Is it ok to court 3 women on this site to see if maybe 1 might work out? does that make you a player (73)
dnlrffrosedale, Victoria Australia4 Threads 1 Polls 25 PostsPlease feel free to tell all. The boundaries on net dating are so confused. Whats your opinion? What should happen? I am so new at this I don't know if I'm doing the right thing.
dnlrff: Please feel free to tell all. The boundaries on net dating are so confused. Whats your opinion? What should happen? I am so new at this I don't know if I'm doing the right thing.
Think of it this way, how would you feel if they were courting 2 other men & yourself at the same time?
I get your point though It feels like a totally different senario to in person dating.
yep if you have made the other women feel they are the only one well yes you shouldnt be dating others....ppl use the excuse that its a cyber thing so its not real ...peoples emotions and feelings aret he same here or out in the world....... so make it clear that your dating others, so they have a choice in the matter ..
but at the moment yes id call you a player .........
but at the moment yes id call you a player .........
dnlrff: Please feel free to tell all. The boundaries on net dating are so confused. Whats your opinion? What should happen? I am so new at this I don't know if I'm doing the right thing.
No I think its fine just sorting out the wheat from the chaff as nothing is set in concrete until you meet someone I know heaps that have done it me also.
Shell225: OP, if you are honest and open that you are dating and non exclusive then NO you are not a player.
Its all about communicating.
saseez: yep if you have made the other women feel they are the only one well yes you shouldnt be dating others....ppl use the excuse that its a cyber thing so its not real ...peoples emotions and feelings aret he same here or out in the world....... so make it clear that your dating others, so they have a choice in the matter ..
but at the moment yes id call you a player .........
but at the moment yes id call you a player .........
Oops but not if you are seeing them in person no way.Only chatting on internet and its polite to just say you are.
yes i havent met anyone in person. no contact other than chat and forwar conversation at times...thank you for your view
dnlrff: yes i havent met anyone in person. no contact other than chat and forwar conversation at times...thank you for your view
Thanks for putting yourself out there like that and accepting any criticism , good luck with your endeavors
dnlrff: Yes i feel guilty about chatting with more than one woman...this is why im raising the question at hand. thanks i will be more focused to one woman to i from now on
Just be honest and let them know that you do chat to other people. Im sure you'll find that they chat to others also. To me a date is when you are out in person.
I always believe that exclusivity is something that should be discussed not assumed.
Thank you Shell your a wise lady. Now I know the boundaries of web dating. Its confusing to leave marriage and end up on a website with good looking women everywhere. Be easier to grab a girl by the hand and ask for a dance but i live in the stix....its hard to meet girls that way.
Twodawgz: That makes you a sheilanova..
that must be oz word
i'd say, just too much time on me hands
bourbon: You tart!... I thought that I was the only one.
Why don't you just cut my heart out and stomp on it.
Are you free tomorrow night?
Why don't you just cut my heart out and stomp on it.
Are you free tomorrow night?
Sorry bourbs, i actually have a dinner & drinks date, i do out out sometimes
Shell225: Just be honest and let them know that you do chat to other people. Im sure you'll find that they chat to others also. To me a date is when you are out in person.
I always believe that exclusivity is something that should be discussed not assumed.
I always believe that exclusivity is something that should be discussed not assumed.
yeeeep... discussed definitely.. otherwise you end up finding out the hard way that you're not the only one he/she is talking to!
tarnsnz: Sorry bourbs, i actually have a dinner & drinks date, i do out out sometimes
HANG ON A SECOND!!!! You cant drop that and leave!!
Who is he?? where does he come from?? Does he own his own house?? What sort of car does he drive?? How old is he??
Shell225: HANG ON A SECOND!!!! You cant drop that and leave!!
Who is he?? where does he come from?? Does he own his own house?? What sort of car does he drive?? How old is he??
Who is he?? where does he come from?? Does he own his own house?? What sort of car does he drive?? How old is he??
????????? who cares, hey he very tall, dark & good looking and 38yrs,
it just dinner, some drinks and hitting the town, nothing more
Shell225: HANG ON A SECOND!!!! You cant drop that and leave!!
Who is he?? where does he come from?? Does he own his own house?? What sort of car does he drive?? How old is he??
Who is he?? where does he come from?? Does he own his own house?? What sort of car does he drive?? How old is he??
I own nothing... except a old and tired commodore.
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