Do you have to be jealous of someone in order to show you love him/her? ( Archived) (11)

Jul 24, 2009 8:47 AM CST Do you have to be jealous of someone in order to show you love him/her?
vanitystorm
vanitystormvanitystormroxboro, North Carolina USA12 Threads 180 Posts
I don't believe so. I am not a jealous person, cause i believe if that person loves me i have nothing to be jealous over. If a woman hits on my man behind my back it's his job to take care of it. if she does it in front of me it confirms my belief that she is an attention seeker who lacks morals, so i treat her as i would a mentally challenged disabled person: I smile and tell her she is so special! I know how to handle myself in a relationship so i expect the man to do the right thing. if he decides to take her up on the suggestion it proves to me he never loved me to began with. Drama isn't my thing. If it was i would appear on The Jerry Springer Show! I fight for people or animals who can't fight for themselves. A grown man should be able to brush off a woman!
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Jul 24, 2009 8:51 AM CST Do you have to be jealous of someone in order to show you love him/her?
friends4now
friends4nowfriends4nowMelbourne, Florida USA73 Threads 10 Polls 2,366 Posts
vanitystorm: I don't believe so. I am not a jealous person, cause i believe if that person loves me i have nothing to be jealous over. If a woman hits on my man behind my back it's his job to take care of it. if she does it in front of me it confirms my belief that she is an attention seeker who lacks morals, so i treat her as i would a mentally challenged disabled person: I smile and tell her she is so special! I know how to handle myself in a relationship so i expect the man to do the right thing. if he decides to take her up on the suggestion it proves to me he never loved me to began with. Drama isn't my thing. If it was i would appear on The Jerry Springer Show! I fight for people or animals who can't fight for themselves. A grown man should be able to brush off a woman!



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Jul 24, 2009 8:57 AM CST Do you have to be jealous of someone in order to show you love him/her?
cameraman
cameramancameramanSt. Petersburg, Florida USA29 Threads 19 Polls 2,501 Posts
hmmm Hmmm...
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Jul 24, 2009 9:00 AM CST Do you have to be jealous of someone in order to show you love him/her?
Amira
AmiraAmiraLimassol, Cyprus163 Posts
cameraman: Hmmm...


You couldnt say anything?laugh
Or u shouldn't?????????????rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing dancing
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Jul 24, 2009 9:07 AM CST Do you have to be jealous of someone in order to show you love him/her?
cameraman
cameramancameramanSt. Petersburg, Florida USA29 Threads 19 Polls 2,501 Posts
Amira: You couldnt say anything?
Or u shouldn't?????????????


laugh I wouldn't cause I couldn't so I shouldn't... Or must I??? rolling on the floor laughing dancing
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Jul 24, 2009 11:48 AM CST Do you have to be jealous of someone in order to show you love him/her?
Brian67
Brian67Brian67Aurora, Ontario Canada7 Threads 295 Posts
vanitystorm: I don't believe so. I am not a jealous person, cause i believe if that person loves me i have nothing to be jealous over. If a woman hits on my man behind my back it's his job to take care of it. if she does it in front of me it confirms my belief that she is an attention seeker who lacks morals, so i treat her as i would a mentally challenged disabled person: I smile and tell her she is so special! I know how to handle myself in a relationship so i expect the man to do the right thing. if he decides to take her up on the suggestion it proves to me he never loved me to began with. Drama isn't my thing. If it was i would appear on The Jerry Springer Show! I fight for people or animals who can't fight for themselves. A grown man should be able to brush off a woman!


Jealousy in a relationship is a sing of possessiveness, domination, and much more! Leads to greater problemsprofessor
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Jul 24, 2009 11:50 AM CST Do you have to be jealous of someone in order to show you love him/her?
pubwrite08
pubwrite08pubwrite08Columbus, Georgia USA14 Threads 2,451 Posts
Well, I would not be jealous, but I let chickie know that hitting on my man in front of me is a bad idea. JMHOprofessor
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Jul 24, 2009 11:52 AM CST Do you have to be jealous of someone in order to show you love him/her?
Lillym
LillymLillymSliema, Majjistral Malta33 Threads 3,391 Posts
vanitystorm: I don't believe so. I am not a jealous person, cause i believe if that person loves me i have nothing to be jealous over. If a woman hits on my man behind my back it's his job to take care of it. if she does it in front of me it confirms my belief that she is an attention seeker who lacks morals, so i treat her as i would a mentally challenged disabled person: I smile and tell her she is so special! I know how to handle myself in a relationship so i expect the man to do the right thing. if he decides to take her up on the suggestion it proves to me he never loved me to began with. Drama isn't my thing. If it was i would appear on The Jerry Springer Show! I fight for people or animals who can't fight for themselves. A grown man should be able to brush off a woman!



How true... unfortunately that is not always the case!
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Jul 24, 2009 11:53 AM CST Do you have to be jealous of someone in order to show you love him/her?
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
I can and do sometimes dominate;
it really depends on my mood though.
Brian67: Jealousy in a relationship is a sing of possessiveness, domination, and much more! Leads to greater problems
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Jul 24, 2009 11:53 AM CST Do you have to be jealous of someone in order to show you love him/her?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
No, I don't believe you have to be jealous of someone to show them you love them. Quite the opposite...if you love them, and you show them often in little and big ways, then they should be secure enough in that love to not need displays of jealousy from you. I certainly don't need them, nor do I want them.

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Jul 24, 2009 12:39 PM CST Do you have to be jealous of someone in order to show you love him/her?
No I don't believe you have to be jealous to show your SO that you love them.
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