Getting my stuff back after trusting a man online! (115)
symbolistartist: Yes well this really angers me, because for one you're stuck with a joint custody and possible complications with that (I've witnessed that through my ex) and as you say your son is suffering too.
We haven't got joint custody i haven't seen him since Sept last year and don't know if i will ever see him again unless it's by accident in the street.
Unless she ever comes to her sences
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geminiman61: We haven't got joint custody i haven't seen him since Sept last year and don't know if i will ever see him again unless it's by accident in the street.
Unless she ever comes to her sences
Unless she ever comes to her sences
Oh CRAP. You know I CAN relate, because we went through hell to get the younger son from my ex's wife who was sick in every possible way. I thank my luck that I don't have kids with anyone... it easily goes wrong in a world like ours. I will be wishing you a happy solution!
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romanticman4u: I know how you feel I once sent some paintings I created to a love interest and she never sent them back to me, the idea was she was supposed to sell them where she was from. The sad thing is I put one of the paintings in a international juried art show and won. We both got caught here but those are the chances you take putting yourself out there in the name of love. I know it doesn't feel good to lose stuff but you gotta be proud of yourself for taking those chances for love. May your next love be the one once and for all symbolistartist
From one artist to another; it does suck when things like that happen. I have given artwork to all of my boyfriends, but they turned out short term and I lived to regret it! Oh well... I hope you have photos of them though??? That kind of helps...
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Hello symbolistartist.......let me tell you that these situations occur EVERYWHERE.....A man in Cape Girardeau, Missouri did the same thing to me and MORE! I've had to hire an attorney and this was something that occurred more than a year ago.........My attorney is working diligently to bring this man to justice.......I'm sorry you had this experience, however, don't feel alone in the world either! I have to say that because there are BAD apples....they're not ALL that way, although, I'm VERY cautious and I must say, not so trusting of others now. Good luck to you and God bless.........
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X_REBEL: ...women were/are "made" to do all these things....get it?...
Dude you are a real shovinistic pig I hope you know that
I also hope you know you make all of us real men look bad...
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Oh and thanks for the consolation and wishes too, romantic4u! Wishing you the same! I am romantic too and don't want to lose that, yet I harbour my experiences 
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whattagal0324: Hello symbolistartist.......let me tell you that these situations occur EVERYWHERE.....A man in Cape Girardeau, Missouri did the same thing to me and MORE! I've had to hire an attorney and this was something that occurred more than a year ago.........My attorney is working diligently to bring this man to justice.......I'm sorry you had this experience, however, don't feel alone in the world either! I have to say that because there are BAD apples....they're not ALL that way, although, I'm VERY cautious and I must say, not so trusting of others now. Good luck to you and God bless.........
Thanks for your input! No unfortunately I'm not that unrealistic... I do know these things happen but thought that coming out with this story would also help people to be extra careful. I know sometimes it's just impossible... but knowledge is power! We learn...
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Damn I meant fortunately I'm not that unrealistic, lol...
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Maverick2695: Dude you are a real shovinistic pig I hope you know that
I also hope you know you make all of us real men look bad...
I also hope you know you make all of us real men look bad...
Well he's joking but yeah there are things that are sensitive to light... I really look forward to see some really nice and decent guys from now on! No more misery traps and no more free maid services to chauvinist pigs!
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PeachesandRay: Please don't be embarrassed , you had to at least give it a try or you would have never known
Love opens our hearts, heals our hearts, and helps us to Love Again
You have a beautiful, hopeful, happy smile...you will embrace Love Again someday when you've healed and are ready
I understand
Peaches
Love opens our hearts, heals our hearts, and helps us to Love Again
You have a beautiful, hopeful, happy smile...you will embrace Love Again someday when you've healed and are ready
I understand
Peaches
Thank you for the sweet words!
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joyforever06: you should just watch your mouth and respect symbart's situation.
if you are to make fun, you are most welcome to go off this thread!!
if you are to make fun, you are most welcome to go off this thread!!
Hi!
how's it going? You're right, everyone has been quite serious which is nice and respectful. Maybe one should construct a movement against threadthrasherers? Though sometimes I've been in a funny mood myself... ------ This thread is Archived ------
i will pray for you,but you need to move forward also,time will heal the hurt.and those things can be replaced,glad it wasn't worse.
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WoW, sorry that happened to you.....its so hard trusting someone you haven't met & its hard just trusting anyone for that matter....
hope you have had time to process what happened & learned some things....good lesson for us all
hope you have had time to process what happened & learned some things....good lesson for us all
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symbolistartist: Hi! how's it going? You're right, everyone has been quite serious which is nice and respectful. Maybe one should construct a movement against threadthrasherers? Though sometimes I've been in a funny mood myself...
hi Symbart!
as for me, i d save money, fly there, get my stuff (supposedly it is still there and not sold) and spit at his face "you, scum of the earth"
and then go visit Guggenhaim museum! NOT WITH HIM
you are an artisit, you ll enjoy the visit!
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druidess6308: Thank you, Ooby. And yes, if I were able to go there myself, you're right about what I'd need someone with me to do.
And I just might have my dad go knock on his door, Gemini. He lives close enough. I presume that I'd get my phone back then. And honestly, it's just a matter of principle. He has my property and I want it back. It will also provide closure, for then I can and will delete him from email and phone. Until then, I have to see his name in my phonebook. I jsut want to close that chapter of my life.
And I just might have my dad go knock on his door, Gemini. He lives close enough. I presume that I'd get my phone back then. And honestly, it's just a matter of principle. He has my property and I want it back. It will also provide closure, for then I can and will delete him from email and phone. Until then, I have to see his name in my phonebook. I jsut want to close that chapter of my life.
Good luck getting/finding closure i just know with experience a visit and confronting a person is harder to ignore than a email,text or message.
It's like this if someone rings you up from say a window company you can say sorry I'm busy and just politely put the phone down whereas if the mormons or window people actually come to your house how long do some people give these people then?
I used to collect debts and believe me these people don't answer their phones etc or give more excuses than a little let me tell you when i knock on the door they miraculously find the money
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joyforever06: you should just watch your mouth and respect symbart's situation.
if you are to make fun, you are most welcome to go off this thread!!
if you are to make fun, you are most welcome to go off this thread!!
...and you should get a profile pic and coooool off.....
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very brave of you to voice this out. thank you for sharing your experience. i hope you get your stuff back and a well deserved closure as well..
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symbolistartist: Hi! how's it going? You're right, everyone has been quite serious which is nice and respectful. Maybe one should construct a movement against threadthrasherers? Though sometimes I've been in a funny mood myself...
like you say....someone has to break the ice and be funny sometimes...
We don't always need sour grapes/lemons on this site.... 
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I met his kids, 16 and 21, and did contact both of them. But they were also in the midst of all sorts of weird dramas throughout this past year, really it was like a tornado had passed through there. They didn't seem to eager to help because they were suffering from the lack of money too... but I'd try and write the older one again if I had to.