The more I think about it the more I find it to be ok to feel this way and to let others know you feel it. I am talking about feeling and saying you NEED a man/woman in your life. Some make us feel guilty for having that feeling. I have come to my owm conclusion: Not anything wrong with needing a SO. If that were not the case I would not be here. That does not mean I am a helpless, needy old woman. HELL NO!!! Simply put, I am more content when I have a man in my life. No I don't need a critter, nor does it mean any man. I have a few male friends. It means I need that special someone who will contribute to who I am in thought, action and respect and I will return same. Most likely I did not word this exactly the way I wanted but I am sure most will understand. Mainly, we should not be made to think just because we feel like we need someone that we are not happy with who we are. Sassys ramblings.
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
sassy49senior: The more I think about it the more I find it to be ok to feel this way and to let others know you feel it. I am talking about feeling and saying you NEED a man/woman in your life. Some make us feel guilty for having that feeling. I have come to my owm conclusion: Not anything wrong with needing a SO. If that were not the case I would not be here. That does not mean I am a helpless, needy old woman. HELL NO!!! Simply put, I am more content when I have a man in my life. No I don't need a critter, nor does it mean any man. I have a few male friends. It means I need that special someone who will contribute to who I am in thought, action and respect and I will return same. Most likely I did not word this exactly the way I wanted but I am sure most will understand. Mainly, we should not be made to think just because we feel like we need someone that we are not happy with who we are. Sassys ramblings.
Good ramblings, Sassy. And while I'm content in my singledom, I feel the same way you do. I'm complete, but I'd like someone to share the rest of my journey. I have critters, friends, and children, but that's not the same as having that one special person by your side.
sassy49senior: The more I think about it the more I find it to be ok to feel this way and to let others know you feel it. I am talking about feeling and saying you NEED a man/woman in your life. Some make us feel guilty for having that feeling. I have come to my owm conclusion: Not anything wrong with needing a SO. If that were not the case I would not be here. That does not mean I am a helpless, needy old woman. HELL NO!!! Simply put, I am more content when I have a man in my life. No I don't need a critter, nor does it mean any man. I have a few male friends. It means I need that special someone who will contribute to who I am in thought, action and respect and I will return same. Most likely I did not word this exactly the way I wanted but I am sure most will understand. Mainly, we should not be made to think just because we feel like we need someone that we are not happy with who we are. Sassys ramblings.
druidess6308: Good ramblings, Sassy. And while I'm content in my singledom, I feel the same way you do. I'm complete, but I'd like someone to share the rest of my journey. I have critters, friends, and children, but that's not the same as having that one special person by your side.
Spot on Dru, Does not put us in the woe is me section. For me in means contentment.
gooddogman: You just need some help you feed and clean all those critter of yours..... You better get to work getting that hay in before it snow up there...
I dont have enough field for hay, so I have to buy it.
Hi gang, I see you all hanging out. oops, careful what I say. Hey guy's it's good to have you guy out there, when I get a little lonely or my dogs get mad at me because I haven't taking them out. (Beatle's song playing Let it Be), there will be a answer. Ok I am liking my life as a single. I guess, I have reached a age that I find friends very important. That's why I'm still on here you people. I didn't think that it mattered, if I was here or not but found It does. Thanks.
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