Dating Sites (26)

Sep 12, 2009 4:07 AM CST Dating Sites
tarnsnz
tarnsnztarnsnzSouth Coast Beach, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 5,102 Posts
Do your family and friends know you are on a dating site or sites?

I was only on one other which was a paid site and i have just cancelled.

My boys know and my friends and even my work colleagues know as i don't care what anyone thinks as it is my life and my choice to what i do.

But funny enought my son told me today he went for a drive to his nanas & grandads with my ex and apparently ex's brother found me on site and told everyone laugh

And my ex mother in law who no longer speaks to me since spliting with her son (and we were very close) said i am not getting involved lol.

I was laughing to myself about it today, as my ears must of been burning as i wondered if it was this site or other site because i think if its this site - i would be pissing myself as to the things i write in the forums rolling on the floor laughing

and my dress costumes rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing , maybe they are totally shocked rolling on the floor laughing

so anyone they are reading this, "it's my life and i can do what i damn well please, like it or lump it, i am a free woman"wine


So, come on, i would luv to hear what your family & friends think, or do they know or not know laugh wine
Sep 12, 2009 4:21 AM CST Dating Sites
kkkaq
kkkaqkkkaqrotorua, Bay of Plenty New Zealand105 Posts
tarnsnz: Do your family and friends know you are on a dating site or sites?

I was only on one other which was a paid site and i have just cancelled.

My boys know and my friends and even my work colleagues know as i don't care what anyone thinks as it is my life and my choice to what i do.

But funny enought my son told me today he went for a drive to his nanas & grandads with my ex and apparently ex's brother found me on site and told everyone

And my ex mother in law who no longer speaks to me since spliting with her son (and we were very close) said i am not getting involved lol.

I was laughing to myself about it today, as my ears must of been burning as i wondered if it was this site or other site because i think if its this site - i would be pissing myself as to the things i write in the forums

and my dress costumes , maybe they are totally shocked

so anyone they are reading this, "it's my life and i can do what i damn well please, like it or lump it, i am a free woman" So, come on, i would luv to hear what your family & friends think, or do they know or not know



Hi Tarns, my friends and sons know, told my mum, she thinks im nuts, but it is my life she says, go for it she reckons. I dont think my ex knows but he may, dont give a damn about him any more any way, except to help the police in prosecuting him loldancing
Sep 12, 2009 4:35 AM CST Dating Sites
Risky123
Risky123Risky123Fraser Coast, Queensland Australia5 Threads 387 Posts
My friends, my sisters know but my kids don't, my X I think knows but I don't really care because I am free and enjoying my life once again.applause
Sep 12, 2009 4:39 AM CST Dating Sites
Shell225
Shell225Shell225Brisbane, Queensland Australia26 Threads 8,572 Posts
My friends know that Im on a site, and love to hang out in the forums laugh My friends reakon that we are all make believe!!

grin
Sep 12, 2009 4:44 AM CST Dating Sites
tarnsnz
tarnsnztarnsnzSouth Coast Beach, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 5,102 Posts
Risky123: My friends, my sisters know but my kids don't, my X I think knows but I don't really care because I am free and enjoying my life once again.


interesting so far with what people say. So do you think you will tell your kids risky since they are older or prefer they didnt know.wine
Sep 12, 2009 4:45 AM CST Dating Sites
angelmarz
angelmarzangelmarzperth, Western Australia Australia37 Threads 1,091 Posts
I'm lucky i have people in my life who don't see it as a big deal...and even if they did, they'd know well enough to leave me be!! I am who i WANNA be, people who love me will stick around, those who won't....oh well, their loss!! :) I choose my friends wisely! Always helps!! and aside from that my family ROCK...!!!
Sep 12, 2009 4:45 AM CST Dating Sites
tarnsnz
tarnsnztarnsnzSouth Coast Beach, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 5,102 Posts
Shell225: My friends know that Im on a site, and love to hang out in the forums My friends reakon that we are all make believe!!


rolling on the floor laughing they know you too well shell and we are not real, is those pills again rolling on the floor laughing
Sep 12, 2009 4:47 AM CST Dating Sites
angelmarz
angelmarzangelmarzperth, Western Australia Australia37 Threads 1,091 Posts
p.s. mum and her hubby got married last year 'reverse gender' style...it was all over the new's and on 'today tonight'...some people would frown on that, but they took their vow's seriously and had LOADS of fun!!
Sep 12, 2009 4:50 AM CST Dating Sites
tarnsnz
tarnsnztarnsnzSouth Coast Beach, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 5,102 Posts
angelmarz: p.s. mum and her hubby got married last year 'reverse gender' style...it was all over the new's and on 'today tonight'...some people would frown on that, but they took their vow's seriously and had LOADS of fun!!


they would been a hoot laugh yeah there always going to be the one that frown on it - mind you, there are alot of boring people out there with no sense of humour at all laugh wine
Sep 12, 2009 4:55 AM CST Dating Sites
angelmarz
angelmarzangelmarzperth, Western Australia Australia37 Threads 1,091 Posts
make some wonderful memories i say!! What your doing here doesn't involve other's...it's your thing, one of the many thing's you do to give yourself a laugh and to relax....you should juice it up, just in case somebody is watching!! hehe that'll give'em something to talk about!
Sep 12, 2009 5:11 AM CST Dating Sites
Shell225
Shell225Shell225Brisbane, Queensland Australia26 Threads 8,572 Posts
tarnsnz: i totally agree, i think internet is great and better than meeting someone at a pub as you are really going meeting someone on face value and can sometimes get ya in trouble

but also there are still alot of people whom frown at the idea of meeting someone on a computer - think moreso of people that dont actually use the internet, so have no idea what it is all about.


Yeah... Im with you. I generally meet up with people I've met via the forums anyway. cool
Sep 12, 2009 5:40 AM CST Dating Sites
Shell225
Shell225Shell225Brisbane, Queensland Australia26 Threads 8,572 Posts
Twodawgz: which one would you pick tarns..


Oh yes they must have tongues!!! tongue rolling on the floor laughing
Sep 12, 2009 5:40 AM CST Dating Sites
tarnsnz
tarnsnztarnsnzSouth Coast Beach, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 5,102 Posts
Twodawgz: which one would you pick tarns..


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing whatever tickles ya fancy rolling on the floor laughing
Sep 12, 2009 5:41 AM CST Dating Sites
Twodawgz
TwodawgzTwodawgzmelbourne, Victoria Australia4 Threads 4,009 Posts
Shell225: Oh YEAH !!! I hate meeting men at the pub, they get drunk and fall all over you...


Yeah big turnoff not that id know..uh oh
Sep 12, 2009 5:48 AM CST Dating Sites
Twodawgz
TwodawgzTwodawgzmelbourne, Victoria Australia4 Threads 4,009 Posts
tarnsnz: yep, dawgz be lapping it up


wink
Sep 12, 2009 5:51 AM CST Dating Sites
angelmarz
angelmarzangelmarzperth, Western Australia Australia37 Threads 1,091 Posts
it MATTER'S to me what come's out of their mouths!!
Sep 12, 2009 6:02 AM CST Dating Sites
Risky123
Risky123Risky123Fraser Coast, Queensland Australia5 Threads 387 Posts
After the divorce goes through and they get their heads around that. Yes I will than. comfort
Sep 12, 2009 6:06 AM CST Dating Sites
tarnsnz
tarnsnztarnsnzSouth Coast Beach, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 5,102 Posts
Risky123: After the divorce goes through and they get their heads around that. Yes I will than.


thats cool, in your own good time, nothing wrong with that comfort wine
Sep 12, 2009 6:48 AM CST Dating Sites
Lok_Simpson
Lok_SimpsonLok_Simpsonbundamba, Queensland Australia38 Threads 415 Posts
the whole world knows im on singles sites. yet since every single female knows im single... here i am.... still single.... kinda says a lot doesnt it rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing


my family know i do internet dating , most of my friends too...

none of them give 2 hoots..
Sep 12, 2009 7:28 AM CST Dating Sites
blondeaozichick
blondeaozichickblondeaozichickMelbourne, Victoria Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 4,392 Posts
years ago when I first started using the net and meeting men (mainly) in adult chatsites.. and I would occasionally click with a few of them enough to meet .. my family and friends thought it was dangerous laugh and I suppose it can be if your not careful

now I dont advertise it really.. mainly because I am not here to meet anyone.. so if I do talk about it.. I say.. these forums I post in..

wine
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