How you handle it? (118)
SOME DAYS I handle bad situations well,and some days,when it's too much......I just throw my hands in the air and say,,,''I can't take this s.hit anymore.''
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thewall2: SOME DAYS I handle bad situations well,and some days,when it's too much......I just throw my hands in the air and say,,,''I can't take this s.hit anymore.''
We all have these I-can't-take-this-s.hit-anymore days once in while, Wall.
Not letting these kind of days turn into weeks or even months - main concern.
Good morning
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Laura25: No, no one should tell anybody how long,
it wouldn't make any sense,
becuse the length and intensity of the grieving process is unique for every person, too many individual factors are involved in these experiences.
it wouldn't make any sense,
becuse the length and intensity of the grieving process is unique for every person, too many individual factors are involved in these experiences.
However many people seek help and expect to be told how to handle it and if they follow that advice they will become better. Many people don't take responsibility for their own recovery.
If we need help, seek it, but in the final analysis set a plan to get on with your life.
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Laura25: We all have these I-can't-take-this-s.hit-anymore days once in while, Wall.
Not letting these kind of days turn into weeks or even months - main concern. Good morning
Not letting these kind of days turn into weeks or even months - main concern. Good morning
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Laura25: We all have these I-can't-take-this-s.hit-anymore days once in while, Wall.
Not letting these kind of days turn into weeks or even months - main concern. Good morning
Not letting these kind of days turn into weeks or even months - main concern. Good morning
LATELY I've been having alot of those days.....
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Big_John: However many people seek help and expect to be told how to handle it and if they follow that advice they will become better. Many people don't take responsibility for their own recovery.
you mean as in getting professional help? 
Big_John: If we need help, seek it, but in the final analysis set a plan to get on with your life.
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thewall2: LATELY I've been having alot of those days.....
Be proactive to find a way out of it.
Or maybe try spending more time at the gym?
It helps.
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Laura25: Be proactive to find a way out of it. Or maybe try spending more time at the gym?
It helps.
It helps.
I lay bricks and spend over 15 hours a week AT the gym.....you think I might need more?
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Someday's it's easy, someday's it's hard....but having a twisted sense of humor helps me keep it all in perspective!
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Laura25: you mean as in getting professional help?
Yes I believe certain people benefit from it. It is not for everyone nor do I believe it works for everyone. I support the group sessions more than the inidividual ones. These allow you to sit and reflect on the issue and see how others are dealing with it.
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It is cultivated and I work hard at it.....
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Laura25: Be proactive to find a way out of it. Or maybe try spending more time at the gym?
It helps.
It helps.
Thanks for the advice.....
aprreciate it.
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stefonline: It is cultivated and I work hard at it.....
Me too
Hiya Stef
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thewall2: I lay bricks and spend over 15 hours a week AT the gym.....you think I might need more?
LOL!!!! I know, darling Wall, you
Was just teasing you
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amahlala: Someday's it's easy, someday's it's hard....but having a twisted sense of humor helps me keep it all in perspective!
hahah... that's why I am so resilient!!
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Laura25: hahah... that's why I am so resilient!!
YUP!
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CuspofMagic: I think looking cheerful ,smiling and being very pleasant etc is a way of diffusing what may be affecting one on the inside and a good start.
taking time to really look and feel all the emmotions and accepting that life throws up these challenges
taking time to really look and feel all the emmotions and accepting that life throws up these challenges
Consciously working it from the outside in?
Yes, there is something in it too. As a part of the process.
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I realy don't believe we have left this collective harmony but this harmony is primal.
Dennis
Great points, Dennis
Even if first-time parent(s) are not that young or if they are not the first-time parent(s),
depending on what you meant by :) not having a lot of practice,
parenting is still the toughest job there is, many people have no clue on how-to mainly because of how they themselves were raised, IMO.
Of course there is no one-fits-all broad-brush outline on how-to, but if I had to choose one I'd say it in title of a book I saw once: 'The greatest gift you can give your children is to love your spouse'.