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Jun 26, 2009 11:04 AM CST thoughest times of our life...
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
everyone has a hard time of life,if u are far from your beloved and something happened that we didnt expect,how you managed everything?why so many challenge in our life?
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Jun 26, 2009 11:12 AM CST thoughest times of our life...
BClady
BCladyBCladySurrey, British Columbia Canada15 Threads 354 Posts
Why people ask same questions in different threads with different wording? Answers will be same.frustrated
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Jun 26, 2009 11:15 AM CST thoughest times of our life...
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
krisha: everyone has a hard time of life,if u are far from your beloved and something happened that we didnt expect,how you managed everything?why so many challenge in our life?


Because these are the things that are character building in our lives.It's not what happens to you in life it's how you deal with it.What doesn't break you makes you stronger.kiss
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Jul 1, 2009 10:32 AM CST thoughest times of our life...
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
In response to: everyone has a hard time of life,if u are far from your beloved and something happened that we didnt expect,how you managed everything?why so many challenge in our life?


hi krisha... we all have our mountains to climb... but the important thing is that we have friends and family to support you through it and help keep you strong... and help make you strong when your broken... i found this support on cs these last difficult 4 months... and am thankful for all those who shared their own lives and experiences with me...
bouquet bouquet bouquet bouquet bouquet bouquet bouquet bouquet



teddybear

kds
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Jul 1, 2009 10:35 AM CST thoughest times of our life...
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
krisha: everyone has a hard time of life,if u are far from your beloved and something happened that we didnt expect,how you managed everything?why so many challenge in our life?


I like the challange, without it, don't think life will be rewarding and beautifull.
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Jul 1, 2009 10:35 AM CST thoughest times of our life...
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
phoenixrising1: hi krisha... we all have our mountains to climb... but the important thing is that we have friends and family to support you through it and help keep you strong... and help make you strong when your broken... i found this support on cs these last difficult 4 months... and am thankful for all those who shared their own lives and experiences with me...



kds


thumbs up wine hug
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Jul 1, 2009 10:35 AM CST thoughest times of our life...
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
bestbefore: Because these are the things that are character building in our lives.It's not what happens to you in life it's how you deal with it.What doesn't break you makes you stronger.
Not sure i can agree with that, some things are cruel and pointless and benefit no one. wine
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Jul 1, 2009 10:36 AM CST thoughest times of our life...
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
phoenixrising1: hi krisha... we all have our mountains to climb... but the important thing is that we have friends and family to support you through it and help keep you strong... and help make you strong when your broken... i found this support on cs these last difficult 4 months... and am thankful for all those who shared their own lives and experiences with me...



kds
wave I agree, this place and some of the people here have helped me thro alot hug
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Jul 1, 2009 11:47 AM CST thoughest times of our life...
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
morgan5: Not sure i can agree with that, some things are cruel and pointless and benefit no one.


I too can't stand this "What doesn't break you makes you stronger" cliche...

There are some things and events in our lives that's impossible to comprehend.
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Jul 1, 2009 11:52 AM CST thoughest times of our life...
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
Laura25: I too can't stand this "What doesn't break you makes you stronger" cliche...

There are some things and events in our lives that's impossible to comprehend.


If we knew what was going to happen in our lives we would all be psychics and have no need to come to the forums with our recurring problems.What I meant was that you either sink or swim by decisions you make in life.Good bad or indifferent they are choices that only we can make.
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Jul 1, 2009 11:53 AM CST thoughest times of our life...
pubwrite08
pubwrite08pubwrite08Columbus, Georgia USA14 Threads 2,451 Posts
I do not know why stuff goes the way it goes. We all got something to go through. I guess life would not be life if it was not like that.
In response to: everyone has a hard time of life,if u are far from your beloved and something happened that we didnt expect,how you managed everything?why so many challenge in our life?
teddybear
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Jul 1, 2009 11:55 AM CST thoughest times of our life...
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
morgan5: Not sure i can agree with that, some things are cruel and pointless and benefit no one.


Life is cruel at times which is why we have to draw strength to deal with whatever comes our way.The forums are great but real life prevails and S--t happens.
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Jul 1, 2009 11:56 AM CST thoughest times of our life...
In response to: everyone has a hard time of life,if u are far from your beloved and something happened that we didnt expect,how you managed everything?why so many challenge in our life?

life has its way of making it difficult for you at times, but you must remember those who love you and understand when you cannot be there in person, it does not make it any easier for you but if you remember it could help, you have people who are there for you all you have to do is askhug
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Jul 1, 2009 11:58 AM CST thoughest times of our life...
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Laura25: I too can't stand this "What doesn't break you makes you stronger" cliche...

There are some things and events in our lives that's impossible to comprehend.
Not many cliches I do like. And that is one of the ones that I detest!

bouquet Laura.
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Jul 1, 2009 12:00 PM CST thoughest times of our life...
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Laura25: I too can't stand this "What doesn't break you makes you stronger" cliche...

There are some things and events in our lives that's impossible to comprehend.
I agree Laura, try telling it to people you have lost children wine
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Jul 1, 2009 12:03 PM CST thoughest times of our life...
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
bestbefore: Life is cruel at times which is why we have to draw strength to deal with whatever comes our way.The forums are great but real life prevails and S--t happens.
Yes it does, it depends what has happened, and it does NOT always benefit you in any shape or form
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Jul 1, 2009 12:06 PM CST thoughest times of our life...
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
morgan5: I agree Laura, try telling it to people you have lost children



Sorry Morgan,I have lost plenty of people close to me at a very young age and about to have it happen again.I can't stop the process but deal with it the best way I can.We are all different in the way we handle grief
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Jul 1, 2009 12:07 PM CST thoughest times of our life...
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
morgan5: Yes it does, it depends what has happened, and it does NOT always benefit you in any shape or form


Why are we discussing benefits.That word was never mentioned in the O.P.s thread
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Jul 1, 2009 12:08 PM CST thoughest times of our life...
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
bestbefore: Sorry Morgan,I have lost plenty of people close to me at a very young age and about to have it happen again.I can't stop the process but deal with it the best way I can.We are all different in the way we handle grief
Then if it has made you a better person wine

All it has done in my family has caused pain and devastation.
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Jul 1, 2009 12:12 PM CST thoughest times of our life...
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
bestbefore: Because these are the things that are character building in our lives.It's not what happens to you in life it's how you deal with it.What doesn't break you makes you stronger.
You said it was character building is that not a benefit. I disagreed with your first post

Sorry i shan't post again, far to painful and we are looking at this in a different way wine
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