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Aug 5, 2009 12:31 PM CST Why Not Feel This Way
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
The more I think about it the more I find it to be ok to feel this way and to let others know you feel it. I am talking about feeling and saying you NEED a man/woman in your life. Some make us feel guilty for having that feeling. I have come to my owm conclusion: Not anything wrong with needing a SO. If that were not the case I would not be here. That does not mean I am a helpless, needy old woman. HELL NO!!! Simply put, I am more content when I have a man in my life. No I don't need a critter, nor does it mean any man. I have a few male friends. It means I need that special someone who will contribute to who I am in thought, action and respect and I will return same. Most likely I did not word this exactly the way I wanted but I am sure most will understand. Mainly, we should not be made to think just because we feel like we need someone that we are not happy with who we are. Sassys ramblings. blues
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Aug 5, 2009 12:32 PM CST Why Not Feel This Way
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
sassy49senior: The more I think about it the more I find it to be ok to feel this way and to let others know you feel it. I am talking about feeling and saying you NEED a man/woman in your life. Some make us feel guilty for having that feeling. I have come to my owm conclusion: Not anything wrong with needing a SO. If that were not the case I would not be here. That does not mean I am a helpless, needy old woman. HELL NO!!! Simply put, I am more content when I have a man in my life. No I don't need a critter, nor does it mean any man. I have a few male friends. It means I need that special someone who will contribute to who I am in thought, action and respect and I will return same. Most likely I did not word this exactly the way I wanted but I am sure most will understand. Mainly, we should not be made to think just because we feel like we need someone that we are not happy with who we are. Sassys ramblings.


Nothing wrong what so ever..teddybear
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Aug 5, 2009 12:34 PM CST Why Not Feel This Way
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Good ramblings, Sassy. And while I'm content in my singledom, I feel the same way you do. I'm complete, but I'd like someone to share the rest of my journey. I have critters, friends, and children, but that's not the same as having that one special person by your side. wine
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Aug 5, 2009 12:35 PM CST Why Not Feel This Way
Da10th
Da10thDa10thThree Springs, Pennsylvania USA17 Threads 2,744 Posts
sassy49senior: The more I think about it the more I find it to be ok to feel this way and to let others know you feel it. I am talking about feeling and saying you NEED a man/woman in your life. Some make us feel guilty for having that feeling. I have come to my owm conclusion: Not anything wrong with needing a SO. If that were not the case I would not be here. That does not mean I am a helpless, needy old woman. HELL NO!!! Simply put, I am more content when I have a man in my life. No I don't need a critter, nor does it mean any man. I have a few male friends. It means I need that special someone who will contribute to who I am in thought, action and respect and I will return same. Most likely I did not word this exactly the way I wanted but I am sure most will understand. Mainly, we should not be made to think just because we feel like we need someone that we are not happy with who we are. Sassys ramblings.
hug hug hug hug
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Aug 5, 2009 12:37 PM CST Why Not Feel This Way
USThumper
USThumperUSThumperMexico, New York USA4 Threads 3,957 Posts
Ive stated all along that I need a woman in my life. Im just not made to be running solo. I can, but sure as hell dont want to.bouquet
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Aug 5, 2009 12:38 PM CST Why Not Feel This Way
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
Thank you KMD, In one of my moods today. hug
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Aug 5, 2009 12:39 PM CST Why Not Feel This Way
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
sassy49senior: Thank you KMD, In one of my moods today.
We are here for youhug
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Aug 5, 2009 12:41 PM CST Why Not Feel This Way
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
druidess6308: Good ramblings, Sassy. And while I'm content in my singledom, I feel the same way you do. I'm complete, but I'd like someone to share the rest of my journey. I have critters, friends, and children, but that's not the same as having that one special person by your side.





Spot on Dru, Does not put us in the woe is me section. For me in means contentment. hug
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Aug 5, 2009 12:42 PM CST Why Not Feel This Way
readyornot0
readyornot0readyornot0stratford- on -slaney, Wicklow Ireland49 Threads 3 Polls 1,242 Posts
sassy49senior: Thank you KMD, In one of my moods today.
erm will you marry ME XXXinnocent
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Aug 5, 2009 12:43 PM CST Why Not Feel This Way
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
Hi Da, Good to see you again. teddybear
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Aug 5, 2009 12:44 PM CST Why Not Feel This Way
readyornot0
readyornot0readyornot0stratford- on -slaney, Wicklow Ireland49 Threads 3 Polls 1,242 Posts
but
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Aug 5, 2009 12:46 PM CST Why Not Feel This Way
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
USThumper: Ive stated all along that I need a woman in my life. Im just not made to be running solo. I can, but sure as hell dont want to.




Thank you so much for that Thumper and being totally honest.hug That is what I was trying to say. teddybear
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Aug 5, 2009 12:47 PM CST Why Not Feel This Way
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
readyornot0: erm will you marry ME XXX




I thought we were already married wink laugh
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Aug 5, 2009 12:47 PM CST Why Not Feel This Way
readyornot0
readyornot0readyornot0stratford- on -slaney, Wicklow Ireland49 Threads 3 Polls 1,242 Posts
sassy49senior: Thank you so much for that Thumper and being totally honest. That is what I was trying to say.
so is that a nO ? omg what shall i do now?sigh
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Aug 5, 2009 12:49 PM CST Why Not Feel This Way
Da10th
Da10thDa10thThree Springs, Pennsylvania USA17 Threads 2,744 Posts
sassy49senior: Hi Da, Good to see you again.
Likewise, been too long :)wave
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Aug 5, 2009 12:50 PM CST Why Not Feel This Way
gooddogman
gooddogmangooddogmanLeesburg, Florida USA23 Threads 1,028 Posts
USThumper: Ive stated all along that I need a woman in my life. Im just not made to be running solo. I can, but sure as hell dont want to.
You just need some help you feed and clean all those critter of yours.....rolling on the floor laughing handshake You better get to work getting that hay in before it snow up there...laugh cheers
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Aug 5, 2009 12:51 PM CST Why Not Feel This Way
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
USThumper: Ive stated all along that I need a woman in my life. Im just not made to be running solo. I can, but sure as hell dont want to.


Agreed, Thumper. I'm happy enough doing so for now, but I don't want to do it forever. bouquet
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Aug 5, 2009 12:54 PM CST Why Not Feel This Way
readyornot0
readyornot0readyornot0stratford- on -slaney, Wicklow Ireland49 Threads 3 Polls 1,242 Posts
druidess6308: Agreed, Thumper. I'm happy enough doing so for now, but I don't want to do it forever.
hi dru you ok there thanks for the advice it worked
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Aug 5, 2009 12:59 PM CST Why Not Feel This Way
USThumper
USThumperUSThumperMexico, New York USA4 Threads 3,957 Posts
gooddogman: You just need some help you feed and clean all those critter of yours..... You better get to work getting that hay in before it snow up there...
I dont have enough field for hay, so I have to buy it.sigh cheers
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Aug 5, 2009 1:12 PM CST Why Not Feel This Way
gooddogman
gooddogmangooddogmanLeesburg, Florida USA23 Threads 1,028 Posts
Hi gang, I see you all hanging out. oops, careful what I say. Hey guy's it's good to have you guy out there, when I get a little lonely or my dogs get mad at me because I haven't taking them out. (Beatle's song playing Let it Be), there will be a answer. Ok I am liking my life as a single. I guess, I have reached a age that I find friends very important. That's why I'm still on here you people. I didn't think that it mattered, if I was here or not but found It does. Thanks.
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