How u can blame your partner? (34)
Jashcd you are so right. Too many times people take the problems of the relationship out of their relationship. This serves to only widen the divide. I know that if my partner were to go to someone else and discuss our issues,,, especially if he did not discuss them with me first it would hurt me deeply.
However, we all need to bounce ideas off other people, but there is a fine line to walk with that one. There are obviously things that should be kept with in a relationship while other things are more ok to bounce off people....
JMHO
However, we all need to bounce ideas off other people, but there is a fine line to walk with that one. There are obviously things that should be kept with in a relationship while other things are more ok to bounce off people....
JMHO
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Of course I am going to blame my partner when I am wrong. Either him or the dog..........
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Hmmmmmm! You obviously don't realise that 'some' men don't talk. In fact they just WONT talk. Thats when we have no option to go to our girlfriends to share and to get advice or even just a bit of support and ecouragement. If women don't get support and encouragement from their hubbies they go elsewhere.
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jashcd: u have any right to blame your partner ... do u think u r right in all the way what u did ................Is it good to blame always your partner if he or she wrong better u can try to make her right way …….
I saw some people talk bad about there wife or husband to some one …. Blah blah blah … I hate this kind of people …………
why they need to discuses what its going in house ...
is they prove there partner its not good
What ever she or he u need to tell good u can clear her or him when u people are alone then only ….
If u remove your ego … then sure there u don’t face any problem …….if u keep that in your mind u cant adjust your partner …………….
I saw some people talk bad about there wife or husband to some one …. Blah blah blah … I hate this kind of people …………
why they need to discuses what its going in house ...
is they prove there partner its not good
What ever she or he u need to tell good u can clear her or him when u people are alone then only ….
If u remove your ego … then sure there u don’t face any problem …….if u keep that in your mind u cant adjust your partner …………….
Is this directed to any particular gender?
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I think it's wrong for either gender to discuss what goes on between themselves inside the house outside the house.JMO
There were problems in my marriage but I never ever ran to my friends to share anything with them or seek their comfort or advice.Advice is cheap anyway.I figured what happened inside the home stayed inside the home and should be settled inside the home.
There were problems in my marriage but I never ever ran to my friends to share anything with them or seek their comfort or advice.Advice is cheap anyway.I figured what happened inside the home stayed inside the home and should be settled inside the home.
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I don't think is correct to talk bad things about u partner in front of u friends ,problems between couples or husband and wife must be resolved between them with patience and good communication,also is a well known proverb which says"Wash u dirty clothes in family''.
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In response to: u have any right to blame your partner ... do u think u r right in all the way what u did ................Is it good to blame always your partner if he or she wrong better u can try to make her right way …….
I saw some people talk bad about there wife or husband to some one …. Blah blah blah … I hate this kind of people …………
why they need to discuses what its going in house ...
is they prove there partner its not good
What ever she or he u need to tell good u can clear her or him when u people are alone then only ….
If u remove your ego … then sure there u don’t face any problem …….if u keep that in your mind u cant adjust your partner …………….
I saw some people talk bad about there wife or husband to some one …. Blah blah blah … I hate this kind of people …………
why they need to discuses what its going in house ...
is they prove there partner its not good
What ever she or he u need to tell good u can clear her or him when u people are alone then only ….
If u remove your ego … then sure there u don’t face any problem …….if u keep that in your mind u cant adjust your partner …………….
WHY THEY NEED TO DISCUSS WHAT ITS GOING IN HOUSE?
Probably because they just had their heart broken torn out and eaten in front of them...what goes on in your house?
i complain about my past wife...but i never asked her to be responsible for my mistakes...
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thanks smomus ... here i have one friend he need to talk always about his wife .... all bad and he need to show us she is not good
but he dont knw what we think about him .........we think how the girl she stay with him ..... really she is a good girl .... thats why she stay .............
but he dont knw what we think about him .........we think how the girl she stay with him ..... really she is a good girl .... thats why she stay .............
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SensualVixen: Of course I am going to blame my partner when I am wrong. Either him or the dog..........
better god thats good ................
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SummerUK: Hmmmmmm! You obviously don't realise that 'some' men don't talk. In fact they just WONT talk. Thats when we have no option to go to our girlfriends to share and to get advice or even just a bit of support and ecouragement. If women don't get support and encouragement from their hubbies they go elsewhere.
summerUk i also dont talk too much usually girls talk too much man they dont talk too much but they do ....
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Sommerauer71: Is this directed to any particular gender?
no both side
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If you confide in someone, 9 times out of 10 they will just agree and placate you. They don't know both stories so probably not much point ! Personally I don't have a need to discuss my relationships with anyone, I think I'm open minded and thoughtful enough to see and understand the grievances of others, but that doesn't necessarily mean I am able to fix them ! I'm not saying that good advice should be rejected, I just personally want to get it right under my own steam and from the learnings of my own past.
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somechick: I think it's wrong for either gender to discuss what goes on between themselves inside the house outside the house.JMO
There were problems in my marriage but I never ever ran to my friends to share anything with them or seek their comfort or advice.Advice is cheap anyway.I figured what happened inside the home stayed inside the home and should be settled inside the home.
There were problems in my marriage but I never ever ran to my friends to share anything with them or seek their comfort or advice.Advice is cheap anyway.I figured what happened inside the home stayed inside the home and should be settled inside the home.
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claudya: I don't think is correct to talk bad things about u partner in front of u friends ,problems between couples or husband and wife must be resolved between them with patience and good communication,also is a well known proverb which says"Wash u dirty clothes in family''.
communication make partners strong and give them to truest.............
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RDM59: If you confide in someone, 9 times out of 10 they will just agree and placate you. They don't know both stories so probably not much point ! Personally I don't have a need to discuss my relationships with anyone, I think I'm open minded and thoughtful enough to see and understand the grievances of others, but that doesn't necessarily mean I am able to fix them ! I'm not saying that good advice should be rejected, I just personally want to get it right under my own steam and from the learnings of my own past.
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jashcd: summerUk i also dont talk too much usually girls talk too much man they dont talk too much but they do ....
They talk too much but then they don't talk too much but they do
Jash? Have you been drinking?
Blimey see what women are up against with the last two posts
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SummerUK: Where did I say I was blaming you for Everything?
and
Where did I say that I'm blaming you for Not being offensive?
Whatever that actually means? lol
and
Where did I say that I'm blaming you for Not being offensive?
Whatever that actually means? lol
SEE ... You just did it again! You blamed me for saying that I said you blamed me ... Look, I'm not going to say anymore. It obviously just makes you upset.
How about I go down to the Pub and we'll start again later.
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SummerUK: Hmmmmmm! You obviously don't realise that 'some' men don't talk. In fact they just WONT talk. Thats when we have no option to go to our girlfriends to share and to get advice or even just a bit of support and ecouragement. If women don't get support and encouragement from their hubbies they go elsewhere.
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Darkhorseman: SEE ... You just did it again! You blamed me for saying that I said you blamed me ... Look, I'm not going to say anymore. It obviously just makes you upset.
How about I go down to the Pub and we'll start again later.
How about I go down to the Pub and we'll start again later.
Eh???? lol
OMG this brings back so many memories where you even start to question your own sanity
Blinkin Men!!!
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Is it good to blame always your partner if he or she wrong better u can try to make her right way …….
I saw some people talk bad about there wife or husband to some one …. Blah blah blah … I hate this kind of people …………
why they need to discuses what its going in house ...
is they prove there partner its not good
What ever she or he u need to tell good u can clear her or him when u people are alone then only ….
If u remove your ego … then sure there u don’t face any problem …….if u keep that in your mind u cant adjust your partner …………….