age?? or the values one has?? ( Archived) (19)

I may have past thiry, fourty and in another year even fifty, but my values are the same as when I was younger. I don't believe in the material things in showing one how much they are cared about, but I do believe in the free things which come from the heart. I believe in honesty, comversation, one on one committment, I also believe two people who work together, and play together, stay together. I have worked all my life, and still do work full time, have been at my job now for 20 years. Have been divorced for about 18 years, and just haven't been able to meet anyone who wants to settle down and have a one on one relationship filled with love, am I in such changing times, that there is no one out there like that anymore??, is there no one out there who wants to grow old together with unseparateable love, and committment?? I am curious

theres plenty of guys,some on this very forum,looking for all those things.you just have to weed the garden so you can see the flowers. welcome nana.

If you find those kind of gentlemen pass some along my way please! Robin

There out there hun, alot of guys are looking for that. As cute said- u have to weed through the garden.

seeing is believing, when I actually have a guy in my arms and he has his arms around me I'll believe it!

Those "old-fashioned values" sound awfully familiar...If I hadn't finally given up all hope and resigned myself to ending up a bitter,lonely old fool, I'd have said, even up to just a few years ago, that ,Yes, to me those simple yet priceless values were what I cared about and had looked for. Some find them, some do not; some are lucky, others are not. So is Life. No one promised us rose gardens...

I am so glad to hear, that are still people out there with values, both men and women. As for you solitare, please don't be bitter, and I am sure you are no fool. I was bitter for a long time, but found it only ate at me, because my ex had moved on with his life, and had someone to spend his day, nites, weekends and holidays with. The funny part is that he has found she is not cracked up to what she had put on that she was, oh well, guess the grass isn't always greener on the other side of the fence.

angelnana you will be fine love.

I agree with you on alot of what you said....And I would love to meet someone and fall in love with them but have you heard the saying ....If you play if fire you will get burnedLOVE I'm a great person but will not let my wall down to get burned again.... Does that make me wrong or right