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love74liepzig, Saxony-Anhalt Germany9 Threads 6 Polls 110 PostsWhy don't people who want to love and to be loved find true love.Why must life always be the opposite.The ones who don't want it,have it now and are playing with it and we are all here dying to find it,even if its just half of it and the sarch is like a never ending story.WHY,WHY,WHY.Somebody pls tell me why?
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love74: Why don't people who want to love and to be loved find true love.Why must life always be the opposite.The ones who don't want it,have it now and are playing with it and we are all here dying to find it,even if its just half of it and the sarch is like a never ending story.WHY,WHY,WHY.Somebody pls tell me why?
What you feel and seem to perceive ( about other's love ) is an illusion from inside your head. Try not to let your mind tell you how others live their lives and their loves.
Concentrate on your own life and tell yourself over and over again "when things feel bad, they are never as bad as you feel they are".
Stay away from the 'why', 'why' is a never ending circle circle into which you can get sucked in like inside a black whole. Instead try to ask yourself 'how', it's much more constructive and easier on your head
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Grandepensees: What you feel and seem to perceive ( about other's love ) is an illusion from inside your head. Try not to let your mind tell you how others live their lives and their loves.
Concentrate on your own life and tell yourself over and over again "when things feel bad, they are never as bad as you feel they are".
Stay away from the 'why', 'why' is a never ending circle circle into which you can get sucked in like inside a black whole. Instead try to ask yourself 'how', it's much more constructive and easier on your head
You think its an illusion in my head.If i may ask,what are you looking for here on CS if your love life is so good. Concentrate on your own life and tell yourself over and over again "when things feel bad, they are never as bad as you feel they are".
Stay away from the 'why', 'why' is a never ending circle circle into which you can get sucked in like inside a black whole. Instead try to ask yourself 'how', it's much more constructive and easier on your head
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love74: Why don't people who want to love and to be loved find true love.Why must life always be the opposite.The ones who don't want it,have it now and are playing with it and we are all here dying to find it,even if its just half of it and the sarch is like a never ending story.WHY,WHY,WHY.Somebody pls tell me why?
Just remember :Don't be careless with other peoples hearts, but don't allow other people to be careless with yours.
Some of us are looking for true love, we are not all players. Someone will find you. Hang in there.
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I guess what I'd be thinking about if I were not having success is not what's wrong with life (??) but rather what goes wrong when I'm in a relationship, and what role I play in that. Blaming others or life itself completely negates your personal power, Love. It may not be pleasant to look at yourself and ask how you're contributing to the relationship-situation, but at least that offers the possibility of actually changing something for the better since we only have direct control over ourselves.
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love74: Why don't people who want to love and to be loved find true love.Why must life always be the opposite.The ones who don't want it,have it now and are playing with it and we are all here dying to find it,even if its just half of it and the sarch is like a never ending story.WHY,WHY,WHY.Somebody pls tell me why?
i gues it all goes back to the old saying "if someone gives it too u on a silver platter u won't appreciate it" maybe this is the mentality of the people u were talking about. well, if good things come to those who wait, than i am in for one heck of a treat. I've been in more weddings than a wedding director, but never in my own. if it's something we want than we have no choice but to hang in there.
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love74: Why don't people who want to love and to be loved find true love.Why must life always be the opposite.The ones who don't want it,have it now and are playing with it and we are all here dying to find it,even if its just half of it and the sarch is like a never ending story.WHY,WHY,WHY.Somebody pls tell me why?
you sound sad, are you ok?
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Ambrose2007: I guess what I'd be thinking about if I were not having success is not what's wrong with life (??) but rather what goes wrong when I'm in a relationship, and what role I play in that. Blaming others or life itself completely negates your personal power, Love. It may not be pleasant to look at yourself and ask how you're contributing to the relationship-situation, but at least that offers the possibility of actually changing something for the better since we only have direct control over ourselves.
i believe you are right. i am talking about for me cause i don't know love74. i've been thinking the same thing. i know most of my vices, but i see people out here a whole lot worse than me finding eternal love. i know i think back to all of the guys that did love me and still do and i could not love them back. they were not what i wanted and i couldn't make myself love them so i was honest to them. I could have been married by now, but i guess i was the one who screwed myself of out luck. I wished i could love the good ones who did/still do love me. Good comment. now u got me thinking.------ This thread is Archived ------
avecaim: someone did it to us so we learn to do it to others
Well I see someones been paying attention! you got that right
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Brian67: Well I see someones been paying attention! you got that right
Begs the question, how do we stop doing it if we are yet unaware?
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love74: Well,not really sad but sometimes i wonder why things are the way they are?
Maybe we can brainstorm some strategies? My brain needs help, though
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love74: Why don't people who want to love and to be loved find true love.Why must life always be the opposite.The ones who don't want it,have it now and are playing with it and we are all here dying to find it,even if its just half of it and the sarch is like a never ending story.WHY,WHY,WHY.Somebody pls tell me why?
I'd tell you when i'd know....
But if you know first, tell me....
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love74: Hello,where have you been?
I've been hidding in my desperation room
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avecaim: Begs the question, how do we stop doing it if we are yet unaware?
We are animals, and as animals we sometimes can`t help ourselves. Or get out of control.
It`s very simple when you think about IT! It has do do with our conscience,
IF you believe, and can acknowledge to yourself that what your doing is wrong you`ll endup not doing it!
So as the old age question do you know right from wrong, and only your inner conscience can answer that.
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Grandepensees: I'm not the one crying about it, you are
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If you have a one track mind, blame it on yourself.
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If you have a one track mind, blame it on yourself.
And I thought you were only in attacking my posts on here. (from this morning's experience) What a different way of talking to ladies, are you sure you really want to be here?
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love74: Why don't people who want to love and to be loved find true love.Why must life always be the opposite.The ones who don't want it,have it now and are playing with it and we are all here dying to find it,even if its just half of it and the sarch is like a never ending story.WHY,WHY,WHY.Somebody pls tell me why?
I found love here and married him and want it for life------ This thread is Archived ------
love74: Why don't people who want to love and to be loved find true love.Why must life always be the opposite.
Tell me about it! Maybe it's karma or something.
But, yes, it's amazing how that works.------ This thread is Archived ------
love74: You think its an illusion in my head.If i may ask,what are you looking for here on CS if your love life is so good.
I am married and i am here for the friends i have met here on the forums..I dont care if any agree/disagre with me being here..
The only one that i care about that cares that i am here is my Husband and he knows i am here..
Enough said
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