If men are so sorry, why do you want one...ladies? (59)
druidess6308: Then WTF would he care at that time what others thought of him? I sure didn't give a crap what anyone thought of me when my husband was dying. It wasn't even on my radar to wonder what anyone thought of my looks, or how I was dressed.
He did not care....but people still found the pleasure of disrespecting a fellow human......who was a damn good fellow.
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RillyNiceGuy: I am overweight.....and I most likely spelled something wrong or used bad grammar......so I'll leave you perfect ladies alone for sure....I don't want to inflict myself on you!I do not lack self esteem....I just get tired of the pot calling the kettle black.Now why do you want one of us sorry pieces of crap anyway and just what do YOU have to offer the perfect man when you find HIM.
Enjoying that Grape Fruit?
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CaptainBeirutIII: Enjoying that Grape Fruit?
It happens to be grapes and banana.------ This thread is Archived ------
Blaming others is so weak!
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well the matter of a weight problem does not always come from over eating and i kno i wouldnt settle for an apple or an orange for lunch lol
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RillyNiceGuy: It happens to be grapes and banana.
Don't eat the bend-y ones with the peal on.
(just having a wee bit of fun, don't take it serious)
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RillyNiceGuy: He did not care....but people still found the pleasure of disrespecting a fellow human......who was a damn good fellow.
And why did he care? I still don't get it. I don't care what others think of me. I am who I am, and I like me...if others do too, great. If not, still great. I understand that we all like to be accepted and respected, and yes, I'm human...I just don't let it get to me if people don't do so. My respect and worth come from inside of me, Rilly. When they do, others seem to see and feel it, and respond accordingly.
Small-minded people like those who disrespected the plumber with the dying wife aren't worth paying mind to, my friend.
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buzzy: Blaming others is so weak!
Not me!
If you ever knew the effects of poor self esteem of people caused by others....you would understand. It causes people to do bad things to others and to themselves. If you were treated in ways long enough....you would get depressed and would not hit a lick at a snake. The mind focus on only bad will destroy a person. If you don't understand this, read some books on selfesteem and maybe compassion will grow from the understanding.
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This reminds me of a lady that I work with. She blames the three different men she banged for giving her her three kids and how she needs welfare to support them. HELLO! You are the one who allowed them. That is what I told her too. Everyone in the department clapped. One lady said, "Finally, someone with the guts to tell her the truth!" She quit several days later for recieving a level 3 discipline report for calling out 5 days in one month. Again, she blames the department head for being mean to her. 
Lady, there are rules to follow. If you don't follow them then there are consequences for your behavior! No job, and three kids and no dad to help raise them. Her choices.
Lady, there are rules to follow. If you don't follow them then there are consequences for your behavior! No job, and three kids and no dad to help raise them. Her choices.------ This thread is Archived ------
RillyNiceGuy: Not me!If you ever knew the effects of poor self esteem of people caused by others....you would understand. It causes people to do bad things to others and to themselves. If you were treated in ways long enough....you would get depressed and would not hit a lick at a snake. The mind focus on only bad will destroy a person. If you don't understand this, read some books on selfesteem and maybe compassion will grow from the understanding.
I do know Rilly! But, I made the choice to change that! HELLO!
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RillyNiceGuy: Some do not have the ability to find a way out of poor esteem and their lives are altered forever. But if the teacher had taken him in private to help him instead of feeding her ego in front of the class.....maybe he could have overcome the poor life that overwhelmed him already. But being call that to his face everyday about 20 times each day from the third grade until high school....was a lot to deal with on top of the other. He worked.....but gave up! He did well compared to others who have gone postal for such treatment.
This is true, and I know many like this. Most are alcoholics and/or drug addicts, and I feel for them. I've also walked in those shoes. However, I made choices and changed my life. And I acknowledge that the when I was walking in those shoes, it was also my choice. I'm in charge of my life, not others.
Honestly, with all that I've posted on here over the past several months about my experiences, it's the tip of the iceberg of what I've been through...so I really can relate to someone like your friend. I still say, how we let it affect us is our choice.
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I did not say he cared....it was to show people they should not judge and make light of people at their expense not knowing the causes.
druidess6308: And why did he care? I still don't get it. I don't care what others think of me. I am who I am, and I like me...if others do too, great. If not, still great. I understand that we all like to be accepted and respected, and yes, I'm human...I just don't let it get to me if people don't do so. My respect and worth come from inside of me, Rilly. When they do, others seem to see and feel it, and respond accordingly.
Small-minded people like those who disrespected the plumber with the dying wife aren't worth paying mind to, my friend.
Small-minded people like those who disrespected the plumber with the dying wife aren't worth paying mind to, my friend.
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RillyNiceGuy: I am overweight.....and I most likely spelled something wrong or used bad grammar......so I'll leave you perfect ladies alone for sure....I don't want to inflict myself on you!I do not lack self esteem....I just get tired of the pot calling the kettle black.Now why do you want one of us sorry pieces of crap anyway and just what do YOU have to offer the perfect man when you find HIM.
As you all know i am pefect
and the wimmin............ oh those beaytiful wimmin
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buzzy: I do know Rilly! But, I made the choice to change that! HELLO!
Some don't have the base fight to overcome and lack the tools of knowledge. They can't even begin. it is sad!------ This thread is Archived ------
RillyNiceGuy: Some don't have the base fight to overcome and lack the tools of knowledge. They can't even begin. it is sad!
I don't agree with that Rilly. The knowledge to change is there for all. They choose not to change because they live in their commfort zone. To change is too scary for them. Again, their choice.
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Is it so bad that a person has a flaw that is tiny and to be a turn off to someone who has a bigger flaw.
We men and women tear each other apart and we learn to dislike each other, with disrespect.............why don't we work on our own flaws and not judge others for theirs. Learn to be worthy of the love and capassion we seek to find.
We men and women tear each other apart and we learn to dislike each other, with disrespect.............why don't we work on our own flaws and not judge others for theirs. Learn to be worthy of the love and capassion we seek to find.
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Hey, Rilly, where has your nice pic gone? 
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Thats it! comfort zone and the fear of worse. It is their choice, and the only way is for a motivation of better or worse to move them. Without that motivation....they stay for no reason to make a change. It is the actions of others that can place a person there or motivate them out. We as a people....make the monsters of the news by cruel remarks and judging to those unable to handle them.
buzzy: I don't agree with that Rilly. The knowledge to change is there for all. They choose not to change because they live in their commfort zone. To change is too scary for them. Again, their choice.
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RillyNiceGuy: Is it so bad that a person has a flaw that is tiny and to be a turn off to someone who has a bigger flaw.
We men and women tear each other apart and we learn to dislike each other, with disrespect.............why don't we work on our own flaws and not judge others for theirs. Learn to be worthy of the love and capassion we seek to find.
We men and women tear each other apart and we learn to dislike each other, with disrespect.............why don't we work on our own flaws and not judge others for theirs. Learn to be worthy of the love and capassion we seek to find.
A small flaw to you, may be a large flaw to somone else. Yes, we do need to work on and change the flaws we don't like in ourselves. To hear someone always blaming others for their lot in lfe, and not doing anything to change it is a real turnoff to me. And a flaw I do not want to deal with in my life. Been there, done that. Never again.
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When I was in third grade we moved from an extremely rural area to one that was more populated, and that school was far ahead of us in the times tables in math. I didn't catch up in third grade, and when I got into fourth grade still behind like that, I had a teacher who decided that I was stupid. She told me so in front of the class, and never helped me that year. I didn't grow up considering myself stupid because of her.
Some do not have the ability to find a way out of poor esteem and their lives are altered forever. But if the teacher had taken him in private to help him instead of feeding her ego in front of the class.....maybe he could have overcome the poor life that overwhelmed him already. But being call that to his face everyday about 20 times each day from the third grade until high school....was a lot to deal with on top of the other. He worked.....but gave up! He did well compared to others who have gone postal for such treatment.