is it better to get your heart broken by several different guys or by just the one person? (85)
g33kgurlMelbourne, Victoria Australia41 Threads 1,995 Postsa mate of mine has had her heart broken by one guy several times over 7 years... is it better to get your heart broken over and over again by the one man over 7 years or a number of guys instead? 
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better getting broken by several at least u wouldnt feel like u were wasted on one nob and didnt try other ppl.
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sasseez: better getting broken by several at least u wouldnt feel like u were wasted on one nob and didnt try other ppl.
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g33kgurl: \\\hi sass!!!
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sasseez: hi G33
my wave dint work or my smile hear u go
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If she is allowing one guy to do this to her 7 times, she needs to wake up and stop being a victim.
But i don't really understand the question, one way or the other it's never good to get your heart broken so don't see how it's better one way or the other
But i don't really understand the question, one way or the other it's never good to get your heart broken so don't see how it's better one way or the other
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morgan5: If she is allowing one guy to do this to her 7 times, she needs to wake up and stop being a victim.
But i don't really understand the question, one way or the other it's never good to get your heart broken so don't see how it's better one way or the other
But i don't really understand the question, one way or the other it's never good to get your heart broken so don't see how it's better one way or the other
lemme try to be a bit clearer.... if you gonna get ur heart broken - several times over 7 years, would it be better if it was only broken by the one guy or by say 3 guys in that time duration???
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ok, well i definately would not keep going back for more with the same guy.
If it kept happening think i would take a good look at myself. Just can't answer this because i don't think either is better than the other.
If it kept happening think i would take a good look at myself. Just can't answer this because i don't think either is better than the other.
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Sounds like your friend has a tough time learning a lesson. The guy wasn't worth it.
Either way you cut it, it's just sad to get your heart broken, period! But I wouldn't be waiting around for the third time from the same guy, much less the seventh!
Either way you cut it, it's just sad to get your heart broken, period! But I wouldn't be waiting around for the third time from the same guy, much less the seventh!
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g33kgurl: a mate of mine has had her heart broken by one guy several times over 7 years... is it better to get your heart broken over and over again by the one man over 7 years or a number of guys instead?
Is she blonde ?
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g33kgurl: a mate of mine has had her heart broken by one guy several times over 7 years... is it better to get your heart broken over and over again by the one man over 7 years or a number of guys instead?
I have a better idea.
Go for the one who doesn't break another's heart
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g33kgurl: lemme try to be a bit clearer.... if you gonna get ur heart broken - several times over 7 years, would it be better if it was only broken by the one guy or by say 3 guys in that time duration???
Hurt me once,shame on you! Hurt me twice,shame on me! Third time,well I under stand but that's too much. Guess it depends on what you are talking about,well not realy.If one is over sensetive I wouldn't deal with it very long. The sooner one realizes the fairytail is just that and not expect a relationship to be perfect the happier thay will be.
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g33kgurl: a mate of mine has had her heart broken by one guy several times over 7 years... is it better to get your heart broken over and over again by the one man over 7 years or a number of guys instead?
No she has not!
She has been daft 5 times!
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drew4069: Hurt me once,shame on you! Hurt me twice,shame on me! Third time,well I under stand but that's too much.
A man of reason
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CaptainBeirutIII: No she has not!
She has been daft 5 times!
i agree i'd someone a second chance, after that i'd be out. But we are not hearing why his doing it or what his doing.She has been daft 5 times!
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By one, several times
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morgan5: i agree i'd someone a second chance, after that i'd be out. But we are not hearing why his doing it or what his doing.
True, but the question is kind of an odd one anyway.
"Is it better to be beaten over the head with a shovel by the same guy ten times, or being hit in the face with a brick by ten guys?"
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morgan5: i agree i'd someone a second chance, after that i'd be out. But we are not hearing why his doing it or what his doing.
well... the reason seems to be varying degrees.. she's an accomplished 36 year old professional with 2 smart well adjusted children of her own, own house, shares and stuff.. he's about 40 kinda the same financial situation but with one teenage kid.
she's ready to start settling down. he's not. the current situation is he' smoved out in feb but currently pestering her to see her again (but obviously just not move back in again).
being good friends with both parties, i've been ok with this infernal see sawing for the last 5 years.. but the last two years i have been advising against another one of their reconciliations as it only seems to fall apart after a year or so..
hence my infernal question...
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CaptainBeirutIII: True, but the question is kind of an odd one anyway.
"Is it better to be beaten over the head with a shovel by the same guy ten times, or being hit in the face with a brick by ten guys?"
"Is it better to be beaten over the head with a shovel by the same guy ten times, or being hit in the face with a brick by ten guys?"
shovel over brick - not fair capt!
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First time hurts enourmous, next times not so much 
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