I just got a new cell phone sooo i figured i would play a joke on a girl thats just a friend of mine. I pretended i didn't know her and was just starting trouble on the phone through text messages. Well in the end she figured it was me when i told her it was a joke but i didn't say who it was.
Then she tells me she knows it was me and then says shes really pissed of at me but she might talk to me again but don't count on it. Then i got mad and said "Wait, your going to grace me with the ability to talk to you, i think you over estimate your importance in my life, i didn't mean to make you mad but do what you want". So then she said she will never talk to me again.
So now i kinda feel bad cause i basically told her i don't give a @#$% about you. So yeah i feel bad, i know everyone has problems and if you don't care or don't want to offer me any advice then don't respond.
sasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia3,150 posts
yep jokes can very often go wrong. but u will learn from this. IM sure when she calms down she wil be fine. do something nice for her end her some flowers or a nice card saying sorry. just some thoughts
Based on what you're saying at the beginning and you we're joking, sounds like she needs to grow up, can't take a joke or she is not you're friend as you thought she was. You feel bad for what you said(shows you have heart)but you we're responding to her statement. Maybe she will realize what happened and if she is a friend will apologize(do not call her, let her call you). Good Luck
sasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia3,150 posts
drbombay: Based on what you're saying at the beginning and you we're joking, sounds like she needs to grow up, can't take a joke or she is not you're friend as you thought she was. You feel bad for what you said(shows you have heart)but you we're responding to her statement. Maybe she will realize what happened and if she is a friend will apologize(do not call her, let her call you). Good Luck
he got angry with her and she did not ask for the joke to be played on her in the first place. As he is the one that upset her even tho as he thought was a joke, she took it wrong, and he did say he was beng troublsome, as u did cause it all to happen i feel u should try to make up at least u will have tryed.
drbombay: Based on what you're saying at the beginning and you we're joking, sounds like she needs to grow up, can't take a joke or she is not you're friend as you thought she was. You feel bad for what you said(shows you have heart)but you we're responding to her statement. Maybe she will realize what happened and if she is a friend will apologize(do not call her, let her call you). Good Luck
Well I say he is wrong and she is right. He need a kick in the nuts for pulling such a prank.
Well isn't it just common sense that if someone keeps texting you and they are bothering you wouldn't you just ignore it. Now i will admit what i did was a little immature but i wouldn't put the blame only on me.
jaynimble: Well isn't it just common sense that if someone keeps texting you and they are bothering you wouldn't you just ignore it. Now i will admit what i did was a little immature but i wouldn't put the blame only on me.
Yeah me personally I would ignore it. But as I said, how did you know she didn't have something going on in her personal life that triggered her claws wanting to dig into your skin.
sasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia3,150 posts
jaynimble: Well isn't it just common sense that if someone keeps texting you and they are bothering you wouldn't you just ignore it. Now i will admit what i did was a little imm ture but i wouldn't put the blame only on me.
well she is allowed to answer to the texts , and not everyone thinks the same. u did it, so u have to take the concequences
sxc666: Well I say he is wrong and she is right. He need a kick in the nuts for pulling such a prank.Bloody men always think you're right.
He said she is a friend and it was a joke and she got bent or did I not read correctly and I don't think we're always right but I will say f--k you if you can't take a joke. TY.
Growing up comes with lessons... Things to remember.. You should write this down so you dont forget it. Everyone makes mistakes but everyone one doesnt learn from them. Some times I am sorry and I was wrong goes a long ways.
sasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia3,150 posts
Good4U2: Growing up comes with lessons... Things to remember.. You should write this down so you dont forget it. Everyone makes mistakes but everyone one doesnt learn from them. Some times I am sorry and I was wrong goes a long ways.
drbombay: He said she is a friend and it was a joke and she got bent or did I not read correctly and I don't think we're always right but I will say f--k you if you can't take a joke. TY.
It was a joke my reply. So you can take your Fuc* Yo* and put it where the sun doesn't shine.
Good4U2: Growing up comes with lessons... Things to remember.. You should write this down so you dont forget it. Everyone makes mistakes but everyone one doesnt learn from them. Some times I am sorry and I was wrong goes a long ways.
I agree. Sometimes jokes can be taken too far. Accept responsibility for your actions and take the consequences.
Good4U2: Growing up comes with lessons... Things to remember.. You should write this down so you dont forget it. Everyone makes mistakes but everyone one doesnt learn from them. Some times I am sorry and I was wrong goes a long ways.
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Then she tells me she knows it was me and then says shes really pissed of at me but she might talk to me again but don't count on it. Then i got mad and said "Wait, your going to grace me with the ability to talk to you, i think you over estimate your importance in my life, i didn't mean to make you mad but do what you want". So then she said she will never talk to me again.
So now i kinda feel bad cause i basically told her i don't give a @#$% about you. So yeah i feel bad, i know everyone has problems and if you don't care or don't want to offer me any advice then don't respond.