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Mar 29, 2009 1:17 PM CST Do you really want.....
Thalassa
ThalassaThalassaRome, Lazio Italy104 Threads 2,410 Posts
I have always been attracted to a sharp mind, but I don't go for the snooty intellectual snob type....just someone who is intelligent and with whom I can engage in conversation on a variety of topics. I particularly enjoy learning from people who don't know they're teaching me, if that makes sense to you.
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Mar 29, 2009 1:20 PM CST Do you really want.....
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
I just want someone that likes having a conversation about things and doesn't get bent all out of shape if you see something different than him. laugh So someone easy going with life and willing to talk and share their thoughts on anything .applause
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Mar 29, 2009 1:29 PM CST Do you really want.....
Life is a lesson. I have always enjoyed conversations with the intellect's. The stimulation is great for the brain. I will never tolerate superiority over me. I have dated men who have genius IQ's, but they also understand their shortcomings. There is always balance. I have always asked questions and always enjoyed learning.
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Mar 29, 2009 1:51 PM CST Do you really want.....
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
That's the natural course of my life. I just do care you know?drinking
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Mar 29, 2009 1:58 PM CST Do you really want.....
adamisk
adamiskadamiskraleigh, Mississippi USA34 Threads 4 Polls 1,325 Posts
hell i don't know ill come back when i date someone smarter than me and someone less smarter than me .rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 29, 2009 4:08 PM CST Do you really want.....
ladyfingers
ladyfingersladyfingersclovis, nm, New Mexico USA261 Threads 1 Polls 5,456 Posts
mylifewithu: I just want someone that likes having a conversation about things and doesn't get bent all out of shape if you see something different than him. So someone easy going with life and willing to talk and share their thoughts on anything .


I'm with you. I have had the 'bent out of shape' experiences. It tends to make you keep your mouth shut about everything, like walking on egg shells.
Perhaps that is why I am in the forums now. At least I don't have to endure the silence and dirty looks. handshake
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Mar 29, 2009 6:07 PM CST Do you really want.....
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
In response to: Do you really want an intellectual significant other?

ORWould you pefer someone that thinks a little less about social life?



"Not necessarily,I like the strong silent type...
and,someone who can at least lift me off of the
floor and into his arms every now and then...".

help


cheers
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Mar 29, 2009 6:09 PM CST Do you really want.....
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
petalbabe: No, I havent, actually!!

For me, it is a REAL turn on to have an intellectual discussion with my partner, disagree/agree, its all stimulating.

And if you disagree, well, the making up afterwards is sizzzling...

A man's intellect - and I dont mean college diplomas, and exam results, I mean the ability to discuss lots of topics and to be well up with current events etc, is a real plus for me..



I hear ya g/f....and intense heated debate is even better..PRRRRRRRRRRRR......wave wink cats meow smitten grin
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Mar 29, 2009 6:12 PM CST Do you really want.....
rodolpho
rodolphorodolphoamsterdam, North Holland Netherlands30 Threads 3,401 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: I hear ya g/f....and intense heated debate is even better..PRRRRRRRRRRRR......

I just knew it its just a make up routinelaugh
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Mar 29, 2009 6:49 PM CST Do you really want.....
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
nfowler: Do you really want an intellectual significant other?

ORWould you pefer someone that thinks a little less about social life?


I want a significant other who is both intellectual and spiritual, and a bit social...when it's time.
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Mar 29, 2009 6:49 PM CST Do you really want.....
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
rodolpho: I just knew it its just a make up routine



I depends it you just like to intentionally provoke like me....wave wink devil laugh
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Mar 29, 2009 6:53 PM CST Do you really want.....
evilcherryqueen
evilcherryqueenevilcherryqueenRemiss, Michigan USA1 Threads 439 Posts
drinking A man's mind comes first with me. Intellectual, sarcastic, witty, sharp, interesting, complex, able to hold a conversation, able to start a conversation.smitten
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Mar 29, 2009 6:53 PM CST Do you really want.....
Paradox67
Paradox67Paradox67Collegeville, Pennsylvania USA9 Threads 5 Polls 1,170 Posts
Polarbutterfly: "Not necessarily,I like the strong silent type...
and,someone who can at least lift me off of the
floor and into his arms every now and then...".


You could get one of those chairs for elderly people that raise up for that. rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 29, 2009 6:54 PM CST Do you really want.....
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
sasseez: JUST GIVE me a smart witted guy who can hold a decent conversation on lots of topics not just sport and still b gud in bed


"I think we've found one..".



applause
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Mar 29, 2009 6:54 PM CST Do you really want.....
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
jlb684: I have always been attracted to a sharp mind, but I don't go for the snooty intellectual snob type....just someone who is intelligent and with whom I can engage in conversation on a variety of topics. I particularly enjoy learning from people who don't know they're teaching me, if that makes sense to you.


applause Exactly...I prefer someone who can have intelligent conversation, but is down to earth, not the intellectual snob type. Actually, not the snob type at all. I'm too earthy for that. wine
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Mar 29, 2009 6:55 PM CST Do you really want.....
nurcnurc
nurcnurcnurcnurcLongwood, Florida USA6 Threads 1,192 Posts
Yes. But that's not to say every minute of every hour spent together is in serious pursuit of intellectual debate. But, if you can't speak with some authority on issues of importance to each person, then someone may seek "stimulation" elsewhere.
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Mar 29, 2009 6:55 PM CST Do you really want.....
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
Paradox67: You could get one of those chairs for elderly people that raise up for that.
conversing
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Mar 29, 2009 6:56 PM CST Do you really want.....
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
She gotta hav a braine ta hep me wit my speelin.








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