What's the hardest thing you're dealing with in your life, right now? ( Archived) (63)

Sep 25, 2009 8:37 PM CST What's the hardest thing you're dealing with in your life, right now?
kismit
kismitkismitGrantsburg, Wisconsin USA5 Posts
Getting on with life after the death of my husband.
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Sep 25, 2009 8:37 PM CST What's the hardest thing you're dealing with in your life, right now?
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
Big_John: Well if finding a man who is enjoying life bothers her, so be it. I plan to live my life until she shows up. If a lady is looking for a man who is sitting home waiting for her to take him off the market, then I am not him.

I want a lady who enjoys life and is active like I am. We can combine our interest and compromise on what we want to do to create our new life togehter; however, I will not stop living while we are trying to find each other.


No, thats not what I meant. Your post was as I quoted it - a man who sounds quite happy with what he has, and has little time for anything else, is not very desirable to a woman who wants to share.

Not rocket science, really...
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Sep 25, 2009 8:38 PM CST What's the hardest thing you're dealing with in your life, right now?
saseez: the death of my 19 yr lod daughtr who passed away fjrom a car crash a year and a half ago



I know all to well of where you're coming from.
It's been almost 3 yrs since the death of my late husband and this month would've been our anniversary.
There are times when I think I'm through grieveing and days when I'm not.I have made a point tho to think of the good times and all the good memories of the life he and I shared together.

I'm so very very sorry for your loss.hug hug
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Sep 25, 2009 8:38 PM CST What's the hardest thing you're dealing with in your life, right now?
Gowanheart
GowanheartGowanheartGULFPORT, Mississippi USA3 Threads 570 Posts
rob4u777: The hardest thing that i am dealing with is lonliness, to love and be loved, to live out my golden years with a good woman at myside who is sincere, to make life worthwhile living and who knows what she wants.

What's the hardest thing you're dealing with in your life, right now?


You look like a lovely man. I so hope you can find your comfort and peace and a lovely love!
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Sep 25, 2009 8:39 PM CST What's the hardest thing you're dealing with in your life, right now?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
kismit: Getting on with life after the death of my husband.


This is a club that many on CS belong to and really never wanted to be there. A while back someone put up a Thread and we found out that many, many of us have experience what you are.

sad flower sad flower sad flower

hug
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Sep 25, 2009 8:39 PM CST What's the hardest thing you're dealing with in your life, right now?
Gowanheart
GowanheartGowanheartGULFPORT, Mississippi USA3 Threads 570 Posts
saseez: the death of my 19 yr lod daughtr who passed away fjrom a car crash a year and a half ago


I lost my mom to murder 14 years ago....the other shoe never drops, you just learn to live with it....
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Sep 25, 2009 8:39 PM CST What's the hardest thing you're dealing with in your life, right now?
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
thewall2: Nobaody wants to play wrestle with THE WALL.


........laugh No disrespect to you Mr Wall...but the idea of been pulverized into a pulp....does not appeal to many people.... grin

J.Dgrin cheers devil
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Sep 25, 2009 8:41 PM CST What's the hardest thing you're dealing with in your life, right now?
Gowanheart
GowanheartGowanheartGULFPORT, Mississippi USA3 Threads 570 Posts
saseez: the death of my 19 yr lod daughtr who passed away fjrom a car crash a year and a half ago

Gowanheart: I lost my mom to murder 14 years ago....the other shoe never drops, you just learn to live with it....


And I meant to add, my deepest sympathy....keep putting one foot in front of the other....
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Sep 25, 2009 8:42 PM CST What's the hardest thing you're dealing with in your life, right now?
kismit: Getting on with life after the death of my husband.



Sorry for your loss.It's been quite a struggle for me too trying to get on with my life after the death of my late husband.
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Sep 25, 2009 8:42 PM CST What's the hardest thing you're dealing with in your life, right now?
saseez
saseezsaseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1,590 Posts
somechick: I know all to well of where you're coming from.
It's been almost 3 yrs since the death of my late husband and this month would've been our anniversary.
There are times when I think I'm through grieveing and days when I'm not.I have made a point tho to think of the good times and all the good memories of the life he and I shared together.

I'm so very very sorry for your loss.
aww thank you somechick ans im sorry for yours.. if you are like me you will have some ok days and some bad ....thank you teddybear bouquet
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Sep 25, 2009 8:44 PM CST What's the hardest thing you're dealing with in your life, right now?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
My health, my oldest son going off into the Navy and economically hard times at work.
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Sep 25, 2009 8:44 PM CST What's the hardest thing you're dealing with in your life, right now?
LoveableOne
LoveableOneLoveableOneMelbourne, Victoria Australia67 Threads 4,079 Posts
saseez: the death of my 19 yr lod daughtr who passed away fjrom a car crash a year and a half ago


sad flower comfort hug my heart felt condolences...
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Sep 25, 2009 8:44 PM CST What's the hardest thing you're dealing with in your life, right now?
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
saseez: aww you guys are to sweet thanks J.D and big john


.............Thanks Saseez....remember I am a Solo Father to a wonderful young adult Daughter and Son...and the just thought of anything like what happen to you would just break my heart...and Yes,there is a compassionate and caring side to me, especially when it comes to Children and Family..... hug hug

J.Dpeace grin wine
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Sep 25, 2009 8:45 PM CST What's the hardest thing you're dealing with in your life, right now?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
Gowanheart: I lost my mom to murder 14 years ago....the other shoe never drops, you just learn to live with it....


Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy.
sad flower

It has been a couple years now where I lost my only brother, my Mother, my wife and my home all in a short period of time. I thought I would never get through the days after these events. I think we are tested to find out what type of person we are!
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Sep 25, 2009 8:45 PM CST What's the hardest thing you're dealing with in your life, right now?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
For all of those currently grieving through loss...
group hug group hug teddybear teddybear
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Sep 25, 2009 8:45 PM CST What's the hardest thing you're dealing with in your life, right now?
saseez: aww thank you somechick ans im sorry for yours.. if you are like me you will have some ok days and some bad ....thank you



You're welcome.
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Sep 25, 2009 8:52 PM CST What's the hardest thing you're dealing with in your life, right now?
overcoming and healing from being hit by a car while out walking in early aug. not working and trying not to let fear s6top me from going out i am fortunate that i have wonderful friends and roomies to help me get through it
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Sep 25, 2009 8:58 PM CST What's the hardest thing you're dealing with in your life, right now?
Gowanheart
GowanheartGowanheartGULFPORT, Mississippi USA3 Threads 570 Posts
Big_John: Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy.


It has been a couple years now where I lost my only brother, my Mother, my wife and my home all in a short period of time. I thought I would never get through the days after these events. I think we are tested to find out what type of person we are!


That is most horrendous. My heartfelt sympathy, and admiration for your fortitude in carrying on! I am sure this is what your loved ones would have wanted....I know my mom would have wanted to see us carry on with life. We honor them by surviving and taking the best qualities they had, and putting those forth in our own lives....
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Sep 25, 2009 8:58 PM CST What's the hardest thing you're dealing with in your life, right now?
VampyricGoddess
VampyricGoddessVampyricGoddessTeague, Texas USA3 Threads 1 Polls 57 Posts
well i lost my house to the health department because my landlord wasnt keeping up with pest control and what not. i lost my job shortly after because of no transportation which landed me back with my grandparents. a month later my grandfather passed away. my grandma is trying to commit suicide all the time so i have to keep an eye on her. being in a small town, it's harder to find a job. every day i go back up to the businesses asking for openings. some have asked me not to come back. i cant go to college because im in a special situation where federal aid will not help. im really stuck. things have been going wrong for 6 years now. you'd think we broke a mirror. however, i still ig et up every day. I do what is needed. i take care of granna. and i keep my chin up. some see this as strenght. i see it as weakness because i refuse break. and if you never deal with your problems they just get worse. but i wont complain. i have a roof over my head and food on my plate. im content. theres a light at the end of the tunnnel i just have to find it. cheers
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Sep 25, 2009 8:59 PM CST What's the hardest thing you're dealing with in your life, right now?
Gowanheart
GowanheartGowanheartGULFPORT, Mississippi USA3 Threads 570 Posts
Dawn7z: overcoming and healing from being hit by a car while out walking in early aug. not working and trying not to let fear s6top me from going out i am fortunate that i have wonderful friends and roomies to help me get through it


Hope you recover fully...you look like a beautiful person....
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