Why not send fotos ( Archived) (9)

Apr 23, 2009 2:23 PM CST Why not send fotos
omwebela
omwebelaomwebelaDublin, Ireland1 Threads 4 Posts
Amazing how someone views others fotos and even communicates but is not willing to send theirs> I know its not by force, but how does the next person know who they are communicating with? A picture will tell half the story you know?confused
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Apr 23, 2009 2:35 PM CST Why not send fotos
Snuggs09
Snuggs09Snuggs09Somewhere, New Jersey USA128 Threads 1 Polls 2,615 Posts
omwebela: Amazing how someone views others fotos and even communicates but is not willing to send theirs> I know its not by force, but how does the next person know who they are communicating with? A picture will tell half the story you know?


HI OM. A picture only tells what they look like and it might not even be the person. That's not fair that someone won't send you their photo. Do you have any idea why that is?
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Apr 23, 2009 2:43 PM CST Why not send fotos
RobbieM
RobbieMRobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK115 Threads 6 Polls 4,553 Posts
I'll give you an example of an experience i had after xmas.

Someone i was just talking to (no romantic interest expressed whatsoever)started being pushy and kept on and on and on asking for my photo to know who she was speaking to.

Then she kept on and on about my appearance on the forums and i just gave up when she overstepped the mark one day.

Sometimes it's easier if you have no face, especially if your not interested!

I'm sure anyone without a photo would be more than happy to send their photo to anyone they actually like.

Personally i know a lack of photo may not be for the reason that someones unattractive, mostly it's a case of liking their privacy, and i don't blame them!
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Apr 23, 2009 3:19 PM CST Why not send fotos
ladyfingers
ladyfingersladyfingersclovis, nm, New Mexico USA261 Threads 1 Polls 5,456 Posts
RobbieM: I'll give you an example of an experience i had after xmas.

Someone i was just talking to (no romantic interest expressed whatsoever)started being pushy and kept on and on and on asking for my photo to know who she was speaking to.

Then she kept on and on about my appearance on the forums and i just gave up when she overstepped the mark one day.

Sometimes it's easier if you have no face, especially if your not interested!

I'm sure anyone without a photo would be more than happy to send their photo to anyone they actually like.

Personally i know a lack of photo may not be for the reason that someones unattractive, mostly it's a case of liking their privacy, and i don't blame them!


My cat has expressed an interest in your cats...providing they are females.
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Apr 29, 2009 2:23 PM CST Why not send fotos
omwebela
omwebelaomwebelaDublin, Ireland1 Threads 4 Posts
i have a slight idea. To me its like lack of cnfidence. Some people are 2 scared to have someone have an opinion about them - hence they stay in the cocoons. A clever person has said "Beuaty is in the eyeof the beholder"- somewhere someone will find u attractive - no point hiding!banana
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Apr 29, 2009 2:29 PM CST Why not send fotos
omwebela
omwebelaomwebelaDublin, Ireland1 Threads 4 Posts
Wel that is true in a sense. I suppose everyone has their reasons, but its diff when someone shows interest to an extend on making comments about you and even asking if you would like to meet etc. u know. I dont normally spend more time with such contacts. As for privacy?? eh, wel I get it.

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Apr 29, 2009 2:32 PM CST Why not send fotos
whitesoul
whitesoulwhitesoulrome, Lazio Italy6 Threads 142 Posts
RobbieM: I'll give you an example of an experience i had after xmas.

Someone i was just talking to (no romantic interest expressed whatsoever)started being pushy and kept on and on and on asking for my photo to know who she was speaking to.

Then she kept on and on about my appearance on the forums and i just gave up when she overstepped the mark one day.

Sometimes it's easier if you have no face, especially if your not interested!

I'm sure anyone without a photo would be more than happy to send their photo to anyone they actually like.

Personally i know a lack of photo may not be for the reason that someones unattractive, mostly it's a case of liking their privacy, and i don't blame them!


Hi rob, how you doing mate? wave

If your scared of your privace why then be a all on dating sites? it was meant to make somebody come into your private life and get to know you, no?
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Apr 29, 2009 2:36 PM CST Why not send fotos
LadyBlackAdder
LadyBlackAdderLadyBlackAdderKillarney, Kerry Ireland24 Threads 2,355 Posts
whitesoul: Hi rob, how you doing mate?

If your scared of your privace why then be a all on dating sites? it was meant to make somebody come into your private life and get to know you, no?


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Apr 29, 2009 2:43 PM CST Why not send fotos
DazzleYou
DazzleYouDazzleYouSeattle, WA, Washington USA39 Threads 1 Polls 836 Posts
I had my pictures on but took them off after my aneurysm and subsequent head surgeries.

I have no hair now and am in the state of recovery, thus the photos were taken off.

However, I agree, if someone doesn't have their photo up, I am not interested in talking with them.
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