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May 21, 2009 4:58 PM CST Here We Go Again.....
zee1ander
zee1anderzee1anderSomewhere, Kentucky USA52 Threads 4 Polls 1,758 Posts
I can foresee in the near future my good name is going to be dragged through the mud. It has happened once before by this person on CS and i had some dear friends come to my aid... against my wishes.

She has done this on other sites also.... yes she has a keen ability to track me down.... maybe i should just change my Screen name?

I like it here, but I am getting tired of this situation.

If you were in my shoes.... please spray them when you return them.... what would you do?

zee
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May 21, 2009 5:01 PM CST Here We Go Again.....
OUTRAGEOUS
OUTRAGEOUSOUTRAGEOUSPanama, Panama44 Threads 1 Polls 1,768 Posts
zee1ander: I can foresee in the near future my good name is going to be dragged through the mud. It has happened once before by this person on CS and i had some dear friends come to my aid... against my wishes.

She has done this on other sites also.... yes she has a keen ability to track me down.... maybe i should just change my Screen name?

I like it here, but I am getting tired of this situation.

If you were in my shoes.... please spray them when you return them.... what would you do?

zee


Report her to the mods?

If she mails you directly, contact the mods, don't let her run you from here. If she doens't like you she can go, or just ignore you...

I will report the situation to the mods... JMHO comfort hug cheers
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May 21, 2009 5:01 PM CST Here We Go Again.....
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
zee1ander: I can foresee in the near future my good name is going to be dragged through the mud. It has happened once before by this person on CS and i had some dear friends come to my aid... against my wishes.

She has done this on other sites also.... yes she has a keen ability to track me down.... maybe i should just change my Screen name?

I like it here, but I am getting tired of this situation.

If you were in my shoes.... please spray them when you return them.... what would you do?

zee


Hi Zee.

Hard to do this, because when a person is slating you it is hard not to defend oneself.

I don't think many people will allow that to happen.

Ignore her, try not to interact with her and continue as you are.

If you have done nothing wrong then your conscience is clear.
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May 21, 2009 5:03 PM CST Here We Go Again.....
kat7169
kat7169kat7169norfolk, Virginia USA2 Threads 138 Posts
i wouldn't pay too much attention to it Zee, after all those that "know" you here wouldn't give that person or what they say a second thought and you shouldn't waste the energy either. teddybear
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May 21, 2009 5:03 PM CST Here We Go Again.....
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
Sommerauer71: Hi Zee.

Hard to do this, because when a person is slating you it is hard not to defend oneself.

I don't think many people will allow that to happen.

Ignore her, try not to interact with her and continue as you are.

If you have done nothing wrong then your conscience is clear.



I agree with Sommer.teddybear
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May 21, 2009 5:04 PM CST Here We Go Again.....
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
zee1ander: I can foresee in the near future my good name is going to be dragged through the mud. It has happened once before by this person on CS and i had some dear friends come to my aid... against my wishes.

She has done this on other sites also.... yes she has a keen ability to track me down.... maybe i should just change my Screen name?

I like it here, but I am getting tired of this situation.

If you were in my shoes.... please spray them when you return them.... what would you do?

zee


Zee your well known here and your always honest and considerate..........(except when you not....tongue ) but as someone else said, if you have done nothing wrong there is nothing to worry about.

cheers
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May 21, 2009 5:06 PM CST Here We Go Again.....
starshinebright
starshinebrightstarshinebrightRiverside, California USA189 Threads 1 Polls 6,305 Posts
I agree with all the posts! don't let anyone run you off!hug
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May 21, 2009 5:07 PM CST Here We Go Again.....
zee1ander
zee1anderzee1anderSomewhere, Kentucky USA52 Threads 4 Polls 1,758 Posts
Sommerauer71: Hi Zee.

Hard to do this, because when a person is slating you it is hard not to defend oneself.

I don't think many people will allow that to happen.

Ignore her, try not to interact with her and continue as you are.

If you have done nothing wrong then your conscience is clear.


In her eyes I have done everything wrong.... that is a lot of guilt to put on one person.

I am cold hearted, but some things just hurt and I am tired of just trying to get along with her, yet i am not going to fight back.

Just think of me as being obama in 2012.... just gonna slink away to never be heard from again..... sorry could resist.

zee
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May 21, 2009 5:10 PM CST Here We Go Again.....
zee1ander
zee1anderzee1anderSomewhere, Kentucky USA52 Threads 4 Polls 1,758 Posts
vinny1967: Zee your well known here and your always honest and considerate..........(except when you not.... ) but as someone else said, if you have done nothing wrong there is nothing to worry about.


confused

I try to be, but I have been known stretch the truth a might at timesblushing

zee
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May 21, 2009 5:13 PM CST Here We Go Again.....
zee1ander
zee1anderzee1anderSomewhere, Kentucky USA52 Threads 4 Polls 1,758 Posts
kat7169: i wouldn't pay too much attention to it Zee, after all those that "know" you here wouldn't give that person or what they say a second thought and you shouldn't waste the energy either.


I know, but this has been going on for YEARS.... almost 4 years now.

It is like a thorn in my back side that I just can't reach...

zee
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May 21, 2009 5:16 PM CST Here We Go Again.....
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
zee1ander: In her eyes I have done everything wrong.... that is a lot of guilt to put on one person.

I am cold hearted, but some things just hurt and I am tired of just trying to get along with her, yet i am not going to fight back.

Just think of me as being obama in 2012.... just gonna slink away to never be heard from again..... sorry could resist.

zee


Guilt, like Jealousy or Bitterness can consume us Zee.

I know all about carrying guilt around but what I have learned is that it is such a wasted emotion............It does no good.

We can learn from History and we can alter our behaviour, but we cannot change it.

We are only in control of the now and our actions in the future.

I know that you know this Zee, but sometimes we all need reminding is all.

Be Kind to yourself Bud.



cheers
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May 21, 2009 5:18 PM CST Here We Go Again.....
If it's the very same person I think it is who came here and who dragged your name through the mud as before. I know afew of us women at that particular time had to pratically drag what she was saying out of her. I'd simply report her to the mods.i wouoldn't let anyone chase me away.You've got just as much right as anyone else has to be here.
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May 21, 2009 5:25 PM CST Here We Go Again.....
ladyfingers
ladyfingersladyfingersclovis, nm, New Mexico USA261 Threads 1 Polls 5,456 Posts
zee1ander: I can foresee in the near future my good name is going to be dragged through the mud. It has happened once before by this person on CS and i had some dear friends come to my aid... against my wishes.

She has done this on other sites also.... yes she has a keen ability to track me down.... maybe i should just change my Screen name?

I like it here, but I am getting tired of this situation.

If you were in my shoes.... please spray them when you return them.... what would you do?

zee


Wanna borrow my cat pic???? She'll never recognize you.wink
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May 21, 2009 5:27 PM CST Here We Go Again.....
zee1ander
zee1anderzee1anderSomewhere, Kentucky USA52 Threads 4 Polls 1,758 Posts
vinny1967: Guilt, like Jealousy or Bitterness can consume us Zee.

I know all about carrying guilt around but what I have learned is that it is such a wasted emotion............It does no good.

We can learn from History and we can alter our behaviour, but we cannot change it.

We are only in control of the now and our actions in the future.

I know that you know this Zee, but sometimes we all need reminding is all.

Be Kind to yourself Bud.


Thank you.... I wasn't expecting to come out of this feeling good, but your words really did just that.

Zee
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May 21, 2009 5:30 PM CST Here We Go Again.....
zee1ander
zee1anderzee1anderSomewhere, Kentucky USA52 Threads 4 Polls 1,758 Posts
somechick: If it's the very same person I think it is who came here and who dragged your name through the mud as before. I know afew of us women at that particular time had to pratically drag what she was saying out of her. I'd simply report her to the mods.i wouoldn't let anyone chase me away.You've got just as much right as anyone else has to be here.


I thank you for coming to my defense then. I just hope it doesn't come to that again.


zee
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May 21, 2009 5:30 PM CST Here We Go Again.....
zee1ander
zee1anderzee1anderSomewhere, Kentucky USA52 Threads 4 Polls 1,758 Posts
ladyfingers: Wanna borrow my cat pic???? She'll never recognize you.


i have one too of my own

zee
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May 21, 2009 5:31 PM CST Here We Go Again.....
zee1ander
zee1anderzee1anderSomewhere, Kentucky USA52 Threads 4 Polls 1,758 Posts
I appreciate all the support, but I think I was just thinking out loud.

zee
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May 21, 2009 5:34 PM CST Here We Go Again.....
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
well you have your pistol rightprofessor
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May 21, 2009 5:35 PM CST Here We Go Again.....
zee1ander
zee1anderzee1anderSomewhere, Kentucky USA52 Threads 4 Polls 1,758 Posts
I am just giving y'all a heads up on what might be coming.

This is where this thread can end....


zee
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May 21, 2009 5:36 PM CST Here We Go Again.....
zee1ander
zee1anderzee1anderSomewhere, Kentucky USA52 Threads 4 Polls 1,758 Posts
jessejess47: well you have your pistol right


Locked and loaded... she is the reason i bought one.

zee
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