In a bit of a quandary here. (80)
Ridge138: It started when I walked into a local restaurant to pick up an order I'd phoned in,when out of the blue I heard someone from the back say my name,I turned around to see who it was,low and behold there she was,it was someone I'd had a crush that bordered on obsession with in high school,she looked as good as the last time I'd seen her,she was sitting with her boyfriend and asked me to come talk to her,I did so. In the middle of our conversation I think I saw a "flicker" of something in her eyes...
My order was up and I didn't want to spend too much longer because her boyfriend didn't seem to like her tone or the fact that I was talking to his woman,so to avoid trouble I offered to give her a handshake but instead she wanted a hug before I left,I mean am I reading too much into this?
Could she just have done that to make her boyfriend jealous?
Or
Are my instincts right on,and she suddenly likes me for some reason?
She lives across the country and she does have family back here,so most likely she's just in visiting them,but for some reason she seemed more than a little interested in talking with me,infront of her boyfriend no less.
Sorry for the rant but I really need some advice on this matter because it's caused more than a few sleepless nights for me as of late.
My order was up and I didn't want to spend too much longer because her boyfriend didn't seem to like her tone or the fact that I was talking to his woman,so to avoid trouble I offered to give her a handshake but instead she wanted a hug before I left,I mean am I reading too much into this?
Could she just have done that to make her boyfriend jealous?
Or
Are my instincts right on,and she suddenly likes me for some reason?
She lives across the country and she does have family back here,so most likely she's just in visiting them,but for some reason she seemed more than a little interested in talking with me,infront of her boyfriend no less.
Sorry for the rant but I really need some advice on this matter because it's caused more than a few sleepless nights for me as of late.
shes using you to get back at her b/f or him to get back at you for not asking her out back when .... or for stalking her.....
that's how their evil minds work.... they never forget !!!! and they'll exact revenge even if they have to wait a lifetime !!!!
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Seeing as she has a boyfriend,it could get difficult.
However,tell her what you're feeling and have been
feeling for her.If it turns out she feels the same way,
your crush was meant to blossom.If not,at least you'll
know where you both stand.Best of luck.
However,tell her what you're feeling and have been
feeling for her.If it turns out she feels the same way,
your crush was meant to blossom.If not,at least you'll
know where you both stand.Best of luck.
In response to: It started when I walked into a local restaurant to pick up an order I'd phoned in,when out of the blue I heard someone from the back say my name,I turned around to see who it was,low and behold there she was,it was someone I'd had a crush that bordered on obsession with in high school,she looked as good as the last time I'd seen her,she was sitting with her boyfriend and asked me to come talk to her,I did so. In the middle of our conversation I think I saw a "flicker" of something in her eyes...
My order was up and I didn't want to spend too much longer because her boyfriend didn't seem to like her tone or the fact that I was talking to his woman,so to avoid trouble I offered to give her a handshake but instead she wanted a hug before I left,I mean am I reading too much into this?
Could she just have done that to make her boyfriend jealous?
Or
Are my instincts right on,and she suddenly likes me for some reason?
She lives across the country and she does have family back here,so most likely she's just in visiting them,but for some reason she seemed more than a little interested in talking with me,infront of her boyfriend no less.
Sorry for the rant but I really need some advice on this matter because it's caused more than a few sleepless nights for me as of late.
My order was up and I didn't want to spend too much longer because her boyfriend didn't seem to like her tone or the fact that I was talking to his woman,so to avoid trouble I offered to give her a handshake but instead she wanted a hug before I left,I mean am I reading too much into this?
Could she just have done that to make her boyfriend jealous?
Or
Are my instincts right on,and she suddenly likes me for some reason?
She lives across the country and she does have family back here,so most likely she's just in visiting them,but for some reason she seemed more than a little interested in talking with me,infront of her boyfriend no less.
Sorry for the rant but I really need some advice on this matter because it's caused more than a few sleepless nights for me as of late.
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No, no, no. Leave it be. Don't get caught up in this. Say bye bye. Move on.
PS you are a good writer. You should do more, maybe for a living?
PS you are a good writer. You should do more, maybe for a living?
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seekndestroy: shes using you to get back at her b/f or him to get back at you for not asking her out back when .... or for stalking her.....that's how their evil minds work.... they never forget !!!! and they'll exact revenge even if they have to wait a lifetime !!!!
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Hate to say it....There quite a bit of truth in this Gentleman's statement....And when it come to it on the 'ultimate revenge' a 'Woman' will out class a 'Man' every time.....and she will 'justify' in her mind.....Classic example 'He deserved it' 
J.D
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seekndestroy: shes using you to get back at her b/f or him to get back at you for not asking her out back when .... or for stalking her.....that's how their evil minds work.... they never forget !!!! and they'll exact revenge even if they have to wait a lifetime !!!!
Men!!!!
She probably just simply saw someone she knew from school and wanted to say Hi and then a friendly hug goodbye which what most of us would do
Silly Billys
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SummerUK: Men!!!!
She probably just simply saw someone she knew from school and wanted to say Hi and then a friendly hug goodbye which what most of us would do
Silly Billys
She probably just simply saw someone she knew from school and wanted to say Hi and then a friendly hug goodbye which what most of us would do
Silly Billys
.............What Rubbish..!!.....Woman are the true masters of the 'Manipulation' game..................
\J.D
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virgiomonkey: .............What Rubbish..!!.....Woman are the true masters of the 'Manipulation' game.................. J.D
That is simply Not true
Cup of tea JD???
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SummerUK: Men!!!!
She probably just simply saw someone she knew from school and wanted to say Hi and then a friendly hug goodbye which what most of us would do
Silly Billys
She probably just simply saw someone she knew from school and wanted to say Hi and then a friendly hug goodbye which what most of us would do
Silly Billys
BS... women dont operate that way... if they liked someone in high school they would have made it known then so when they graduate they've happily broken the hearts they wanted to break while there... and those they didnt care for, they still wont care for 20 years later.... and if they happen to come across one of them, they'll always avoid 'em... unless that is, he either, serves a purpose or was one of the conquests that "got away" ...
then they'll try him again.... just long enough to break him as soon as he falls in her trap !!!!
evil it tell you..... pure evil !!!!
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SummerUK: That is simply Not true Cup of tea JD???
............Oh,'Yes it is'........
....As for your kind offer on the 'Cup of Tea'...Yes please....Milk and one Sugar....thank you so kindly Ma'am.... J.D
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seekndestroy: BS... women dont operate that way... if they liked someone in high school they would have made it known then so when they graduate they've happily broken the hearts they wanted to break while there... and those they didnt care for, they still wont care for 20 years later.... and if they happen to come across one of them, they'll always avoid 'em... unless that is, he either, serves a purpose or was one of the conquests that "got away" ...
then they'll try him again.... just long enough to break him as soon as he falls in her trap !!!!
evil it tell you..... pure evil !!!!
then they'll try him again.... just long enough to break him as soon as he falls in her trap !!!!
evil it tell you..... pure evil !!!!
Watch ya don't bust a blood vessel with all that ranting
Just because she said hello doesn't mean she fancies him. She was probably just being friendly..
Ive done the same thing when I haven't seen someone for years..Male or female..
Yeah see what it it was a female????
Would you assume then that she had become a lesbian?
You silly boys read too much into things
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virgiomonkey: ............Oh,'Yes it is'........ ....As for your kind offer on the 'Cup of Tea'...Yes please....Milk and one Sugar....thank you so kindly Ma'am....
J.D
J.D
Really????? The manipulative kinda tea? Do you remember that tea JD??
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It sounds to me like she was only saying Hi to someone that she recognized knew.
I think sometimes someone can read into something and come to conclusions that's really not the case at all as in doing something to make her boyfriend jealous.
I think sometimes someone can read into something and come to conclusions that's really not the case at all as in doing something to make her boyfriend jealous.
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I wouldn't go as far as saying that all women are manipulative and evil, but I would be cautious in this situation. If she wants to clarify her feelings, she knows how to get in touch with you. If not, it may have just been something for the moment. Enjoy the hug and then go back to living your life.
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somechick: It sounds to me like she was only saying Hi to someone that she recognized knew.
I think sometimes someone can read into something and come to conclusions that's really not the case at all as in doing something to make her boyfriend jealous.
I think sometimes someone can read into something and come to conclusions that's really not the case at all as in doing something to make her boyfriend jealous.
Exactly
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SummerUK: Watch ya don't bust a blood vessel with all that ranting Just because she said hello doesn't mean she fancies him. She was probably just being friendly..
Ive done the same thing when I haven't seen someone for years..Male or female..
Yeah see what it it was a female????
Would you assume then that she had become a lesbian?
You silly boys read too much into things
Ive done the same thing when I haven't seen someone for years..Male or female..
Yeah see what it it was a female????
Would you assume then that she had become a lesbian?
You silly boys read too much into things
oh no... your "female" friendships last a lifetime... as opposed to us who cant wait to get rid of the friends we have and constantly throw 'em under the bus !!!!
still.... yall always have a purpose for approaching an old acquaintance of the male kind.... and its never just cause.... there is always an evil objective at hand !!!!
yall can deny it all you want, but deep down you know this to be true .... !!!
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seekndestroy: oh no... your "female" friendships last a lifetime... as opposed to us who cant wait to get rid of the friends we have and constantly throw 'em under the bus !!!!
still.... yall always have a purpose for approaching an old acquaintance of the male kind.... and its never just cause.... there is always an evil objective at hand !!!!
yall can deny it all you want, but deep down you know this to be true .... !!!
still.... yall always have a purpose for approaching an old acquaintance of the male kind.... and its never just cause.... there is always an evil objective at hand !!!!
yall can deny it all you want, but deep down you know this to be true .... !!!
You're completely right of course
We're all pure evil
Its 5am an my son just came home. Woke me up because he had an argument with his girlfriend.
I'm half asleep and can't be arsed to argue
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caring1: I wouldn't go as far as saying that all women are manipulative and evil, but I would be cautious in this situation. If she wants to clarify her feelings, she knows how to get in touch with you. If not, it may have just been something for the moment. Enjoy the hug and then go back to living your life.
A voice of reason. How pleasant
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Could it not be possible that perhaps she was on the outs with her boyfriend and truly did show interest in the OP? What are other possibilities to consider here?
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SummerUK: You're completely right of course
We're all pure evil
Its 5am an my son just came home. Woke me up because he had an argument with his girlfriend.
I'm half asleep and can't be arsed to argue
We're all pure evil
Its 5am an my son just came home. Woke me up because he had an argument with his girlfriend.
I'm half asleep and can't be arsed to argue
well glad you finally saw the light and agreed with me !!!!
regardless of the lame excuse that you may want to claim.....
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My order was up and I didn't want to spend too much longer because her boyfriend didn't seem to like her tone or the fact that I was talking to his woman,so to avoid trouble I offered to give her a handshake but instead she wanted a hug before I left,I mean am I reading too much into this?
Could she just have done that to make her boyfriend jealous?
Or
Are my instincts right on,and she suddenly likes me for some reason?
She lives across the country and she does have family back here,so most likely she's just in visiting them,but for some reason she seemed more than a little interested in talking with me,infront of her boyfriend no less.
Sorry for the rant but I really need some advice on this matter because it's caused more than a few sleepless nights for me as of late.