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May 12, 2009 2:13 PM CST Male OR Female
Why women are not intrested to meet someone abroad?it means that men are more intrested,although women are here in the search of soulmate.
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May 12, 2009 2:28 PM CST Male OR Female
Ashes
AshesAshesPunta del Este, Uruguay7 Threads 5 Polls 469 Posts
ali110: Why women are not intrested to meet someone abroad?it means that men are more intrested,although women are here in the search of soulmate.


Ali, this Site is International, as far as I know, I don´t mind if I meet someone who lives very far way!!!!!!!!!!thumbs up
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May 12, 2009 2:32 PM CST Male OR Female
Ashes: Ali, this Site is International, as far as I know, I don´t mind if I meet someone who lives very far way!!!!!!!!!!
Woww.wonderful...........A perfect meaningful answerthumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
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May 12, 2009 2:35 PM CST Male OR Female
pebblesbamban
pebblesbambanpebblesbambanPennsylvania, USA3 Threads 4,038 Posts
ali110: Why women are not intrested to meet someone abroad?it means that men are more intrested,although women are here in the search of soulmate.




I try to do my best... ok....flirty shimmy
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May 12, 2009 2:35 PM CST Male OR Female
pebblesbamban
pebblesbambanpebblesbambanPennsylvania, USA3 Threads 4,038 Posts
ali110: Why women are not intrested to meet someone abroad?it means that men are more intrested,although women are here in the search of soulmate.




I try to do my best... ok....flirty shimmy
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May 12, 2009 2:38 PM CST Male OR Female
pubwrite08
pubwrite08pubwrite08Columbus, Georgia USA14 Threads 2,451 Posts
I would not care where my mate came from, but if he came from far away... Oh well. I guess one of us would be making travel plans.
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May 12, 2009 2:40 PM CST Male OR Female
pebblesbamban: I try to do my best... ok....
very nice Pebbelcomfort hug
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May 12, 2009 2:40 PM CST Male OR Female
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
ali110: Why women are not intrested to meet someone abroad?it means that men are more intrested,although women are here in the search of soulmate.



I am not willing to meet someone from abroad because I am unwilling to relocate, my life and my family are here so it would be unfair of me to enter into a relationship with someone who lived a long distance away.

And I dont believe in soulmates.
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May 12, 2009 2:42 PM CST Male OR Female
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
vonney: I am not willing to meet someone from abroad because I am unwilling to relocate, my life and my family are here so it would be unfair of me to enter into a relationship with someone who lived a long distance away.

And I dont believe in soulmates.


wave But are you open to him coming to you ??
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May 12, 2009 2:44 PM CST Male OR Female
pebblesbamban
pebblesbambanpebblesbambanPennsylvania, USA3 Threads 4,038 Posts
ali110: very nice Pebbel





cheering
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May 12, 2009 2:44 PM CST Male OR Female
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
RDM59: But are you open to him coming to you ??


Hi


Well for that I think you would have to be sure that you were both in it for the long haul and I dont feel you can know that if you cant spend a lot of time in each others company.
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May 12, 2009 2:45 PM CST Male OR Female
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Ali, I can only keep wishing you the best of luck. Many can't consider relocating, or have difficulty with arranging to travel, even, making an overseas love affair fraught with difficulties. Blending cultures isn't easy for all, either. But don't lose hope...there are those here who have made it work well. wine
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May 12, 2009 2:47 PM CST Male OR Female
vonney: I am not willing to meet someone from abroad because I am unwilling to relocate, my life and my family are here so it would be unfair of me to enter into a relationship with someone who lived a long distance away.

And I dont believe in soulmates.
good clear answer...
So if u like someone from an other country and you both are agree to start a new life again ,will u meet him in your country?
plz ,how much u r serious to find someone?
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May 12, 2009 2:49 PM CST Male OR Female
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
ali110: good clear answer...
So if u like someone from an other country and you both are agree to start a new life again ,will u meet him in your country?
plz ,how much u r serious to find someone?



I think I amswered that in my second post. To make the decision for a guy to move to my Country we would both have to be sure of oour realtionship and I dont think you can reach that stage if you do not spend a lot of time together.
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May 12, 2009 2:50 PM CST Male OR Female
druidess6308: Ali, I can only keep wishing you the best of luck. Many can't consider relocating, or have difficulty with arranging to travel, even, making an overseas love affair fraught with difficulties. Blending cultures isn't easy for all, either. But don't lose hope...there are those here who have made it work well.
Thanks for your kind words,actually i am not asking about me,it is a general thread servey i like to know that how much peoples are serious about new start.comfort comfort wine bouquet
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May 12, 2009 2:51 PM CST Male OR Female
vonney: I think I amswered that in my second post. To make the decision for a guy to move to my Country we would both have to be sure of oour realtionship and I dont think you can reach that stage if you do not spend a lot of time together.
laugh laugh By the way i am not offering to you
i have write in my previous post that this is a general servey about peoples's thinkings
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May 12, 2009 2:56 PM CST Male OR Female
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
ali110: By the way i am not offering to you
i have write in my previous post that this is a general servey about peoples's thinkings



lol


Dont worry you are safe lol

I was aware that it was a general enquiry
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May 12, 2009 2:57 PM CST Male OR Female
vonney: lolDont worry you are safe lol

I was aware that it was a general enquiry
Very Goodkiss
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May 12, 2009 3:01 PM CST Male OR Female
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
vonney: HiWell for that I think you would have to be sure that you were both in it for the long haul and I dont feel you can know that if you cant spend a lot of time in each others company.


I don't think we can ever be "sure" really, but that is the gamble. It takes a lot of bravery to up-root and go to someone on the other side of the planet, and it could all go wrong and perhaps very quickly. Guts and hopes and dreams etc, here's to them wine

When I was 20 I did all this, went to Australia to spend a year with my girlfriend. When I arrived she dumped me laugh I picked myself up, bought a motor bike and drove off. And I can do that again but the falls get more painful and take longer to heel when we get older.
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May 12, 2009 3:05 PM CST Male OR Female
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
RDM59: I don't think we can ever be "sure" really, but that is the gamble. It takes a lot of bravery to up-root and go to someone on the other side of the planet, and it could all go wrong and perhaps very quickly. Guts and hopes and dreams etc, here's to them

When I was 20 I did all this, went to Australia to spend a year with my girlfriend. When I arrived she dumped me I picked myself up, bought a motor bike and drove off. And I can do that again but the falls get more painful and take longer to heel when we get older.



Ah yes at 20 I could have done it, before children. Now I couldnt go to the other side of the world and start over.

Bottom line though is I dont think you can love someone till you have spent a lot of time with them and if they are on the other side of the planet and not just a couple of hours away thats not possible.
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