If you left your partner, then realised you made a big mistake.Would you fight to get him/her back? (55)
Get a crack along, go chase her and wishing you well in your endeavor. How would she know what you have just posted if you dont tell her?
Hopefully, Love will be in the air for you.
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dnlrff: I left my girlfriend of 5 years, every day i think of her and I feel like Ive made a big mistake. she loved me so much and i realise I have let go of what im looking for now....
For me i probably wouldnt becos there would be a trust issue..thinking he/she will leave me again..
It probably would nver be the same again..
JMO
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kissmedeeply: For me i probably wouldnt becos there would be a trust issue..thinking he/she will leave me again..
It probably would nver be the same again..
JMO
It probably would nver be the same again..
JMO
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See if you can win her back. But as Joanne said, it probably won't be the same as before....
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Why did you leave her? There must have been some very good reasons for such a drastic act. Have these issues been resovled? If not, have you decided it's better to live WITH these issues and have her in your life as opposed to pining for her day & night? Your profile says you're separated so she is still your wife and it appears you have kids with her. Strong reasons to try to patch up this mess, yes mess!
I think you both should seek counselling.
Good luck!
I think you both should seek counselling.
Good luck!
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Id' go after him in a heartbeat and wouldn't hesitate.
As for your situation ,go after her dnlrff.
As for your situation ,go after her dnlrff.
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somechick: Id' go after him in a heartbeat and wouldn't hesitate.As for your situation ,go after her dnlrff.
yes, i agree you have to try,
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She drank too much and was very unpleasant at times. she is in long term detox for 6 months due to her breaking down after i left...part of me wants to give her another chance when shes sorted because shes a real nice person without the alcohol.
ooby_dooby: Why did you leave her? There must have been some very good reasons for such a drastic act. Have these issues been resovled? If not, have you decided it's better to live WITH these issues and have her in your life as opposed to pining for her day & night? Your profile says you're separated so she is still your wife and it appears you have kids with her. Strong reasons to try to patch up this mess, yes mess!
I think you both should seek counselling.
Good luck!
I think you both should seek counselling.
Good luck!
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dnlrff: She drank too much and was very unpleasant at times. she is in long term detox for 6 months due to her breaking down after i left...part of me wants to give her another chance when shes sorted because shes a real nice person without the alcohol.
Only thing I will add after that revelation is, think of the kids welfare
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Da10th: Only thing I will add after that revelation is, think of the kids welfare
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dnlrff: Was the main reason it went south....the kids didnt need that kind of influence around.
I'm not sticking my business into yours when I say this, but simply responding to the post...but...if she hasn't let loose of the drink by now, then things aren't going to be any better. The same influence is going to be there.
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dnlrff: Thank you somechick
You're Welcome! When I saw the pic of you holding your kids it pulled at my heart strings.They need both their mom and dad.
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dnlrff: I have a beer now and then maybe a few more but i can handle it. if i let her back in can she cope with no alcohol around my lifestyle? I just dont know
What is making you want to give her another chance..
It seems to me that you are still not certain about her drinking...
There is no drinking in my home arouond my child..
Was she unpleasant to the children..if so pls think more about chasing her down..
Do you feel quilty and think it was ur fault she had to get help becos you left her
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somechick: You're Welcome! When I saw the pic of you holding your kids it pulled at my heart strings.They need both their mom and dad.
Really..
I do not think so if what he said is true..she is very unpleasant when she drinks..
Kids dont need that in their life..
One parent is good enough..if there is problems like that
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dnlrff: I have a beer now and then maybe a few more but i can handle it. if i let her back in can she cope with no alcohol around my lifestyle? I just dont know
Maybe you may have to give up drinking too.That's what it's all about is giving something up for the one you love.If she's as important to you as you say she is then you'd do all you could to save this relationship for the sake of your children.
I know what I'd do but I'm not you.Nor do i have the right to tell you what to do.
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dnlrff: I left my girlfriend of 5 years, every day i think of her and I feel like Ive made a big mistake. she loved me so much and i realise I have let go of what im looking for now....
if she loved u so much as u mentioned, give it a try she might forgive u and get back.
Good luck
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kissmedeeply: Really..
I do not think so if what he said is true..she is very unpleasant when she drinks..
Kids dont need that in their life..
One parent is good enough..if there is problems like that
I do not think so if what he said is true..she is very unpleasant when she drinks..
Kids dont need that in their life..
One parent is good enough..if there is problems like that
He also said she's in detox.No matter everybody deserves a 2nd chance.
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Oh my! I believe I commented too quickly on this one. Sorry. After you've shared the fact that you left due to her drinking problem, then I will change my comment from win her back to.................continue keeping the children's best interest in mind.
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I keep a lid on it too around my kids unless camping or something social. Their more happier since shes gone...but she wont be the same person when she gets out....maybe she can handle not drinking then. Its a tough one.
kissmedeeply: What is making you want to give her another chance..
It seems to me that you are still not certain about her drinking...
There is no drinking in my home arouond my child..
Was she unpleasant to the children..if so pls think more about chasing her down..
Do you feel quilty and think it was ur fault she had to get help becos you left her
It seems to me that you are still not certain about her drinking...
There is no drinking in my home arouond my child..
Was she unpleasant to the children..if so pls think more about chasing her down..
Do you feel quilty and think it was ur fault she had to get help becos you left her
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somechick: He also said she's in detox.No matter everybody deserves a 2nd chance.
i disagree..
Not every deserves a second chance..
My other hit me when i was pregnant..
did i give him a second chance..Hell No...
you can tell in his voice he is still worried..
I think he needs to think more on this..
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OP..who has ur children..Does she??
You profile says they dont live with you
You profile says they dont live with you
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When I say "hit the road toad", I also tell them not to let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya..
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dnlrff: I keep a lid on it too around my kids unless camping or something social. Their more happier since shes gone...but she wont be the same person when she gets out....maybe she can handle not drinking then. Its a tough one.
Here it is..
Children usually come first right???
YOu jsut said they are more happier that she is gone..
You have to ask urself will they be happier that she is back..maybe things could/would change..
Just think about what you see then and what you see now..
Are you happier...
And maybe you just feel quilty by leaving her
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somechick: He also said she's in detox.No matter everybody deserves a 2nd chance.
Someplace else.................
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HJFinAZ: When I say "hit the road toad", I also tell them not to let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya..
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When i met her she was a surgical nurse at a good hospital. In that 5 years shes gone to drinking and unemployed...Watching it was so sad hopefully after the 6 month detox will sort her and she can work again and enjoy life.
hopefloats: Oh my! I believe I commented too quickly on this one. Sorry. After you've shared the fact that you left due to her drinking problem, then I will change my comment from win her back to.................continue keeping the children's best interest in mind.
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HJFinAZ: Someplace else.................
Pat we've only heard one side of this story and I'm not passing any judgement on the mother.
I think sometimes we're way too quick to pass judgement on the other person.
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