virgiomonkey: ................ .......Awesome...Love it......Hmmmmm.....I have an feeling that the C.S Moderators are going to put into 'Jail' again for two days....Who cares...!!!L.O.L
J.D
Never been in jail mate...too clever for them...more women in jail ova here than men...wonder why...
When loving parents are separated like this from their children.
in my opinion the world is divided into to types of people that being
parents and non parents
I have to say I applaud all people (mostly very young people with little life experience) who become parents and then set about doing the best they can with no knowledge of what the hell the job is really and truly about but do their best with all good intentions to right the wrong of our fathers and try so hard to get it right....I admire them whether they be single (much harder) or in a relationship.....
the non parents just haven't a clue...and can remain selfish for ever JMO of course...
I feel you girl! I have a new 3 month old abdolutely wonderful son. It's got it's difficult moments but you know what it all pays off when he looks up at me and smiles. The parent that is not involved is the one who looses out. Enjoy your daughter and know that when the time is right GOD will put the right man in your life.
AutumnFierce: I think being a single parent is one of the hardest things. I dont think we get enough credit, its not hard enough to be a women but now Im a single mom because my daughters father can't grow and MAN up. It sucks. and its just not fair. He gets to walk away with no problem and act like he never met us and I am stuck here trying to do the best I can and it seems like its never the best for my Beautiful Daughter.. Does anyone else feel me on single parenting? It's hard, stressful and exhausting. Im hoping to meet some nice people on this website. local people so we can hangout. :)PEACE.
eve1woman: in my opinion the world is divided into to types of people that being
parents and non parents
I have to say I applaud all people (mostly very young people with little life experience) who become parents and then set about doing the best they can with no knowledge of what the hell the job is really and truly about but do their best with all good intentions to right the wrong of our fathers and try so hard to get it right....I admire them whether they be single (much harder) or in a relationship.....
the non parents just haven't a clue...and can remain selfish for ever JMO of course...
Eve.
Yes. Good points and views there. I was a mother at 20, I have enjoyed my time rearing them, now they are on their own road, travelling.
I admire parents who face up to the responsibility of being a parent, I have little time for people who use their children as emotional missiles and contribute to good loving relationship between parents and children being eroded because of money, bitterness and all the other emotional goings on when two parents part company.
One thing I have always maintained is that my children have a healthy balaced relationship with their father and by god did we have a spectacular end to our marriage, but we now are parents of the smae children and we have a mutual respect for each other in that regard.
Young or older parents, I enjoy listening to and reading from.
For those who are not parents, doesn't mean I will not listen and read their views. I have a partner who does not have children, yet I will ask him for advice and appreciate his input.
Doesn't have to take a parent to understand where we are coming from, it takes a sensible, balanced and levelled person to understand we are as individuals.
.....Whoa....really Sommer....what did you do to deserve that....sorry I had to ask....hope you don't mind....Oh can I do my detention on Thursday night.....please....
virgiomonkey: .....Whoa....really Sommer....what did you do to deserve that....sorry I had to ask....hope you don't mind....Oh can I do my detention on Thursday night.....please....
J.D
I don't mind you asking at all.
My ban was correct and I deserved it. I was rude and offensive to a lady and I was banned for it.
Thing is, the very lady and I are now friends.
So all was not lost. A month, I was banned for, none of this 48 hours stuff with me.
I deserved it, lost my priviledge to post and I blame nobody for that only myself.
Yes. Good points and views there. I was a mother at 20, I have enjoyed my time rearing them, now they are on their own road, travelling.
I admire parents who face up to the responsibility of being a parent, I have little time for people who use their children as emotional missiles and contribute to good loving relationship between parents and children being eroded because of money, bitterness and all the other emotional goings on when two parents part company.
One thing I have always maintained is that my children have a healthy balanced relationship with their father and by god did we have a spectacular end to our marriage, but we now are parents of the same children and we have a mutual respect for each other in that regard.
Young or older parents, I enjoy listening to and reading from.
For those who are not parents, doesn't mean I will not listen and read their views. I have a partner who does not have children, yet I will ask him for advice and appreciate his input.
Doesn't have to take a parent to understand where we are coming from, it takes a sensible, balanced and levelled person to understand we are as individuals.
Hope Dublin is kind to you tonight.
well said and I admire the way you and your ex handled things and got to where you are not an easy feat...love reading your posts you are a very clever lady...and you make a lot of sense to me.
in our marriage break up we also were both together on keeping our daughters well being a priority etc,. and today we both love and support our girls to the hilt. Sadly with my sons father the story has not been the same...I had to work much harder at protecting him from all the crap but hey I have done my best and I do have three very well and happy children for which I am truly grateful....thanks for sharing your wisdom and experiences I do love to learn....
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
J.D
Never been in jail mate...too clever for them...more women in jail ova here than men...wonder why...