Getting my stuff back after trusting a man online! (115)
claudyaBucharest, Muntenia Romania287 Threads 9 Polls 4,018 PostsX_REBEL: I don't wanna play with you anymore...you are no fun... I'll go take my dog for a walk now...
haha ok so u want to tell me only u dog accepts u conditions
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tainogirl: Still trying to sell the 'Superiority' thing to the masses eh Mr. X.
Hey gholf lady...gimme a break...it's a very tough product to sell to an inferior mind...
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claudya: baby if I would havea lot of money I don't need to fly to u I would have all what I want and 'fresh meat 'if u understand what I say so change u attitude or u remain alone all u life
claudya, old dog can't learn new tricks...
just sayin'
P.S. ...and 'fresh meat'? Rebel? ...hahaha... naaah. You know what they say - use it or loose it?
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Laura25: claudya, old dog can't learn new tricks...
just sayin'
P.S. ...and 'fresh meat'? Rebel? ...hahaha... naaah. You know what they say - use it or loose it?
well Laura ,dear I can accept an old dog but not a lazy one dear,so u want me sacrifice all ,nah no way-old dog but kind ,loving but not lazyjust sayin'
P.S. ...and 'fresh meat'? Rebel? ...hahaha... naaah. You know what they say - use it or loose it?
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claudya: haha ok so u want to tell me only u dog accepts u conditions
Ohhh but dont you know that dog is man's best friend...and not woman....
Dog don't talk back, dog happy as long as his "master" is happy....and the list goes on...------ This thread is Archived ------
Laura25: claudya, old dog can't learn new tricks...
just sayin'
P.S. ...and 'fresh meat'? Rebel? ...hahaha... naaah. You know what they say - use it or loose it?
just sayin'
P.S. ...and 'fresh meat'? Rebel? ...hahaha... naaah. You know what they say - use it or loose it?
Exactly...she'll be losing out "BIG time"....
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X_REBEL: Ohhh but dont you know that dog is man's best friend...and not woman.... Dog don't talk back, dog happy as long as his "master" is happy....and the list goes on...
well u have right here the dog is best friend of man but he can't be a maid hahaahah,so u must clean after u dog------ This thread is Archived ------
X_REBEL: Exactly...she'll be losing out "BIG time"....
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X_REBEL: Hey gholf lady...gimme a break...it's a very tough product to sell to an inferior mind...
Well if you do manage to seel it try to make sure she sees better than you because its a stick not a golf club in my hand. However, you are right about one thing, it is hard selling it to inferior minds that would explain why I never tried selling it to you.
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symbolistartist: Thanks kizzy! Hm, well it doesn't quite work that way over here... plus it's actually a case of just a few precious items, the rest can be replaced. Possibly contacting the police over there. Yeah I hope others will learn from this though it's embarrassing to admit to having done it, lol...
I am sorry for your woes.
Contacting the police "over here" is not going to help you. He didn't steal the possessions, you left them at his home. To the police it is considered abandonment.
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SensualVixen: I am sorry for your woes.
Contacting the police "over here" is not going to help you. He didn't steal the possessions, you left them at his home. To the police it is considered abandonment.
Contacting the police "over here" is not going to help you. He didn't steal the possessions, you left them at his home. To the police it is considered abandonment.
I agree, SV
Why would you contact the police "anywhere", symbolist? As far as I can ascertain, nothing illegal has occured..
The bottom line is, YOU trusted someone (your choice), maybe expected more of them than was actually there anyway, and there is little you can do about it, other than going back to the States and hiring a U-haul...
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symbolistartist: Thanks kizzy! Hm, well it doesn't quite work that way over here... plus it's actually a case of just a few precious items, the rest can be replaced. Possibly contacting the police over there. Yeah I hope others will learn from this though it's embarrassing to admit to having done it, lol...
Hi symbol, not a pleasant thing to go through. Hope you do retrieve your goods, though the outcome doesn't look that promising. It might just be a case of having to cut your losses, though of-course, written reminders will only cost your some time and effort.
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I had a similar thing happen to me sometimes they don't return the stuff because they want a hold on you and don't want the relationshp to end my ex kept my stuff my 18t Rolex and most of my clothes although good news i got 5 cars full back last week now she's met someone else so when i get the other things back i can forget all about her only problem is we have a 4yo son together and she' not letting me see him i haven't seen him since September why cant she see that she's also hurting our son?
Try finding someone off CS to send some muscle round there and frighten him into handing all your stuff over if you cant do it legally you must look for another alternative good luck i hope you and your things are reunited one day
Try finding someone off CS to send some muscle round there and frighten him into handing all your stuff over if you cant do it legally you must look for another alternative good luck i hope you and your things are reunited one day
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It may come to a point were you have to let everything go for the betterment of your own health otherwise it is going to keep eating at you .
You may have to make the decision to let it all go . I know this is not easy but it may be the best thing for you . Sometimes we have to let things go so we can move on . He may not let you move
You may have to make the decision to let it all go . I know this is not easy but it may be the best thing for you . Sometimes we have to let things go so we can move on . He may not let you move
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Sorry what happened to you, i bought alot of stuff when i went to Turkey, and have had to leave it and put it down to experience sometimes thats all you can do
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geminiman61: I had a similar thing happen to me sometimes they don't return the stuff because they want a hold on you and don't want the relationshp to end my ex kept my stuff my 18t Rolex and most of my clothes although good news i got 5 cars full back last week now she's met someone else so when i get the other things back i can forget all about her only problem is we have a 4yo son together and she' not letting me see him i haven't seen him since September why cant she see that she's also hurting our son?
Try finding someone off CS to send some muscle round there and frighten him into handing all your stuff over if you cant do it legally you must look for another alternative good luck i hope you and your things are reunited one day
Try finding someone off CS to send some muscle round there and frighten him into handing all your stuff over if you cant do it legally you must look for another alternative good luck i hope you and your things are reunited one day
Why? So she can be arrested for conspiracy? Please, why would you even suggest something so stupid to this innocent young gal?
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symbolistartist: OH AND PLEASE NOTE, ANY INTERESTING EXPERIENCES DOWN THESE LINES ARE WELCOME!
I sent a man I was dating online my other cell phone so that we could have better phone contact, because there were issues with his phone at times. Lost my phone service right after that because I couldn't pay my bill, so we never got to use it. I've had to keep that phone inactive because he won't return it now that the relationship is apparently over, and doesn't respond to my emails requesting its return. Since my parents live less than an hour away from him, my last email even offered to have my dad come to his place and pick it up if he can't afford the small fee to mail it back to me. I just wanted closure, but I might have to have closure without getting my phone returned. It's why I won't think of getting into another LDR. You just never know who someone really is across the miles. They can sound very sincere and say how honest they are, but in the end you just never really know.
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Where in the US is this loser located?
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symbolistartist: Well cutting a long story short; I almost relocated in 2007 to the US for a man I met online, thought it was an opportunity to start afresh. Because of him being having perpetual money trouble including a bankruptcy that was coming up, I ended up going there rather than waiting for him to come to see me as promised, with the idea that I might stay on. I wouldn't be able to go back and forth. That's because I didn't have much money either and the trips are expensive.
Well... I was STUPID!!!
The man was not mean but he was hopeless... always giving promises he couldn't keep, too set in his bachelor ways, a load of baggage he had no way of dealing with... But he got a mental/emotional grip over me because I felt sorry for him. Nonehtheless I had to leave when my tourist visa expired. After that the relationship dissipated as his promises of coming to get me etc. didn't come true. So far so good However... trouble is a brought a lot of stuff to to the US and left it there because I honestly believed that he'd bring me back after getting a job. I've gotten some things back but recently he said no more unless I pay. I got some money, 200 € or 300 USD and sent it, had no choice because I really wish for at least some of the stuff to come back (needless to say he never followed my pleas about what I wanted first ). I haven't heard anything for over two weeks and I'm starting to worry... I know I know they are only material things... but right now I need peace of mind and want to have this over with after a year of torture (always waiting and having to be in touch with him, never being able to cut the cord...)!
So... let this be a moral story..! but also, please keep me in your thoughts so that he'll send my things rather than use up the money, yes? Thank you!!!
Well... I was STUPID!!!
The man was not mean but he was hopeless... always giving promises he couldn't keep, too set in his bachelor ways, a load of baggage he had no way of dealing with... But he got a mental/emotional grip over me because I felt sorry for him. Nonehtheless I had to leave when my tourist visa expired. After that the relationship dissipated as his promises of coming to get me etc. didn't come true. So far so good However... trouble is a brought a lot of stuff to to the US and left it there because I honestly believed that he'd bring me back after getting a job. I've gotten some things back but recently he said no more unless I pay. I got some money, 200 € or 300 USD and sent it, had no choice because I really wish for at least some of the stuff to come back (needless to say he never followed my pleas about what I wanted first ). I haven't heard anything for over two weeks and I'm starting to worry... I know I know they are only material things... but right now I need peace of mind and want to have this over with after a year of torture (always waiting and having to be in touch with him, never being able to cut the cord...)!
So... let this be a moral story..! but also, please keep me in your thoughts so that he'll send my things rather than use up the money, yes? Thank you!!!
Sorry to hear what happend to u, its the past, why spend your energy on something u sure won't work today neither tomorrow. We all make our mistakes. Just forget it and move on, u have learned from that experience.
Fool me once shame on u, fool me twice shame on me. Iam sure u have heard that quation before.
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morgan5: Sorry what happened to you, i bought alot of stuff when i went to Turkey, and have had to leave it and put it down to experience sometimes thats all you can do
Why couldn't you sell it Morgan and where n when did you leave it?
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