Ziva1In the middel of nowhere.., Lapland Finland3,813 posts
almera03: Morning Ziva .......it wasn't by choice .....mods cleaned up last night due to the spurned man and his threads....my alter ego will be back sometime
Everyone enjoy your day
oh well these things happen...but we did have some fun, sorry it went over your back though...but all with good intentions.. You are a real sport...good on ya.
Ziva1: oh well these things happen...but we did have some fun, sorry it went over your back though...but all with good intentions.. You are a real sport...good on ya.
when the gay bashing starts again she'l be back ........yep laughed loads yesterday ......thanks to you all
KARBOWICZ: I met this girl on here. She matches everything I match in. She is perfect for me and everything. Then all of the sudden....just 4 days after meeting her on this site...Her profile disappears.
I would feel better if someone could explain how this problem happened.
There's no telling. A virtual relationship of a few days is a pretty unsubstantial thing. There's no guarantee that this dream girl really even exists. I don't even count it as a "relationship" at all unless there is some sort of direct contact other than through a dating site.
humdog7898: Well I can just tell this that if she really like you then she wouldn't did what she did. Did you meet her in person or did you meet her just online and was chating with each other. I feel that she maybe was not into you much as you were with her. I don't think should get to enolve with anyone until you meet them in person and she how things go from there. I hope things go better next time you meet someone on this site.
sawadee ka everyone,i agree with humdog...diff to meet in person what u see is what u get..now online?...maybe she disapear becoz was not anything she make out to be...so more easy for her vanish!!
if they are the type of person to just flake out and disappear, it's better to have it happen sooner rather than later. still messe with you, but at least you have invested less time and emotion.
petalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland3,101 posts
KARBOWICZ: I met this girl on here. She matches everything I match in. She is perfect for me and everything. She even shows interest in me. Then all of the sudden....just 4 days after meeting her on this site...Her profile disappears. The following day before this happened...she wasnt answering my emails...at all...but she read em. It makes no sense at all as to what happened. We were perfect for eachother. This is just horrible. Probly one of the worst days of my life. Idk what happened. We were doing fine and everything...asking eachother questions to get to know eachother better. Then shes gone...just like that. =[
I would feel better if someone could explain how this problem happened.
Sorry to hear this, OP..
I get extremely fed up that when a story like this is posted, many jump in, screaming "Scammer, Scammer", or "Game Player, Game Player".. Thats a very skeptical and narrow minded viewpoint, in my humble opinion, and a terrible generalisation.
I would throw into the mix that some get frightened sometimes, by the thought of opening up to someone else, especially if they have been single for some time, and consequently run like Michael Johnson into the sunset, because they are embarrassed to admit that fact and dont know what to say..
These instances of people suddenly disappearing are common. Some, yes, may be scammers, or game players, but BY NO MEANS is that the only reason someone gets cold feet.
KARBOWICZ: I met this girl on here. She matches everything I match in. She is perfect for me and everything. She even shows interest in me. Then all of the sudden....just 4 days after meeting her on this site...Her profile disappears. The following day before this happened...she wasnt answering my emails...at all...but she read em. It makes no sense at all as to what happened. We were perfect for eachother. This is just horrible. Probly one of the worst days of my life. Idk what happened. We were doing fine and everything...asking eachother questions to get to know eachother better. Then shes gone...just like that. =[
I would feel better if someone could explain how this problem happened.
Contact her and ask that why she is avoiding u if she is inlove wth u? u have to make sure to save ur time and feeling other wise it will disoppoint u
ali110: Contact her and ask that why she is avoiding u if she is inlove wth u? u have to make sure to save ur time and feeling other wise it will disoppoint u
How can they be in love, they were only talkin on here for 4 days???
KARBOWICZ: I met this girl on here. She matches everything I match in. She is perfect for me and everything. She even shows interest in me. Then all of the sudden....just 4 days after meeting her on this site...Her profile disappears. The following day before this happened...she wasnt answering my emails...at all...but she read em. It makes no sense at all as to what happened. We were perfect for eachother. This is just horrible. Probly one of the worst days of my life. Idk what happened. We were doing fine and everything...asking eachother questions to get to know eachother better. Then shes gone...just like that. =[
I would feel better if someone could explain how this problem happened.
I met this kind of thing just a few days ago. I can figure out that must be designed by somebody who knew you well. He just wanted to make fun of me. That's what I experienced. Really boring, ohhhhh
So... no need to be sad about this kind of thing. they are just illusions, designed by bad person.
Just wondering, telling a lie is really a comfortable thing??? I'm sure he will get heart disease.
KARBOWICZ: I met this girl on here. She matches everything I match in. She is perfect for me and everything. She even shows interest in me. Then all of the sudden....just 4 days after meeting her on this site...Her profile disappears. The following day before this happened...she wasnt answering my emails...at all...but she read em. It makes no sense at all as to what happened. We were perfect for eachother. This is just horrible. Probly one of the worst days of my life. Idk what happened. We were doing fine and everything...asking eachother questions to get to know eachother better. Then shes gone...just like that. =[
I would feel better if someone could explain how this problem happened.
Sorry to hear that dude . I know it is hard but not all that glimmers is gold in this world . I had a friend a long time ago that met a girl on the chicago chat net. was realy getting along good. this went on for over six months and they were planning to meet but every time they would plan a date somthing would come up and it could never happen. he was just totaly enamered with this woman. One day he got an email telling him that the girl he was in Love with was a group of school kids playing a joke on him. I know it is hard now but if she is real she will look you up or come back on line. Don't give up there is someone out there Just hold on until you find them . It is like the old saying I fyou love someone let it go and if it returns it was meant to be. Good Luck
KARBOWICZ i have seen this case so often and i think in yours there must have been someone closer to home for her i dont think you done anything wrong this happens here and mate love and lust seem similar but i think it was lust in your case you will get over her my advice to you is keep looking once you find someone you last one will be easer to forget so good luck
You are very sweet and sincere, young; hold off a bit on reaching great conclusions about others on here and in general. She was perfect...we were perfect....in your hopes kido. Give it time and look into it, if you are to really know the truth. Baby steps and face to face is a good start; let time and actions speak for themselves. In this make believe world, cyber relationships are the worst; don't believe a thing until you see it.
okay please let me start by saying bless you,this is not an unusal situation on this site,the main thing is to not let your head rule your heart and try to think outside the web.I believe you to be a geniunue person who has been hurt.Please dont allow this unfortunate situation to blitant you opinion of other good meaning people on this site.
Well I have an update on her. I found a site which has her as a member of it. I joined it to send her a message and friend request. I have yet to see a response but the screen name is almost the same and it has 4 different pics of her on it. She commented on someones profile months ago...but I have hope that she will get back on it and will talk to me and add me. Idc how long this takes to get resolved. Some may give up but I dont do that. I want her to at least give me a reason why her account on here was taken off. Im right now blaming the touchy mods on this site cause I cant see any way that this person is a fake or a threat. I also debunked the "blocked me" case. I logged off here and looked her up. The profile in general is gone. Nothing left. Ill just have to hope she reappears. Ive checked almost every dating site a person can imagine. I have found other nice girls on the way. They dont come close to this girl but I might have to try some other girls for now. I might like em. Who knows! =]
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Everyone enjoy your day
oh well these things happen...but we did have some fun, sorry it went over your back though...but all with good intentions.. You are a real sport...good on ya.