viva007: ok..if u fall in love(like..u cant live without him)...if u knew he is married...?..its pretty hard..
If you know he is married you keep away to start with.
If he had lied to you at the beginning saying he was single, that should tell you alot about his character, not a man i would want to have anything to do with.
poonam123: Then we will have to agree to differ, because of the content of the other thread, the Op is saying here she things its ok.
I do think the unmarried person does have a degree of responsibilty, they can always tell the married person to sort out there current relationship first.[/quoteI REALLY AGREE TO UR VIEWS...IT IS INDEED THE MORAL RESPONSIBILITY TO TELL THE OTHER PERSON TO STICK TO HIS CURRENT RELATION ....BUT IF HE GIVES A VALID REASON THAT HE IS NOT HAPPY IN THE CURRENT RELATION THEN WHAT ????? I THINK UR MORAL RESPONSIBILITY IS OVER ...U HAVE DONE UR JOB....ISNT IT ????(AT LEAST U HAVE REMINDED HIM FIRST )))
I just couldn't trust a guy that cheated on his wife in the first place, if he really cared he would get out of the relationship
giftmagic: are you really asking me if i would prefer a cheating partner of somebody else's relationship to finding one who is not demonstrably cheating - NOT A CHANCE!
BEEN THERE BEEN DONE BY THAT! SO, NO THANGQU!
IF A PERSON IS REALLY GENUINE , N KIND , N U HAVE TESTED THAT PERSON MANY TIMES .....EVEN THEN U WILL REJECT HIM BECAUSE OF HIM / HER BEING MARRIED ???((EVERY ONE CAN MAKE BAD CHOICES , AFTER ALL WE R ALL HUMANS ....WHEN A PERSON BECOMES AWARE THAT HIS /HER CURRENT PARTNER IS NOT WHAT HE /SHE USED TO THINK ,)))
When you are married dont fool around when you are singel and fooling with a married men or women just dont Put your self in a positcion that you are married and you find out that your Husbend or Wife is fooling around with a other just think how you will feel? So think before you hurt people coz you can not only hurt a husband or a wife but allso the kids they may have.
if a marrige is not working get divorced first than start over
Ziva1In the middel of nowhere.., Lapland Finland3,813 posts
poonam123: IS IT FINE FOR MEN TO DATE MARRIED WOMEN ???
Ok... this is how I see it, if a married woman would date a man, theres a marrige problem... if a married man should date a married woman both of there marriges are on a down hill journey.
If theres a reason to cheat, it means that both are not happy in there existing relationship.....
no matter how you look at it, one or both are cheating.
If you cant satisfy your loved one..in what ever way the problem is, just solve the problem first and then see if the grass is greened on the other side......( seperation, divorce or a time out agreement)
jeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)10,968 posts
Hallelujah: When you are married dont fool around when you are singel and fooling with a married men or women just dont Put your self in a positcion that you are married and you find out that your Husbend or Wife is fooling around with a other just think how you will feel? So think before you hurt people coz you can not only hurt a husband or a wife but allso the kids they may have.
if a marrige is not working get divorced first than start over
I was just about to say the same thing about getting a divorce if you feel you need to cheat.
Sorry but i think thats a very selfish attitude, innocent people get hurt.
i m sorry if i hurted any one ....it must not b intentional to hurt......but indeed some questions r difficult to answer if we look deep in our selves ....n being realistic .... people get hurt.
It's fine for married persons to engage in any behavior that fits into their definition of THEIR marriage. I wouldn't presume how anyone else should define their life.
jeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)10,968 posts
I have a friend who started a thing with a married man. She fell in love and now is regretting it big time. She can't be with him because he is married and is not going to break it off because of the kids. Now she broken hearted. If you are going to be naughty, do it with an unattached person. JMO
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If he had lied to you at the beginning saying he was single, that should tell you alot about his character, not a man i would want to have anything to do with.