Well, that's how I think it is, or at least should be... but I don't exactly want to see that one in a literal sense! *shudders at the thought of staring eyes from the chest*
Anyways, despite what I think and all jokes aside, it seems to be more common these days than is necessary. If it didn't involve hurting them, I'd give a swift kick to the guys who can only go as far as skin-deep to think they're in love.
Just for the record, the entire phyciatric world rolls their collective eyes whenever 'Dr. Phil' speaks, he is single-handedly turning professional phychology into a series of non-violent Jerry Springer shows. Now on to my point....
I can't speak for all men but i don't fall in love with my eyes, i fall in lust with my eyes. I fall in love with my head, any woman who can appeal to me with more than just physical beauty is truly attractive. There are too many aspects of falling in love to simply be broken down to just perceiving them through one sense.
Women may listen, but i am of the impression it is not to fall in love; they listen simply to have something we said to hold against us in the next argument that we would never remember...therefore they win because we can't argue with something we don't remember! As far as what it takes for a woman to fall in love...see above.
A disagreement between her and him. He sees it one way and she sees it another way. It would behoove him to listen to her. I would think a pleased woman would be more agreeable to live with.
I believe in the possiblity that a woman can be beautiful, intelligent and loving at the same time. It is just a theory. I am not saying thsat it has been proven, yet.
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The wife's complaint was that when approached for intimacy, she would prefer a little more romance.
His idea of romance was "C'mon baby - let's do it."