I was wondering if someone could help me out. ( Archived) (93)

Sep 27, 2009 1:54 AM CST I was wondering if someone could help me out.
redneck22578
redneck22578redneck22578cicnnati, Ohio USA1 Posts
u know im not a very attractive man but there is one thing i got that u dont and thats respect ive read what u put up on these guys bloogs and u r plain disrespectfull an u wounder why ur here on a dating site change ur attitude and maybee u will get a man
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Sep 27, 2009 1:58 AM CST I was wondering if someone could help me out.
vasos
vasosvasoslimassol, Limassol Cyprus10 Posts
my dear friends it looks like you never learn ...dont give them to much attension they afraid and run away..we are stronger than them more emotional they they afraid..show them your interest open a small road and let the fight to come to you..stop chasing them they just run away...they are like cats exact the same think...they are there when u dont expect, they run away when u call them and the whole world is there terretorie...so simply..let them come to you...o ! and dont believe them they are not liers but they never say the truth !! good luck
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Sep 27, 2009 2:10 AM CST I was wondering if someone could help me out.
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
oh well...let's just say that she just changed her mind like a woman always doeslaugh
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Sep 27, 2009 2:15 AM CST I was wondering if someone could help me out.
NoordZee
NoordZeeNoordZeeZottegem, Oost Vlaanderen Belgium2 Threads 13 Posts
We all think and act different...
I met a guy on such a site. He means a lot for me. To show, that I'm not interested in anyone else, I erased my profile /but yes, he had my e-mail and phone number/. Later on I discovered he didn't understand why I removed it: he thought I don't want him to contact me anymore...
For example, when I'm on business trip, I open my e-mails, read them, but don't answer. If it's a mail, I don't want to see in my e-mail box, I just delete it without reading... Sorry, it's how I'm.
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Sep 27, 2009 2:28 AM CST I was wondering if someone could help me out.
This has happened to me a Couple or time, AN attractive woman on here may be writing to 5-6 Gut, adn you er just one, she gets upset, and NOT REALLY her Type, so she Temporarly Closes he Profile for a Few Day, Then They move on and she Posts again and Get 5 new ones, Just like throwing away your poker Hand, to REDRAW..... So I BET YOU MONEY< she will be Back within a Week or so..... But NOT with You..... Thats what is Happening, so move to the one that wants you too!

Dont Believe What They Say, It is what they do!!!!!!

You will know by there actions..... words Sadly, is just a story, ButDO THEY WALK THERE Talk????????uh oh mumbling mumbling uncertain nerd
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Sep 27, 2009 2:31 AM CST I was wondering if someone could help me out.
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
vasos: my dear friends it looks like you never learn ...dont give them to much attension they afraid and run away..we are stronger than them more emotional they they afraid..show them your interest open a small road and let the fight to come to you..stop chasing them they just run away...they are like cats exact the same think...they are there when u dont expect, they run away when u call them and the whole world is there terretorie...so simply..let them come to you...o ! and dont believe them they are not liers but they never say the truth !! good luck
If thats the way you view all women, no wonder you are single roll eyes
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Sep 27, 2009 2:36 AM CST I was wondering if someone could help me out.
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
C'mon guys, this thread is just slighty heading towards woman bashing, some guys do exactly the same thing hug wine
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Sep 27, 2009 2:51 AM CST I was wondering if someone could help me out.
hualapaiguy
hualapaiguyhualapaiguyKingman, Arizona USA146 Posts
Bud, who knows? As the guy from CherryHill said, there are lots of Nutjobs out here. Take a breath, have a Coke® and plod ahead. Life's gonna go on, ENJOY IT!
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Sep 27, 2009 3:04 AM CST I was wondering if someone could help me out.
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
i really wonder sometime about why people forget the fact that nothing is "official" as far as relationship between a man and woman is concerned unless they say "i do". In other words, a person can simply withdraw him/herself from any kind of communication/relationship at any time without giving any notice. this whole exercise of carrying communication/relationship without any 'contractual obligation' is purely based on "goodwill" of the persons involved. And the goodwill can be lost any time.dunno
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Sep 27, 2009 3:08 AM CST I was wondering if someone could help me out.
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
mnowsa: i really wonder sometime about why people forget the fact that nothing is "official" as far as relationship between a man and woman is concerned unless they say "i do". In other words, a person can simply withdraw him/herself from any kind of communication/relationship at any time without giving any notice. this whole exercise of carrying communication/relationship without any 'contractual obligation' is purely based on "goodwill" of the persons involved. And the goodwill can be lost any time.
True, morning wave hug
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Sep 27, 2009 3:14 AM CST I was wondering if someone could help me out.
morgan5: Hi Larry, i didn't mean your post but some are implying scamming, women are liars.

The Op is young and i would imagine the girl is too, maybe she just didn't know how to tell him she wasn't interested and again its one of those situations we are only hearing one side of



So true , and many dont even read the forum, they just post, and it makes them look so silly, Tho Thanks for Confirming that for me, AWwwww! laugh and Thanks for thelips blushing bouquet
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Sep 27, 2009 3:56 AM CST I was wondering if someone could help me out.
kalypso
kalypsokalypsoporto, Porto Portugal8 Posts
You know what ? Men do the same to me, after exchanging fone numbers ,suddendly they vanish...go figure....defenitly NOT the right person..wish you best of luck..
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Sep 27, 2009 4:12 AM CST I was wondering if someone could help me out.
LovelySerene
LovelySereneLovelySereneKansas City, Kansas USA15 Threads 1 Polls 286 Posts
In response to: I met this girl on here. She matches everything I match in. She is perfect for me and everything. She even shows interest in me.
Then all of the sudden....just 4 days after meeting her on this site...Her profile disappears. The following day before this happened...she wasnt answering my emails...at all...but she read em. It makes no sense at all as to what happened. We were perfect for eachother. This is just horrible. Probly one of the worst days of my life. Idk what happened. We were doing fine and everything...asking eachother questions to get to know eachother better. Then shes gone...just like that. =[

I would feel better if someone could explain how this problem happened.
I don't think that its anything that you did, but its shows that she was not ment for you, but you will find that right girl for you someday
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Sep 27, 2009 4:23 AM CST I was wondering if someone could help me out.
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
Hi wether her reasons for not contacting you are genuine or not the sad fact is its happened ........take the time you need to put it behind you , then bounce back .......life will go on wine
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Sep 27, 2009 4:31 AM CST I was wondering if someone could help me out.
zira9888
zira9888zira9888newport, Isle of Wight, England UK104 Posts
morgan5: C'mon guys, this thread is just slighty heading towards woman bashing, some guys do exactly the same thing

Hi all, I know men do, one did it to me a couple of weeks ago, read a email I sent him, replied, so sent another, then nothing, so I pressume hes back with his ex, or found someone new.Nothing was planned for us to meet etc, but we were like great penpals, and we told each other lots..But thats life, his loss as far as im concerned, but would have been nice to say bye..Some people ah!.Well if he does ever come back on here as his profile has gone, I wont be bothering to answer unless hes got a really good excuse for his bad manners, even then, I will have a good think first..Take care and move on if some one does it to you, you owe them nothing...teddybear
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Sep 27, 2009 4:38 AM CST I was wondering if someone could help me out.
Ziva1
Ziva1Ziva1In the middel of nowhere.., Lapland Finland60 Threads 3,813 Posts
almera03: Hi wether her reasons for not contacting you are genuine or not the sad fact is its happened ........take the time you need to put it behind you , then bounce back .......life will go on



Yep! Just hang in there, it happens to all of us..


Morning.wave Glad to see you back to ur own self...bouquet
Have a good Sunday...wine
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Sep 27, 2009 4:43 AM CST I was wondering if someone could help me out.
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
Ziva1: Yep! Just hang in there, it happens to all of us..Morning. Glad to see you back to ur own self...
Have a good Sunday...
Morning Ziva .......it wasn't by choice .....mods cleaned up last night due to the spurned man and his threads....my alter ego will be back sometime laugh

Everyone enjoy your day cheers
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Sep 27, 2009 4:59 AM CST I was wondering if someone could help me out.
humdog7898
humdog7898humdog7898Spokane Valley, Washington USA1 Posts
Well I can just tell this that if she really like you then she wouldn't did what she did. Did you meet her in person or did you meet her just online and was chating with each other. I feel that she maybe was not into you much as you were with her. I don't think should get to enolve with anyone until you meet them in person and she how things go from there. I hope things go better next time you meet someone on this site.thumbs up
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Sep 27, 2009 5:24 AM CST I was wondering if someone could help me out.
Birma
BirmaBirmaPlainville, Connecticut USA2 Threads 154 Posts
KARBOWICZ: I met this girl on here. She matches everything I match in. She is perfect for me and everything. She even shows interest in me.
Then all of the sudden....just 4 days after meeting her on this site...Her profile disappears. The following day before this happened...she wasnt answering my emails...at all...but she read em. It makes no sense at all as to what happened. We were perfect for eachother. This is just horrible. Probly one of the worst days of my life. Idk what happened. We were doing fine and everything...asking eachother questions to get to know eachother better. Then shes gone...just like that. =[

I would feel better if someone could explain how this problem happened.


WEll, unfortunately,, some people make themselves incredible well, and when they can not continue with their lies, they just quit. be careful,, yess
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Sep 27, 2009 5:27 AM CST I was wondering if someone could help me out.
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Birma: WEll, unfortunately,, some people make themselves incredible well, and when they can not continue with their lies, they just quit. be careful,, yess
How do you know she was lying about anything? confused

Maybe she wasn't really interested and didn't know how to tell him, so took the easy way out.

We don't really know anything
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