You meant. No harm it seems .just give her some space and see what happens from there. After that if still nothing apologize and tell her you didn't mean any harm.
Well isn't it just common sense that if someone keeps texting you and they are bothering you wouldn't you just ignore it. Now i will admit what i did was a little immature but i wouldn't put the blame only on me.[/quote]
Why not?
You played a silly joke, she didnt like it and you got annoyed with her??
lizzylovebugnorthampton, Northamptonshire, England UK2 Posts
lizzylovebugnorthampton, Northamptonshire, England UK2 posts
if you didnt tell her it was you dont you think it may have scare her a bit , i know i wouldnt like that , think you have a bit of cheek getting pissed at her . maybe its time to grow up abit hun .
CaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK1,186 posts
jaynimble: I just got a new cell phone sooo i figured i would play a joke on a girl thats just a friend of mine. I pretended i didn't know her and was just starting trouble on the phone through text messages. Well in the end she figured it was me when i told her it was a joke but i didn't say who it was.
Then she tells me she knows it was me and then says shes really pissed of at me but she might talk to me again but don't count on it. Then i got mad and said "Wait, your going to grace me with the ability to talk to you, i think you over estimate your importance in my life, i didn't mean to make you mad but do what you want". So then she said she will never talk to me again.
So now i kinda feel bad cause i basically told her i don't give a @#$% about you. So yeah i feel bad, i know everyone has problems and if you don't care or don't want to offer me any advice then don't respond.
I think you should deny the whole thing was with you involved. Confuse her for enough long time until she forgets she was upset and doesn't even remember what happened. It will take 3-5 days.
roseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK8,699 posts
jaynimble: I just got a new cell phone sooo i figured i would play a joke on a girl thats just a friend of mine. I pretended i didn't know her and was just starting trouble on the phone through text messages. Well in the end she figured it was me when i told her it was a joke but i didn't say who it was.
Then she tells me she knows it was me and then says shes really pissed of at me but she might talk to me again but don't count on it. Then i got mad and said "Wait, your going to grace me with the ability to talk to you, i think you over estimate your importance in my life, i didn't mean to make you mad but do what you want". So then she said she will never talk to me again.
So now i kinda feel bad cause i basically told her i don't give a @#$% about you. So yeah i feel bad, i know everyone has problems and if you don't care or don't want to offer me any advice then don't respond.
The tone of how you ended your post leaves something to be desired, my friend. Perhaps demonstrable of the attitude that got you in this trouble in the first place?
Perhaps a review of your approach sometimes? Just a thought...
Let the dust settle a little first on this occasion? I do hope you manage to patch things up!!
jaynimble: I just got a new cell phone sooo i figured i would play a joke on a girl thats just a friend of mine. I pretended i didn't know her and was just starting trouble on the phone through text messages. Well in the end she figured it was me when i told her it was a joke but i didn't say who it was.
Then she tells me she knows it was me and then says shes really pissed of at me but she might talk to me again but don't count on it. Then i got mad and said "Wait, your going to grace me with the ability to talk to you, i think you over estimate your importance in my life, i didn't mean to make you mad but do what you want". So then she said she will never talk to me again.
So now i kinda feel bad cause i basically told her i don't give a @#$% about you. So yeah i feel bad, i know everyone has problems and if you don't care or don't want to offer me any advice then don't respond.
if she is any kind of friend at all she will realize it was a joke, if she is not your true friend, maybe that is her way of telling you not to call, sorry, but there are more fish in the sea for you to worry about her feelings, she sure isn't thinking about yours, so hang in there, don't call her, wait and let her call you back. she is the one who owes you an apology. good luck
lonelygirl53: if she is any kind of friend at all she will realize it was a joke, if she is not your true friend, maybe that is her way of telling you not to call, sorry, but there are more fish in the sea for you to worry about her feelings, she sure isn't thinking about yours, so hang in there, don't call her, wait and let her call you back. she is the one who owes you an apology. good luck
I had to go and read the OP again after reading this post. I dont see what the girl has to apologise for
Actually you post was rearranged to say that he owes her the apology it would make more sense IMO.
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