why did I fail in my latest dates ? ( Archived) (17)

Jul 8, 2009 4:31 PM CST why did I fail in my latest dates ?
samizaid
samizaidsamizaidgreenford, Greater London, England UK3 Threads 25 Posts
I FAILED IN MY LATEST DATES .FIRST THE GIRL WAS SOOOOO HAPPY WHEN I ASKED HER OUT .THEN I WAS SO FRANK I TOLD HER I WANT LONG TERM RELATIONSIP
SHE SAID SORRY I AM NOT INTERESTED , THOUGH SHE WAS SOOOOOOOOOOO HAPPY WHEN I ASKED HER OUT WHY??????????????frustrated crying crying crying crying crying crying crying crying crying crying
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Jul 8, 2009 4:35 PM CST why did I fail in my latest dates ?
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
.............Can I give you some advice here,Dude....The day you give up trying to understand 'Woman'....Is the day that you are going to be a lot happier and contented......move on,don't look back...all the best to you.... thumbs up

J.D

grin devil
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Jul 8, 2009 4:38 PM CST why did I fail in my latest dates ?
samizaid
samizaidsamizaidgreenford, Greater London, England UK3 Threads 25 Posts
I WANT TO UNDERSTAND HOW TO BE SUCCESFULLIN MY DATE
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Jul 8, 2009 4:42 PM CST why did I fail in my latest dates ?
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
samizaid: I WANT TO UNDERSTAND HOW TO BE SUCCESFULLIN MY DATE


.......Look, it either 'is' or 'isn't'......there is no magic formula for dating.....and its called 'Chemistry' you might be highly attracted to the Lady....but she isn't attracted to you....that is life....sorry if I make sound so simple....but this is just my humble opinion here...... cheers

J.Ddevil grin
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Jul 8, 2009 4:46 PM CST why did I fail in my latest dates ?
goldstone
goldstonegoldstoneSomewhere Inn, Colorado USA2 Threads 243 Posts
You know as we say... TMI? Don't volunteer information and keep the enigma!
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Jul 8, 2009 4:47 PM CST why did I fail in my latest dates ?
samizaid
samizaidsamizaidgreenford, Greater London, England UK3 Threads 25 Posts
virgiomonkey: .......Look, it either 'is' or 'isn't'......there is no magic formula for dating.....and its called 'Chemistry' you might be highly attracted to the Lady....but she isn't attracted to you....that is life....sorry if I make sound so simple....but this is just my humble opinion here......

J.D
devil
thanx for ur frankness
i can't help it i like her soooooo much
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Jul 8, 2009 4:47 PM CST why did I fail in my latest dates ?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
samizaid: I FAILED IN MY LATEST DATES .FIRST THE GIRL WAS SOOOOO HAPPY WHEN I ASKED HER OUT .THEN I WAS SO FRANK I TOLD HER I WANT LONG TERM RELATIONSIP
SHE SAID SORRY I AM NOT INTERESTED , THOUGH SHE WAS SOOOOOOOOOOO HAPPY WHEN I ASKED HER OUT WHY??????????????


It is called "EMOTIONAL AVAILABILITY", which possibly she is lacking..dunno
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Jul 8, 2009 4:47 PM CST why did I fail in my latest dates ?
samizaid
samizaidsamizaidgreenford, Greater London, England UK3 Threads 25 Posts
goldstone: You know as we say... TMI? Don't volunteer information and keep the enigma!

ok
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Jul 8, 2009 4:48 PM CST why did I fail in my latest dates ?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
samizaid: I WANT TO UNDERSTAND HOW TO BE SUCCESFULLIN MY DATE


Be yourself!!doh
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Jul 8, 2009 4:49 PM CST why did I fail in my latest dates ?
tgwstw
tgwstwtgwstwCork, Ireland71 Threads 4 Polls 3,070 Posts
Well tis nuts my friend.
Perhaps she wanted to see how it went rather than jumping in with both feet?
My recommendation to you is go with the flow.

Some people like to take it easy and breezy.
handshake
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Jul 8, 2009 4:50 PM CST why did I fail in my latest dates ?
daisychain000
daisychain000daisychain000doncaster, South Yorkshire, England UK1 Posts
hello there, im sorry to here that your lady friend you had asked out turned you down,could it be that she got cold feet/change of mind in the end, did it state in your profile you were looking for long term from the offset, if not, maybe it might be a good idea to change your profile stating your preferance,i do hope this makes some king of sence for you,angie
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Jul 8, 2009 4:52 PM CST why did I fail in my latest dates ?
goldstone
goldstonegoldstoneSomewhere Inn, Colorado USA2 Threads 243 Posts
It's as these guys have said too... I've been in your situation too, and they flipped-flopped on me as well. Watch the 'too much, too fast, too soon' syndrome - take it a step at a time. Though you do have to get an idea of wants and boundries, it's all a fine line these days... like dancing on a razor's edge. Best advice I've heard is give things time and keep the discovery into one another there (the enigma) - if that's not there, then we are a one night stand. Hope this helps some.
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Jul 8, 2009 4:53 PM CST why did I fail in my latest dates ?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
I wonder where I could get me a "daisychain"..devil

grin
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Jul 8, 2009 4:54 PM CST why did I fail in my latest dates ?
samizaid
samizaidsamizaidgreenford, Greater London, England UK3 Threads 25 Posts
tgwstw: Well tis nuts my friend.
Perhaps she wanted to see how it went rather than jumping in with both feet?
My recommendation to you is go with the flow.

Some people like to take it easy and breezy.

thanx but she isleaving to italy after 3 days
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Jul 8, 2009 4:55 PM CST why did I fail in my latest dates ?
samizaid
samizaidsamizaidgreenford, Greater London, England UK3 Threads 25 Posts
daisychain000: hello there, im sorry to here that your lady friend you had asked out turned you down,could it be that she got cold feet/change of mind in the end, did it state in your profile you were looking for long term from the offset, if not, maybe it might be a good idea to change your profile stating your preferance,i do hope this makes some king of sence for you,angie


i wrote that in my profle
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Jul 8, 2009 5:00 PM CST why did I fail in my latest dates ?
samizaid
samizaidsamizaidgreenford, Greater London, England UK3 Threads 25 Posts
HJFinAZ: I wonder where I could get me a "daisychain"..

thanx for ur feelings
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Jul 8, 2009 5:09 PM CST why did I fail in my latest dates ?
samizaid
samizaidsamizaidgreenford, Greater London, England UK3 Threads 25 Posts
samizaid: thanx for ur feelings

can u plz tell me what to do in the first date
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