Is it ok to court 3 women on this site to see if maybe 1 might work out? does that make you a player (73)

Aug 20, 2009 6:33 AM CST Is it ok to court 3 women on this site to see if maybe 1 might work out? does that make you a player
bourbon
bourbonbourbonSunshine Coast, Queensland Australia32 Threads 4 Polls 3,504 Posts
melty1: Here's a gift of strawberries for you both. Never mind the white powder on the top!


If you're not eating them... then I'm not eating them. uh oh
Aug 20, 2009 6:34 AM CST Is it ok to court 3 women on this site to see if maybe 1 might work out? does that make you a player
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
melty1: Here's a gift of strawberries for you both. Never mind the white powder on the top!


wine Thanks babe! Don't wait up! grin
Aug 20, 2009 6:35 AM CST Is it ok to court 3 women on this site to see if maybe 1 might work out? does that make you a player
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
bourbon: If you're not eating them... then I'm not eating them.

you have no sense of adventure sigh
Aug 20, 2009 6:50 AM CST Is it ok to court 3 women on this site to see if maybe 1 might work out? does that make you a player
bourbon
bourbonbourbonSunshine Coast, Queensland Australia32 Threads 4 Polls 3,504 Posts
serene56: you have no sense of adventure


Maybe not... but I do have a sense of self-preservation. laugh
Aug 20, 2009 7:02 AM CST Is it ok to court 3 women on this site to see if maybe 1 might work out? does that make you a player
melty1
melty1melty1Goolwa, South Australia Australia11 Threads 2 Polls 4,121 Posts
bourbon: Maybe not... but I do have a sense of self-preservation.
But may give in to temptation wink
Aug 20, 2009 7:12 AM CST Is it ok to court 3 women on this site to see if maybe 1 might work out? does that make you a player
kkkaq
kkkaqkkkaqrotorua, Bay of Plenty New Zealand105 Posts
melty1: But may give in to temptation


Yes but then you may have to ask for salvationdoh
Aug 20, 2009 7:16 AM CST Is it ok to court 3 women on this site to see if maybe 1 might work out? does that make you a player
bourbon
bourbonbourbonSunshine Coast, Queensland Australia32 Threads 4 Polls 3,504 Posts
melty1: Still waiting for my carnation


Try meditation. wink
Aug 20, 2009 7:23 AM CST Is it ok to court 3 women on this site to see if maybe 1 might work out? does that make you a player
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
melty1: Still waiting for my carnation

sigh me too
Aug 20, 2009 7:24 AM CST Is it ok to court 3 women on this site to see if maybe 1 might work out? does that make you a player
kkkaq
kkkaqkkkaqrotorua, Bay of Plenty New Zealand105 Posts
bourbon: Try meditation.


Why are you hoping for redemptionhelp
Aug 20, 2009 7:25 AM CST Is it ok to court 3 women on this site to see if maybe 1 might work out? does that make you a player
Twodawgz
TwodawgzTwodawgzmelbourne, Victoria Australia4 Threads 4,009 Posts
bourbon: Try meditation.


For constipation
Aug 20, 2009 4:36 PM CST Is it ok to court 3 women on this site to see if maybe 1 might work out? does that make you a player
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
In this world, if you read the papers, darling,
You know everybody's fighting with each other.
You got no one you can count on, dear,
Not even your own brother.
So if someone comes along,
He/she gonna give you love and affection,

I'd say get it while you can, yeah,
Honey, get it while you can, yeah,
Honey, grab it while you can,
Don't you turn your back on love, no, no, no.

When you're loving somebody, baby,
You're taking a gamble against some sorrow.
But who knows, baby,
'Cause we may not be here tomorrow.
And if anybody comes along,
He/she gonna give you love and affection,

I'd say get it while you can, yeah!
Honey, grab it when you're gonna need it!
Yeah hey, hold it while you can,
Don't you turn your sweet back on love,
No no no, no no no no no!

Ah! Once I had me a man,
But I didn't know enough at the time
To count my blessings, no no,
But I wish he could see me crying today,
'Cause his love don't feel to listen.
And if anybody comes along,
He/she gonna give me love and affection,
Yeah, hey!, Hey! Yeah! Hey!

Get it while you can, yeah!
Honey, get it while you can, yeah!
Honey, get it while you can,
Don't you turn your back on love,
No no no, no no no no.

Get it while you can, yeah!
Honey, grab it while you can, yeah!
I said, hold on to that man, love,
Hold on to that man/or girl whole,
Yeah, get it, want it, need it,
Get it, get it, hold it, need it, want it,
Get it, need it, want it, hold it,
Get it, squeeze it, love it, touch it,
Use it, need it, want it, get it,
Need it, want it, hold it,

Yeah hey, get it while you can, baby,
Yeah hey, get it while you can,
Honey, don't you go and turn your sweet back on love,
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no
No, no, daddy, you'll be sorry,
No, no, no, no!

Why, thank you! I don't smoke. I just don't sleep, man, that's the trouble. I gotta sleep sometime. There's too much happening, why sleep, man ? I might miss a party.

Ball and Chain! Ball and Chain! Ball and Chain.

Stay short tonight man, shorten it, shorten it, shorten it.

Three, four!

Yeah!!!
ahahahahahahahahahah

Go Janis head banger wine
Aug 21, 2009 2:29 AM CST Is it ok to court 3 women on this site to see if maybe 1 might work out? does that make you a player
dnlrff
dnlrffdnlrffrosedale, Victoria Australia4 Threads 1 Polls 25 Posts
Wow milo..that was deep...thank you for spending the time to explain the womans perspective. I try to do the right thing but there are a lot of grey areas out there, one definately has to watch where their treading
Sep 12, 2009 11:20 PM CST Is it ok to court 3 women on this site to see if maybe 1 might work out? does that make you a player
blondeaozichick
blondeaozichickblondeaozichickMelbourne, Victoria Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 4,392 Posts
dnlrff: Please feel free to tell all. The boundaries on net dating are so confused. Whats your opinion? What should happen? I am so new at this I don't know if I'm doing the right thing.


Be upfront and honest at all times.. If you are looking at all your options then tell the women(or men for the ladies) you are talking to that you are also talking to other women on the net. The problem occurs when you are interracting with all these women (men) in the same forum/chatroom/venue etc and they see you paying attention/flirting/conversing/etc etc with others more then them... then being honest and upfront is really important cos no one gets any nasty surprises .. if you are telling women (men) you love them and saying all the relationshippy kind of stuff then they are going to think you are into them and them only aren't they?

The net is different from real life. Once the interactions go to more than just net chat then you need to discuss what kind of relationship you have.

If you want to date more than one woman (or man)then make sure you tell all the women (men) you are seeing, the truth. They can then choose to continue seeing you knowing they are not the only one or they can say .. thanks but no thanks

If you are always upfront and honest then they cant say you did the wrong thing by them.

besides.. being honest should let them know you value that trait in yourself and others and it is a great start to any relationship if one woman (or man) does happen to become 'the one' you want to be with over any others.

However.. there is a limit.. if you are seeing someone regularly then surely they have a right to assume some sort of exclusivity of relationship unless it is verbally said otherwise

jmo wine
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