It's been easier to trust men then before. I have had times in my life when I was more vulnerable. I hungered to be loved so much to the point, that I didn't care whether it was a healthy relationship. I respect and love myself more these days, to know I deserve a good man. I have been hurt a lot in the past, but know now that all men are not jerks. All men are not out to hurt a woman. We all are human, and make mistakes.
Sometimes, it takes a while for us to learn hard and painful lessons. I met a guy here on this website that hurt me real bad. I cannot go into it. I don't know if I can handle another guy breaking my heart. I am still trying to heal from the last relationship.
I had a real experience with internet dating. Met a guy on this website, who lied in every way. He claimed he was a American, but was working out in Nigeria. Typical claim that a scammer will make. Be careful. People can be so deceitful, not mainly men but also women too.
To me, love is really terrifying. I met a guy here who totally lied to me in so many ways. He scammed me, and used me. I have a boyfriend who lives here locally, and is so good to me. I will take that one day at a time, and see what happens. I have been married twice, and am not really sure what love is. Please, someone explain.
I agree. I do not like guys who play games. That is leading a woman on, playing with her heart. Women do the same too. Let's not use others, be a good friend and see where it goes from there. This is what I am learning these days.
I don't know. I have been married twice, and for some reason I still don't know what love is. They both didn't love me. I do but am not sure. I hope and pray that is possible.
Hello; I would recommend that you be careful here, cause there are some people that scam others here and other dating websites. There are not only men that do this, but men too. Nigeria and Russia i think are the two main places this is taking place. Be Careful
Hello; sometimes, distance can be a big problem. I met a guy on this website back in July, and was scammed. So, ladies be careful whoever you meet here online that lives real faraway. I do not want to see others get here like I did. They are real sly, and sneaky. Take Care
I agree 100%. I met a guy here online that is out in Nigeria, and is American. When I just met him, he has told me many times and still does that he loves me so much and calls me "My Love" Unfornately; I got sucked in. Never again. How can anyone really know. He was suppose to come out here. He kept putting it off. I don't want to get hurt like that ever again.
Did you meet your girlfriend on the internet. I don't know if it's really possible to love someone you met on the internet. I met a guy on this dating website 9 mos ago. I feel as if he deceived me. He is a American, but lives and works out in Nigeria. I too am a christian. He says he is too. I just met him, and he tells me he loves me. I still don't believe that. He told me he does marketing. I hate to say this, but have lost some trust in men. I don't even know if soul mates really. If you met her on the internet, just be careful. That is what people told me, and now I realize what they meant.
Yes, I agree. I don't feel comfortable telling people why i don't work, cause i am afraid that a guy here will judge me. So, I sometimes try to be careful what I say.
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RE: PAST RELATIONSHIP
It's been easier to trust men then before. I have had times in my life when I was more vulnerable. I hungered to be loved so much to the point, that I didn't care whether it was a healthy relationship. I respect and love myself more these days, to know I deserve a good man. I have been hurt a lot in the past, but know now that all men are not jerks. All men are not out to hurt a woman. We all are human, and make mistakes.