is it better to get your heart broken by several different guys or by just the one person? ( Archived) (85)

Apr 30, 2009 6:09 PM CST is it better to get your heart broken by several different guys or by just the one person?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
RayfromUSA: I don't know about that.
Sometimes getting our heart broken is a way to wake us up about our values and priorities.

As I teen I got hurt several times because I was chasing after the wrong kind of girls.

As a result, I missed out on some girls who were much more my type. I just didn't realize it at the time.

Getting hurt a few times helped me sort out my priorities and understand what really is and isn't worth pursuing.


I like this post, alot.
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Apr 30, 2009 8:01 PM CST is it better to get your heart broken by several different guys or by just the one person?
retroprincess
retroprincessretroprincessleek, Staffordshire, England UK183 Posts
all heart break is painful so not much difference , ive had my heart broken twice and the second time was worse simply because i loved him more than the first one
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Apr 30, 2009 9:00 PM CST is it better to get your heart broken by several different guys or by just the one person?
g33kgurl
g33kgurlg33kgurlMelbourne, Victoria Australia41 Threads 1,995 Posts
Big_John: Go to the book store and buy your friend this:

Emotionally Abused Woman: Overcoming Destructive Patterns and Reclaiming Yourself -- by Beverly Engel.

Gift wrap it and ask her to open her gift when she is by herself.


thanks big john!! typing motorcycle
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Apr 30, 2009 9:03 PM CST is it better to get your heart broken by several different guys or by just the one person?
g33kgurl
g33kgurlg33kgurlMelbourne, Victoria Australia41 Threads 1,995 Posts
morgan5: if the same guy keeps doing it again and again , i see it that i would dumb to allow him to keep doing it, and see myself as a door mat.


im with you there morgan! hurt me once, shame on you... hurt me twice... shame on me..
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Apr 30, 2009 9:04 PM CST is it better to get your heart broken by several different guys or by just the one person?
g33kgurl
g33kgurlg33kgurlMelbourne, Victoria Australia41 Threads 1,995 Posts
RayfromUSA: I don't know about that.
Sometimes getting our heart broken is a way to wake us up about our values and priorities.

As I teen I got hurt several times because I was chasing after the wrong kind of girls.

As a result, I missed out on some girls who were much more my type. I just didn't realize it at the time.

Getting hurt a few times helped me sort out my priorities and understand what really is and isn't worth pursuing.


good one ray! handshake handshake handshake
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Apr 30, 2009 9:06 PM CST is it better to get your heart broken by several different guys or by just the one person?
g33kgurl
g33kgurlg33kgurlMelbourne, Victoria Australia41 Threads 1,995 Posts
Ocee35: Lets look at the pro's and cons...

Same guy repeatedly:
Pro: You have time to plot revenge in advance.
Con: You feel like and idiot.A new guy each time:
Pro: He doesn't know about your left hook.
Con: You feel like a revolving door for idiots.
Looks like personal choice to me.


hehehehe - oc33!! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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May 1, 2009 3:31 AM CST is it better to get your heart broken by several different guys or by just the one person?
pesh121
pesh121pesh121Manila, Metro Manila Philippines30 Threads 2 Polls 435 Posts
g33kgurl: a mate of mine has had her heart broken by one guy several times over 7 years... is it better to get your heart broken over and over again by the one man over 7 years or a number of guys instead?


neither, being heartbroken doesnt become better no matter if it was broken by only one man or many.,.still you end up the same..i think it just makes it worst if you get hurt by one man over and over again..aside from the pain..there will be no more self respect left..because you allowed yourself to be in that situation repeatedly
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May 1, 2009 3:41 AM CST is it better to get your heart broken by several different guys or by just the one person?
Shymedoh
ShymedohShymedohClose to Edinburgh., Central, Scotland UK168 Posts
Polarbutterfly: "It's never a good thing to get
your heart broken by anyone."


wine
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May 1, 2009 4:25 AM CST is it better to get your heart broken by several different guys or by just the one person?
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
Strangest thing is we speak of broken hearts yet our hearts go on beating in same beats and rythmnheart beating

To me its more of ones spirit and soul that feels broken and I dont wish for once let alone numerous times for that to happen to human beings whom are decent caring beingscheering
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May 1, 2009 4:30 AM CST is it better to get your heart broken by several different guys or by just the one person?
CaptainBeirutIII
CaptainBeirutIIICaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK95 Threads 1 Polls 1,186 Posts
g33kgurl: morning capt.


Morning.

It's a great day here.
All I need is a kangaroo to carry me to a wine-bar offering red free of charge, and it will be perfect.
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May 1, 2009 5:12 AM CST is it better to get your heart broken by several different guys or by just the one person?
g33kgurl
g33kgurlg33kgurlMelbourne, Victoria Australia41 Threads 1,995 Posts
CaptainBeirutIII: Morning.

It's a great day here.
All I need is a kangaroo to carry me to a wine-bar offering red free of charge, and it will be perfect.


lol - im sure the skippy wont mind..
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May 1, 2009 9:36 AM CST is it better to get your heart broken by several different guys or by just the one person?
No1knows1
No1knows1No1knows1Rockhampton, Queensland Australia182 Posts
sasseez: better getting broken by several at least u wouldnt feel like u were wasted on one nob and didnt try other ppl.


I would agree with this!
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May 1, 2009 7:10 PM CST is it better to get your heart broken by several different guys or by just the one person?
g33kgurl
g33kgurlg33kgurlMelbourne, Victoria Australia41 Threads 1,995 Posts
No1knows1: I would agree with this!


morning no1! wave wave wave
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May 1, 2009 7:23 PM CST is it better to get your heart broken by several different guys or by just the one person?
drbombay
drbombaydrbombayStaten Island, New York USA42 Threads 5,391 Posts
In response to: a mate of mine has had her heart broken by one guy several times over 7 years... is it better to get your heart broken over and over again by the one man over 7 years or a number of guys instead?
It's never better to have your heart broke, I would rather have all my teeth pulled without anesthesia. Old addage, better to haved loved and lost then never loved at all, that's like murphy's law to me and when I catch that SOB, he's dead.comfort hug cheers
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May 1, 2009 7:30 PM CST is it better to get your heart broken by several different guys or by just the one person?
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
drbombay: It's never better to have your heart broke, I would rather have all my teeth pulled without anesthesia. Old addage, better to haved loved and lost then never loved at all, that's like murphy's law to me and when I catch that SOB, he's dead.
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
People say that and I am just kidding when I remember the saying 'If you love some, set them free' and I really like the one ' if you love some, set them free and if they don't come back , hunt them down and kill them'laugh
I am totally joking of course.teddybear lips
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May 2, 2009 3:33 AM CST is it better to get your heart broken by several different guys or by just the one person?
g33kgurl
g33kgurlg33kgurlMelbourne, Victoria Australia41 Threads 1,995 Posts
Arlene101: People say that and I am just kidding when I remember the saying 'If you love some, set them free' and I really like the one ' if you love some, set them free and if they don't come back , hunt them down and kill them'
I am totally joking of course.



LMAO LMAO! completely agree! hi arlene! wave wave wave
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May 2, 2009 4:13 AM CST is it better to get your heart broken by several different guys or by just the one person?
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts
g33kgurl: a mate of mine has had her heart broken by one guy several times over 7 years... is it better to get your heart broken over and over again by the one man over 7 years or a number of guys instead?


I think...I feel hurt ...not only one person..evenif friends....
I do not know...that related with your feeling....even if good or not good..you feel that way....bouquet bouquet
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May 13, 2009 2:52 PM CST is it better to get your heart broken by several different guys or by just the one person?
petiteone
petiteonepetiteonePaola, Kansas USA19 Posts
Sometimes, it takes a while for us to learn hard and painful lessons. I met a guy here on this website that hurt me real bad.
I cannot go into it. I don't know if I can handle another guy breaking my heart. I am still trying to heal from the last relationship.
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May 13, 2009 6:01 PM CST is it better to get your heart broken by several different guys or by just the one person?
g33kgurl
g33kgurlg33kgurlMelbourne, Victoria Australia41 Threads 1,995 Posts
petiteone: Sometimes, it takes a while for us to learn hard and painful lessons. I met a guy here on this website that hurt me real bad.
I cannot go into it. I don't know if I can handle another guy breaking my heart. I am still trying to heal from the last relationship.


im sorry to hear that petite.. it does take a while to heal. but feeling the hurt i think is essential for one to be over that person. otherwise, we tend to make the same mistakes over and over again..
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May 13, 2009 6:10 PM CST is it better to get your heart broken by several different guys or by just the one person?
sambhava
sambhavasambhavaVasteras, Vastmanland Sweden3 Threads 1 Polls 584 Posts
I think a number of guys would be far more rewarding in the long run simply because there'd be more variation and hence less boredom along with the heartbreak.
g33kgurl: a mate of mine has had her heart broken by one guy several times over 7 years... is it better to get your heart broken over and over again by the one man over 7 years or a number of guys instead?
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