I don't get something, there are times I'll IM somebody. We'll have a great coversation leading me to believe I've made a new friends. Then after maybe one or two talks the girl may decide she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. I wasn't even aware I'd done anything wrong.
It couldn't be the distance problem because many of their profiles say either Friends/Hang Out or Talk/PenPal. A friend or penpal can come from anywhere in the world. I like to think of myself as a nice guy. I'll have maybe ten woman do this or something similar before I find one who'll talk to me.
I don't understand...... Not everybody does this...I've actually made some friends here. I just want to understand why some talk to me, and then suddenly stop.
Some people come into our lives for our strength. You have gifts to give. They will take from you and not return. You as a strong person needs to remember that what you have to give, is so valuable. They are not worthy of knowing you. To use the gifts you offer and not be grateful for them, says who they are. This is the trust of your gifts given, and you are responsible to share them. The gifts of giving to others will produce more than the results of knowing them.
BOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia3,464 posts
Dreamer82: I don't get something, there are times I'll IM somebody. We'll have a great coversation leading me to believe I've made a new friends. Then after maybe one or two talks the girl may decide she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. I wasn't even aware I'd done anything wrong.
It couldn't be the distance problem because many of their profiles say either Friends/Hang Out or Talk/PenPal. A friend or penpal can come from anywhere in the world. I like to think of myself as a nice guy. I'll have maybe ten woman do this or something similar before I find one who'll talk to me.
I don't understand...... Not everybody does this...I've actually made some friends here. I just want to understand why some talk to me, and then suddenly stop.
Befor i startet to post on forums , a girl was IM- ing me for some time,we use to joke ,and then out of the blue she didnt wantet to talk to me, i send her a few mail/flower,and nothing
so i guess the sky is still blue the water is still wet and girls will alvais have secrets!!!
SirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK4,138 posts
I think this is one of the biggest frustrations of the internet.
Whereas in 'real life' you can sometimes get a feel from how someone feels about you, on line you do not have the face or body langage to read to give you clues.
Although saying that, I have met a guy after talking to him on line and although we seemed to get along ok, he felt comfortable enough to tell me his woes!, instead of further chats or meets he had just blocked me with no explanation.
Dreamer82: I don't get something, there are times I'll IM somebody. We'll have a great coversation leading me to believe I've made a new friends. Then after maybe one or two talks the girl may decide she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. I wasn't even aware I'd done anything wrong.
It couldn't be the distance problem because many of their profiles say either Friends/Hang Out or Talk/PenPal. A friend or penpal can come from anywhere in the world. I like to think of myself as a nice guy. I'll have maybe ten woman do this or something similar before I find one who'll talk to me.
I don't understand...... Not everybody does this...I've actually made some friends here. I just want to understand why some talk to me, and then suddenly stop.
Their Husband just asked who the HELL are you talking too!! Don't bash yourself up about it all worry! Woman are the secret to the Universe and this secret man will never know!
had this guy on another site a little while back now and we had hit it off like u wouldnt believe, had talked online laughed and chatted 4 quite a long while tnen all of a sudden he was gone..i e-mail him 2 ask if all was well and make sure i didnt inadvertantly say something i shouldnt have,he mails back that all is well and noooo i never said a thing wrong etc , but guess wot ..havnt heard from him since...although it cut a little at the time iv come 2 realise that this is juz part and parcel of the internet dating thing....no matter how good a person u are...u juz cant plz every1
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: Some people come into our lives for our strength. You have gifts to give. They will take from you and not return. You as a strong person needs to remember that what you have to give, is so valuable. They are not worthy of knowing you. To use the gifts you offer and not be grateful for them, says who they are. This is the trust of your gifts given, and you are responsible to share them. The gifts of giving to others will produce more than the results of knowing them.
its happened to any one,even to women.just ask her first she would like to be one of your friend,2nd,talk about some topic that she will not offend or just observed her what topic she like to talk...then u managed....
Dreamer82: I don't get something, there are times I'll IM somebody. We'll have a great coversation leading me to believe I've made a new friends. Then after maybe one or two talks the girl may decide she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. I wasn't even aware I'd done anything wrong.
It couldn't be the distance problem because many of their profiles say either Friends/Hang Out or Talk/PenPal. A friend or penpal can come from anywhere in the world. I like to think of myself as a nice guy. I'll have maybe ten woman do this or something similar before I find one who'll talk to me.
I don't understand...... Not everybody does this...I've actually made some friends here. I just want to understand why some talk to me, and then suddenly stop.
Dreamer82: I don't get something, there are times I'll IM somebody. We'll have a great coversation leading me to believe I've made a new friends. Then after maybe one or two talks the girl may decide she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. I wasn't even aware I'd done anything wrong.
It couldn't be the distance problem because many of their profiles say either Friends/Hang Out or Talk/PenPal. A friend or penpal can come from anywhere in the world. I like to think of myself as a nice guy. I'll have maybe ten woman do this or something similar before I find one who'll talk to me.
I don't understand...... Not everybody does this...I've actually made some friends here. I just want to understand why some talk to me, and then suddenly stop.
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It couldn't be the distance problem because many of their profiles say either Friends/Hang Out or Talk/PenPal. A friend or penpal can come from anywhere in the world. I like to think of myself as a nice guy. I'll have maybe ten woman do this or something similar before I find one who'll talk to me.
I don't understand...... Not everybody does this...I've actually made some friends here. I just want to understand why some talk to me, and then suddenly stop.