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May 13, 2009 4:05 PM CST gone
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
TurkishDelight: Are some of you feeling proud of yourselves after reading this thread? My , My ….we are an arrogant lot in here that we cannot accept that an individual different from the “norm”. Having come across our friend before I had the sense to hold my tongue and not let their method of communicating bother me. I advised others to do the same, yet here we have a thread that applauds, and from the outside, encourages the “Alpha” pack attack to keep the “Species” pure.

My understanding of groups is the diversity it brings. With this diversity comes knowledge. Knowledge of how we interact with each other, in how to respond to those who have different personality traits. This thread, and the few more like it surrounding this fellow is a poor portrait of our society today.




Well hun I did say on a previous thread that he was more to be pitied than blamed and I still hold with that. But some of the messages I have received of him this evening have been beyond rude, and since the gentleman sends the messages then hides his profile and also refuses to read mail, while all the while reading the forums. I cant blame people for wanting to get their point across.
May 13, 2009 4:09 PM CST gone
missspecial
missspecialmissspecialmayo, Mayo Ireland13 Threads 1 Polls 609 Posts
vonney: Well hun I did say on a previous thread that he was more to be pitied than blamed and I still hold with that. But some of the messages I have received of him this evening have been beyond rude, and since the gentleman sends the messages then hides his profile and also refuses to read mail, while all the while reading the forums. I cant blame people for wanting to get their point across.


thumbs up

but remember "WE" are "AN ARROGANT LOT"
May 13, 2009 4:11 PM CST gone
TurkishDelight
TurkishDelightTurkishDelightDublin, Antrim Ireland139 Threads 3,998 Posts
shadowlord69: sorry td but when someone mails me accusing me of something i have not done i am not going to sit down and take it i will just take the piss and then ignore it after as i dont know this person it does not give him the right to take it out on people he never had contact with or does not even know you are wntitled to your opionion but as said no one has the right to come in and attack people verbaly by mail or open fourm


You right regardingt "does not give him the right to take it out on people he never had contact with or does not even know you are wntitled to your opionion but as said no one has the right to come in and attack people verbaly by mail or open fourm2, yet do you think this systematic, derogotory threads have to persist regarding this chap.
Yet, if you look at how he communicates, its obvious that there is a wee problem there. The critter became defensive when he failed to communicate properly, or to the standards of many here sadly, and now we have this thread as a result. Reading this thread saddens me when I see such wonderful people, who are primarly looking for some one to enhance their lives, cyber bully another because of their personality traits. We all have them in some form or another.dunno
Are folks so unhappy, in order for them to feel better about themselves, they brow beat another?
May 13, 2009 4:14 PM CST gone
TurkishDelight
TurkishDelightTurkishDelightDublin, Antrim Ireland139 Threads 3,998 Posts
Totally agree.

Hoddy was completely obnoxious to some people on here.. without any provocation or reason.

Everyone has the right to defend themself.[/quote]

We all have a right of defend ourselves, some folks need other to defend them, others do a bloody good job of by themselves. I am not advocating what he has done. I have previous expereince of the lad before. What has amazed me is the extent some have taken it so personally how he comes across on here.
May 13, 2009 4:17 PM CST gone
TurkishDelight
TurkishDelightTurkishDelightDublin, Antrim Ireland139 Threads 3,998 Posts
vonney: Well hun I did say on a previous thread that he was more to be pitied than blamed and I still hold with that. But some of the messages I have received of him this evening have been beyond rude, and since the gentleman sends the messages then hides his profile and also refuses to read mail, while all the while reading the forums. I cant blame people for wanting to get their point across.


wave Vonney
Hope you are well?

I cant understand why folks got so riled up about him confused It was clear from the onset that there is somewhat " a litle want" there. If folks done want communication there is always the "block" feature in their mail.

Or maybe its simply having a little bit of drama in the tedium of daily lifedunno
May 13, 2009 4:18 PM CST gone
shadowlord69
shadowlord69shadowlord69dublin, Dublin Ireland76 Threads 3,778 Posts
TurkishDelight: You right regardingt "does not give him the right to take it out on people he never had contact with or does not even know you are wntitled to your opionion but as said no one has the right to come in and attack people verbaly by mail or open fourm2, yet do you think this systematic, derogotory threads have to persist regarding this chap.
Yet, if you look at how he communicates, its obvious that there is a wee problem there. The critter became defensive when he failed to communicate properly, or to the standards of many here sadly, and now we have this thread as a result. Reading this thread saddens me when I see such wonderful people, who are primarly looking for some one to enhance their lives, cyber bully another because of their personality traits. We all have them in some form or another.
Are folks so unhappy, in order for them to feel better about themselves, they brow beat another?


when he came in the threads first he abused people before anyone said a word as to a problem matbe but again still i would not sit bthere and take it , also people DID IGNORE IT until he started sending mail so damed if you dont dammed if you do
May 13, 2009 4:20 PM CST gone
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
TurkishDelight: Vonney
Hope you are well?

I cant understand why folks got so riled up about him It was clear from the onset that there is somewhat " a litle want" there. If folks done want communication there is always the "block" feature in their mail.

Or maybe its simply having a little bit of drama in the tedium of daily life




Am grand, hope all is good with you.


Took me all evening to actually be able to block him, since he kept hiding his profile after sending me a message and if a profile is hidden you dont get the block option at the end of a mail. I was like a bloody stalker watching to see him unhide it so I good hit the block button.
May 13, 2009 4:21 PM CST gone
readyornot0
readyornot0readyornot0stratford- on -slaney, Wicklow Ireland49 Threads 3 Polls 1,242 Posts
TurkishDelight: Totally agree.

Hoddy was completely obnoxious to some people on here.. without any provocation or reason.

Everyone has the right to defend themself.

We all have a right of defend ourselves, some folks need other to defend them, others do a bloody good job of by themselves. I am not advocating what he has done. I have previous expereince of the lad before. What has amazed me is the extent some have taken it so personally how he comes across on here.
ha ha your his nurse aren`t you thought I recognised your face i`m sure i saw you before lol
May 13, 2009 4:27 PM CST gone
TurkishDelight
TurkishDelightTurkishDelightDublin, Antrim Ireland139 Threads 3,998 Posts
vonney: Am grand, hope all is good with you.Took me all evening to actually be able to block him, since he kept hiding his profile after sending me a message and if a profile is hidden you dont get the block option at the end of a mail. I was like a bloody stalker watching to see him unhide it so I good hit the block button.


laugh Feeling a bitfrustrated by now...I betlaugh
May 13, 2009 4:32 PM CST gone
TurkishDelight
TurkishDelightTurkishDelightDublin, Antrim Ireland139 Threads 3,998 Posts
readyornot0: ha ha your his nurse aren`t you thought I recognised your face i`m sure i saw you before lol


laugh
Are ya mad..me a nurse...jesus the beds would be empty in no time at alllaugh I have very little patience, pardon the pun laugh
It saddened me when I read this thread. Maybe it struck close to home, as I have a son with Autism, left me wondering will it be lije this for him when its his time to look for a mate. Will he be judged and found lacking just because he is differentdunno Who are we to judge another, for we are all lackingin some way in today's society. Would it not be better to guide each other and provide positive feedback instead of attackingdunno

People make me sad, they truly do, in how they treat one another, for life is tough enough for some without others loading their issues on top of itsigh
May 13, 2009 4:36 PM CST gone
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
TurkishDelight: Are ya mad..me a nurse...jesus the beds would be empty in no time at all I have very little patience, pardon the pun
It saddened me when I read this thread. Maybe it struck close to home, as I have a son with Autism, left me wondering will it be lije this for him when its his time to look for a mate. Will he be judged and found lacking just because he is different Who are we to judge another, for we are all lackingin some way in today's society. Would it not be better to guide each other and provide positive feedback instead of attacking

People make me sad, they truly do, in how they treat one another, for life is tough enough for some without others loading their issues on top of it



Well hun you know I have a daughter with a similar condition but I have to say that this gentlemans problems were not all down to a learning delay, yes his style of writing was alright but not the offensive things he said to people.
May 13, 2009 4:44 PM CST gone
TurkishDelight
TurkishDelightTurkishDelightDublin, Antrim Ireland139 Threads 3,998 Posts
vonney: Well hun you know I have a daughter with a similar condition but I have to say that this gentlemans problems were not all down to a learning delay, yes his style of writing was alright but not the offensive things he said to people.


True true...

Call me a cynic who heart is softening.........maybe for the worng reason on here tonightlaugh
May 13, 2009 5:56 PM CST gone
avonlady123
avonlady123avonlady123dublin, Dublin Ireland4 Threads 730 Posts
john2: Hoddy is gone


thank god for small mercies applause cheering peace
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