Why Do People Find It So Hard To Move On (53)

Aug 30, 2009 11:44 AM CST Why Do People Find It So Hard To Move On
As my Ex has started to take an interest in what i am doing here on CS, i decided to start this thread in the hope that he may take some notice of hopefully some replies....sigh


Oh and we finished a year ago !!!!! dunno


So if anybody can help him, im sure he would be grateful
Aug 30, 2009 11:46 AM CST Why Do People Find It So Hard To Move On
francie81
francie81francie81Dunleer, Louth Ireland3 Threads 558 Posts
nitak: As my Ex has started to take an interest in what i am doing here on CS, i decided to start this thread in the hope that he may take some notice of hopefully some replies.... Oh and we finished a year ago !!!!! So if anybody can help him, im sure he would be grateful


Typical publicised statement from a woman, why the need to?
Aug 30, 2009 11:50 AM CST Why Do People Find It So Hard To Move On
workwell
workwellworkwelldublin, Dublin Ireland15 Threads 227 Posts
nitak: As my Ex has started to take an interest in what i am doing here on CS, i decided to start this thread in the hope that he may take some notice of hopefully some replies.... Oh and we finished a year ago !!!!! So if anybody can help him, im sure he would be grateful
well did u tell him have u completly cut ur ties with him is there kids involued
Aug 30, 2009 11:50 AM CST Why Do People Find It So Hard To Move On
SlyIrish
SlyIrishSlyIrishKilkenny, Ireland11 Threads 402 Posts
francie81: Typical publicised statement from a woman, why the need to?


The simple answer would be: Because.

but there is no simple answer to it, unfortunately.

How can one move on if one isn't left alone to do so?

Some people just find it hard to let go.
Aug 30, 2009 11:51 AM CST Why Do People Find It So Hard To Move On
dreamer35
dreamer35dreamer35galway, Galway Ireland10 Threads 145 Posts
francie81: Typical publicised statement from a woman, why the need to?

typical answer from a man.........
Aug 30, 2009 11:52 AM CST Why Do People Find It So Hard To Move On
dreamer35
dreamer35dreamer35galway, Galway Ireland10 Threads 145 Posts
ment to say reply....
Aug 30, 2009 11:56 AM CST Why Do People Find It So Hard To Move On
francie81: Typical publicised statement from a woman, why the need to?


actually it wasnt a statement, if you read the topic?
Aug 30, 2009 11:59 AM CST Why Do People Find It So Hard To Move On
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
nitak: As my Ex has started to take an interest in what i am doing here on CS, i decided to start this thread in the hope that he may take some notice of hopefully some replies.... Oh and we finished a year ago !!!!! So if anybody can help him, im sure he would be grateful


Sorry but dirty washing and public come to mind. It's not really anyones business on here.
Aug 30, 2009 12:00 PM CST Why Do People Find It So Hard To Move On
francie81
francie81francie81Dunleer, Louth Ireland3 Threads 558 Posts
nitak: actually it wasnt a statement, if you read the topic?


Right ok you get the drift though thats what I mean!
Aug 30, 2009 12:04 PM CST Why Do People Find It So Hard To Move On
nitak: actually it wasnt a statement, if you read the topic?



confused I meant it more as a question? or a discussion!

My intention here really is 2 show him that im not the only one who thinks this is very odd behaviour

but judgeing by the first reply well???

dunno


There is no ties at all, no children and i have never given false hope ! dunno
Aug 30, 2009 12:06 PM CST Why Do People Find It So Hard To Move On
workwell
workwellworkwelldublin, Dublin Ireland15 Threads 227 Posts
nitak: I meant it more as a question? or a discussion!

My intention here really is 2 show him that im not the only one who thinks this is very odd behaviour

but judgeing by the first reply well???

There is no ties at all, no children and i have never given false hope !
well i have that problem with a girl on this site so it ruthless to be kind a
Aug 30, 2009 12:10 PM CST Why Do People Find It So Hard To Move On
Godsgift: Sorry but dirty washing and public come to mind. It's not really anyones business on here.


I appreciate that and i made it personel and that was deliberate to back up my question !

But it is a general question as its happening more and more, that is why there are people on here who cant have a profile pic up etc!

and while it is me 2 day .... it could be you 2 morrow
Aug 30, 2009 12:11 PM CST Why Do People Find It So Hard To Move On
leisure07
leisure07leisure07birmingham, West Midlands, England UK29 Threads 1 Polls 7,059 Posts
nitak: As my Ex has started to take an interest in what i am doing here on CS, i decided to start this thread in the hope that he may take some notice of hopefully some replies.... Oh and we finished a year ago !!!!! So if anybody can help him, im sure he would be grateful
when a relationship ends it needsto be mutual but rarely is ,in that case someone is going to get hurt and will find it difficult to let go
Aug 30, 2009 12:12 PM CST Why Do People Find It So Hard To Move On
francie81
francie81francie81Dunleer, Louth Ireland3 Threads 558 Posts
nitak: I meant it more as a question? or a discussion!

My intention here really is 2 show him that im not the only one who thinks this is very odd behaviour

but judgeing by the first reply well???

There is no ties at all, no children and i have never given false hope !


How do ya know he's not looking out for ya if he sees this as going into the wilderness of the net with all sorts?
Aug 30, 2009 12:23 PM CST Why Do People Find It So Hard To Move On
francie81: How do ya know he's not looking out for ya if he sees this as going into the wilderness of the net with all sorts?


Thats probably wot he wud say? but the answer is no, he is just letting me no he knows what im doing!

But i didnt want to go 2 much into what is going on just for him to read this really

and to have a discussion about" why people cant move on "
Aug 30, 2009 12:31 PM CST Why Do People Find It So Hard To Move On
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
nitak: Thats probably wot he wud say? but the answer is no, he is just letting me no he knows what im doing!

But i didnt want to go 2 much into what is going on just for him to read this really

and to have a discussion about" why people cant move on "


Hi A wave

I just think that if one person doesn't want to be in a relationship, the other person may not like it and may even get hurt but at the end of the day, you can't make someone stay in a relationship if they don't want to.

As for him letting you know he knows what you are doing, I'm confused. How is it any of his business what you are doing? confused
Aug 30, 2009 12:44 PM CST Why Do People Find It So Hard To Move On
DUBLINGUY1973: Hi A

I just think that if one person doesn't want to be in a relationship, the other person may not like it and may even get hurt but at the end of the day, you can't make someone stay in a relationship if they don't want to.

As for him letting you know he knows what you are doing, I'm confused. How is it any of his business what you are doing?


wave Hi DG Thats my point it is none of his business thumbs up

I wonder do people think if they hang in there long enough, the other person will just give in ? dunno
even though they have made it pretty clear it wont happen?

strange isnt it, i dont really understand it myself because i could never c myself in that position,dunno
Aug 30, 2009 12:48 PM CST Why Do People Find It So Hard To Move On
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
nitak: Hi DG Thats my point it is none of his business

I wonder do people think if they hang in there long enough, the other person will just give in ?
even though they have made it pretty clear it wont happen?

strange isnt it, i dont really understand it myself because i could never c myself in that position,


Yeah i know what ya mean. They are just deluding themselves reallyconfused
Aug 30, 2009 12:59 PM CST Why Do People Find It So Hard To Move On
DUBLINGUY1973: Yeah i know what ya mean. They are just deluding themselves really



Well DG i made the decision to post this and it was a hard enough thing to do , i am hoping it will be worth it

Well CW if your reading this thread i am stating here and now i dont want and never will want anything to do with you

So now thanks for the replys and im going to leave this thread die disappear slowly

giggle
Aug 30, 2009 1:04 PM CST Why Do People Find It So Hard To Move On
sharina
sharinasharinadublin, Dublin Ireland38 Threads 2 Polls 3,166 Posts
hiya A....
my opinion... some people cant let go..and need to know what the other person is up to..nip it in the bud...i know its over a yr ..but stilll make it clear again...(STALKING) and all that..conversing hug
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