petalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland3,101 posts
Big_John: Well if finding a man who is enjoying life bothers her, so be it. I plan to live my life until she shows up. If a lady is looking for a man who is sitting home waiting for her to take him off the market, then I am not him.
I want a lady who enjoys life and is active like I am. We can combine our interest and compromise on what we want to do to create our new life togehter; however, I will not stop living while we are trying to find each other.
No, thats not what I meant. Your post was as I quoted it - a man who sounds quite happy with what he has, and has little time for anything else, is not very desirable to a woman who wants to share.
saseez: the death of my 19 yr lod daughtr who passed away fjrom a car crash a year and a half ago
I know all to well of where you're coming from. It's been almost 3 yrs since the death of my late husband and this month would've been our anniversary. There are times when I think I'm through grieveing and days when I'm not.I have made a point tho to think of the good times and all the good memories of the life he and I shared together.
rob4u777: The hardest thing that i am dealing with is lonliness, to love and be loved, to live out my golden years with a good woman at myside who is sincere, to make life worthwhile living and who knows what she wants.
What's the hardest thing you're dealing with in your life, right now?
You look like a lovely man. I so hope you can find your comfort and peace and a lovely love!
kismit: Getting on with life after the death of my husband.
This is a club that many on CS belong to and really never wanted to be there. A while back someone put up a Thread and we found out that many, many of us have experience what you are.
Sep 25, 2009 8:42 PM CST What's the hardest thing you're dealing with in your life, right now?
saseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1,590 Posts
saseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1,590 posts
somechick: I know all to well of where you're coming from. It's been almost 3 yrs since the death of my late husband and this month would've been our anniversary. There are times when I think I'm through grieveing and days when I'm not.I have made a point tho to think of the good times and all the good memories of the life he and I shared together.
I'm so very very sorry for your loss.
aww thank you somechick ans im sorry for yours.. if you are like me you will have some ok days and some bad ....thank you
saseez: aww you guys are to sweet thanks J.D and big john
.............Thanks Saseez....remember I am a Solo Father to a wonderful young adult Daughter and Son...and the just thought of anything like what happen to you would just break my heart...and Yes,there is a compassionate and caring side to me, especially when it comes to Children and Family.....
Gowanheart: I lost my mom to murder 14 years ago....the other shoe never drops, you just learn to live with it....
Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy.
It has been a couple years now where I lost my only brother, my Mother, my wife and my home all in a short period of time. I thought I would never get through the days after these events. I think we are tested to find out what type of person we are!
overcoming and healing from being hit by a car while out walking in early aug. not working and trying not to let fear s6top me from going out i am fortunate that i have wonderful friends and roomies to help me get through it
Big_John: Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy.
It has been a couple years now where I lost my only brother, my Mother, my wife and my home all in a short period of time. I thought I would never get through the days after these events. I think we are tested to find out what type of person we are!
That is most horrendous. My heartfelt sympathy, and admiration for your fortitude in carrying on! I am sure this is what your loved ones would have wanted....I know my mom would have wanted to see us carry on with life. We honor them by surviving and taking the best qualities they had, and putting those forth in our own lives....
well i lost my house to the health department because my landlord wasnt keeping up with pest control and what not. i lost my job shortly after because of no transportation which landed me back with my grandparents. a month later my grandfather passed away. my grandma is trying to commit suicide all the time so i have to keep an eye on her. being in a small town, it's harder to find a job. every day i go back up to the businesses asking for openings. some have asked me not to come back. i cant go to college because im in a special situation where federal aid will not help. im really stuck. things have been going wrong for 6 years now. you'd think we broke a mirror. however, i still ig et up every day. I do what is needed. i take care of granna. and i keep my chin up. some see this as strenght. i see it as weakness because i refuse break. and if you never deal with your problems they just get worse. but i wont complain. i have a roof over my head and food on my plate. im content. theres a light at the end of the tunnnel i just have to find it.
Dawn7z: overcoming and healing from being hit by a car while out walking in early aug. not working and trying not to let fear s6top me from going out i am fortunate that i have wonderful friends and roomies to help me get through it
Hope you recover fully...you look like a beautiful person....
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