she said that...im not a pushy person and i told her that she should do what she wants to do with work...maybe she should get her own place and job when she comes out build her life back up..then maybe try again
Thanks for your input. seems that you too have been through it and your a survivor. Glad to hear your son is seeing you again he needs it...your a wise man thank you
When i met her she was a surgical nurse at a good hospital. In that 5 years shes gone to drinking and unemployed...Watching it was so sad hopefully after the 6 month detox will sort her and she can work again and enjoy life.
I keep a lid on it too around my kids unless camping or something social. Their more happier since shes gone...but she wont be the same person when she gets out....maybe she can handle not drinking then. Its a tough one.
I have a beer now and then maybe a few more but i can handle it. if i let her back in can she cope with no alcohol around my lifestyle? I just dont know
She drank too much and was very unpleasant at times. she is in long term detox for 6 months due to her breaking down after i left...part of me wants to give her another chance when shes sorted because shes a real nice person without the alcohol.
Wow milo..that was deep...thank you for spending the time to explain the womans perspective. I try to do the right thing but there are a lot of grey areas out there, one definately has to watch where their treading
Thank you Shell your a wise lady. Now I know the boundaries of web dating. Its confusing to leave marriage and end up on a website with good looking women everywhere. Be easier to grab a girl by the hand and ask for a dance but i live in the stix....its hard to meet girls that way.
Yes i feel guilty about chatting with more than one woman...this is why im raising the question at hand. thanks i will be more focused to one woman to i from now on
Please feel free to tell all. The boundaries on net dating are so confused. Whats your opinion? What should happen? I am so new at this I don't know if I'm doing the right thing.
i have a great deal of respect for you as a single father...im older than you but ive got 4 kids and single....be happy you have one and your so young..time is on your side
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If you left your partner, then realised you made a big mistake.Would you fight to get him/her back?
she said that...im not a pushy person and i told her that she should do what she wants to do with work...maybe she should get her own place and job when she comes out build her life back up..then maybe try again