SensualVixenTampa Bay area, Florida USA1,726 posts
To be honest with you, if I was close to your age (dreaming now) and never married, no children, and free as a lark I don't know if I would be interested in you with your responsibility. Now, if I also was your age and did have a child or children I would possibly be interested. You are correct in assuming that you will probably be more enticing to a single mother out there in Cyberville, it just will take time............
tainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
Justin24: I just wanted 2 know why is it so hard 2 find a girl when u have a kid?Is there any single moms who has the same problem?
Yep its tough. In a single mom's case you have to be vigilant, you can't just let any and every man near your kid. Also for a lot of free and single people its a lot of responsibility to take on.
Yes to bad to say but true...i have it hard because i have a young son yet i am in 41 ,so many older women say blah that there's are already grown up and out of the house...but comes down to the love of your child...i would love a great lady in my life but not going to lose my son over
Chin up my friend,it takes a real man to raise his child anyone can make them ...but a true man will keep them... And if a women can't respect that...than she should be with the bums out there who drink all day have 7 kids by 7different women and no job and never take care of nobody but them selfs...(oh but he's hot yeh thats a real man)
WASP7: Chin up my friend,it takes a real man to raise his child anyone can make them ...but a true man will keep them... And if a women can't respect that...than she should be with the bums out there who drink all day have 7 kids by 7different women and no job and never take care of nobody but them selfs...(oh but he's hot yeh thats a real man)
You must be kidding. All seems cool until they find out that I have a 3 yr. old. No one wants to be tied to strings anymore unless they are their own.. I am so sick of the attitude towards me being a mom. It does tie you down to a degree, but is what havinging family does.
Justin24: I just wanted 2 know why is it so hard 2 find a girl when u have a kid?Is there any single moms who has the same problem?
Awe!.. I read your thread and my heart goes out to you.. First of all, take some advise from an old woman! Stop looking for a "girl".. With 2 kids, you need to be focusing on a young woman that has her sh?? together, not some "girl" that hasn't grown up and lived life, yet!.. Don't get discouraged!.. Just keep focused on those babies, and - sure enough, some young lady, will take notice!.. Women are a push-over for good daddy's!..
jlynne: Awe!.. I read your thread and my heart goes out to you.. First of all, take some advise from an old woman! Stop looking for a "girl".. With 2 kids, you need to be focusing on a young woman that has her sh?? together, not some "girl" that hasn't grown up and lived life, yet!.. Don't get discouraged!.. Just keep focused on those babies, and - sure enough, some young lady, will take notice!.. Women are a push-over for good daddy's!..
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