I was wondering if someone could help me out. (93)
Exact same thing happened to me about a year ago. we were planning on meeting very soon, had a really nice chat and the next day she popped up on my yahoo IM but didn't say a word and wouldn't answer me. This went on for a few days with me getting more irate. Finally she just didn't pop up anymore. That was it!
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some like to play games letting you think every thing is ok and then they pull the rug out from under you, they must get a big kick out of it
all i can say is keep looking
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KARBOWICZ: I met this girl on here. She matches everything I match in. She is perfect for me and everything. She even shows interest in me.
Then all of the sudden....just 4 days after meeting her on this site...Her profile disappears. The following day before this happened...she wasnt answering my emails...at all...but she read em. It makes no sense at all as to what happened. We were perfect for eachother. This is just horrible. Probly one of the worst days of my life. Idk what happened. We were doing fine and everything...asking eachother questions to get to know eachother better. Then shes gone...just like that. =[
I would feel better if someone could explain how this problem happened.
Then all of the sudden....just 4 days after meeting her on this site...Her profile disappears. The following day before this happened...she wasnt answering my emails...at all...but she read em. It makes no sense at all as to what happened. We were perfect for eachother. This is just horrible. Probly one of the worst days of my life. Idk what happened. We were doing fine and everything...asking eachother questions to get to know eachother better. Then shes gone...just like that. =[
I would feel better if someone could explain how this problem happened.
one of the worst days of your life? whoa. dude you hadn't even met her yet. there are alot of nut jobs on sites like this. and there are plenty of other people that will be a match for you. you're young hang in there and don't get upset over someone you never even met. she isn't worth your time anyway.
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Another thing. I read your profile, it's ok but drop the religious references. As long as you respect each others beliefs and don't try to change each other everything will work out. Also don't try so hard for a close match. Variety is the spice of life and it will broaden your horizons and resume' so to speak, to date all kinds of girls. You're a nice looking young man and there are tons of chics out there.
Good luck.
Good luck.
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KARBOWICZ: I met this girl on here. She matches everything I match in. She is perfect for me and everything. She even shows interest in me.
Then all of the sudden....just 4 days after meeting her on this site...Her profile disappears. The following day before this happened...she wasnt answering my emails...at all...but she read em. It makes no sense at all as to what happened. We were perfect for eachother. This is just horrible. Probly one of the worst days of my life. Idk what happened. We were doing fine and everything...asking eachother questions to get to know eachother better. Then shes gone...just like that. =[
I would feel better if someone could explain how this problem happened.
You poor thing...I can explain easily..she was not interested and what you thought was interest was just politeness.Shes not gonna say in the middle of the date..oh I really don't feel the chemistry. At least for me..I need to feel a physical attraction to want to see you again. Either that or she ran back to her ex..did she have one? Thats always a possibility.Then all of the sudden....just 4 days after meeting her on this site...Her profile disappears. The following day before this happened...she wasnt answering my emails...at all...but she read em. It makes no sense at all as to what happened. We were perfect for eachother. This is just horrible. Probly one of the worst days of my life. Idk what happened. We were doing fine and everything...asking eachother questions to get to know eachother better. Then shes gone...just like that. =[
I would feel better if someone could explain how this problem happened.
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its a gliche in the system, they probably got banned or their cookies are not supporting the website..
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Just wondering if any of you guys ever heard of the book The Game by Neil Strauss. its a perspective on the male's constant need to be a number one pickup artist..actually had me reading it..
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wildkitty: its a gliche in the system, they probably got banned or their cookies are not supporting the website..
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ok i take that back..they didnt meet. Well thats a possiblity..but maybe theres still a chance..sometimes I'm not on for a while and miss mails..We get busy with real life ya know.
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KARBOWICZ: I met this girl on here. She matches everything I match in. She is perfect for me and everything. She even shows interest in me.
Then all of the sudden....just 4 days after meeting her on this site...Her profile disappears. The following day before this happened...she wasnt answering my emails...at all...but she read em. It makes no sense at all as to what happened. We were perfect for eachother. This is just horrible. Probly one of the worst days of my life. Idk what happened. We were doing fine and everything...asking eachother questions to get to know eachother better. Then shes gone...just like that. =[
I would feel better if someone could explain how this problem happened.
Then all of the sudden....just 4 days after meeting her on this site...Her profile disappears. The following day before this happened...she wasnt answering my emails...at all...but she read em. It makes no sense at all as to what happened. We were perfect for eachother. This is just horrible. Probly one of the worst days of my life. Idk what happened. We were doing fine and everything...asking eachother questions to get to know eachother better. Then shes gone...just like that. =[
I would feel better if someone could explain how this problem happened.
The water is wet... the sky is blue.. women have secrets .. so what els is new ....
no worries henge in there...
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April4now: No I don't buy that one...there are ways of getting in touch..I'm sure they had phone numbers at that point
true, but anything is possible..
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Boban1: The water is wet... the sky is blue.. women have secrets .. so what els is new ....
no worries henge in there...
no worries henge in there...
another great answer from our mighty wizard, better listen to him son
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dude you are old enough to use your brain i am sure you could have put two and two together you were probably being scamed
i had this happen a female contacted me her profile and messages she sent me vanished and then she came back to this site under the same name but new pic and sent me a message again i told her i was not intrested and simply said i am not into toying with people or playing games
i have never had this problem i have made two good friends and i keep in touch and soon i wil be heading out of australia for a first date and face to face meeting
the women i met is bright very attractive and she is even making sure i dont waste my money when i am in her country
we keep in touch away from this dating site we both have each others personal email adresses
this one is showing me that she is serious with me and a mate of mine who lives in her country with his wife and kids is going to have cofee with her soon his wife wants to meet her and she is ok with meeting my friends
what suprised me i am being offered to stay with her family and i was told i wil be looked after and she does not want me wasting my money even on food
play it safe like i have been playing it safe and you will be fine
damo9
i had this happen a female contacted me her profile and messages she sent me vanished and then she came back to this site under the same name but new pic and sent me a message again i told her i was not intrested and simply said i am not into toying with people or playing games
i have never had this problem i have made two good friends and i keep in touch and soon i wil be heading out of australia for a first date and face to face meeting
the women i met is bright very attractive and she is even making sure i dont waste my money when i am in her country
we keep in touch away from this dating site we both have each others personal email adresses
this one is showing me that she is serious with me and a mate of mine who lives in her country with his wife and kids is going to have cofee with her soon his wife wants to meet her and she is ok with meeting my friends
what suprised me i am being offered to stay with her family and i was told i wil be looked after and she does not want me wasting my money even on food
play it safe like i have been playing it safe and you will be fine
damo9
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KARBOWICZ: I met this girl on here. She matches everything I match in. She is perfect for me and everything. She even shows interest in me.
Then all of the sudden....just 4 days after meeting her on this site...Her profile disappears. The following day before this happened...she wasnt answering my emails...at all...but she read em. It makes no sense at all as to what happened. We were perfect for eachother. This is just horrible. Probly one of the worst days of my life. Idk what happened. We were doing fine and everything...asking eachother questions to get to know eachother better. Then shes gone...just like that. =[
I would feel better if someone could explain how this problem happened.
dont give up the right one will come your wayThen all of the sudden....just 4 days after meeting her on this site...Her profile disappears. The following day before this happened...she wasnt answering my emails...at all...but she read em. It makes no sense at all as to what happened. We were perfect for eachother. This is just horrible. Probly one of the worst days of my life. Idk what happened. We were doing fine and everything...asking eachother questions to get to know eachother better. Then shes gone...just like that. =[
I would feel better if someone could explain how this problem happened.
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sorry dude it happens to the best of us. I got the dumps yesterday myself. we were suppose to meet tomorrow she was flying in to see me. we had a little miss understanding now she wont answer my email. what can ya do give it a couple days if no contact move on it sucks but better now than latter.
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KARBOWICZ: I met this girl on here. She matches everything I match in. She is perfect for me and everything. She even shows interest in me.
Then all of the sudden....just 4 days after meeting her on this site...Her profile disappears. The following day before this happened...she wasnt answering my emails...at all...but she read em. It makes no sense at all as to what happened. We were perfect for eachother. This is just horrible. Probly one of the worst days of my life. Idk what happened. We were doing fine and everything...asking eachother questions to get to know eachother better. Then shes gone...just like that. =[
I would feel better if someone could explain how this problem happened.
Then all of the sudden....just 4 days after meeting her on this site...Her profile disappears. The following day before this happened...she wasnt answering my emails...at all...but she read em. It makes no sense at all as to what happened. We were perfect for eachother. This is just horrible. Probly one of the worst days of my life. Idk what happened. We were doing fine and everything...asking eachother questions to get to know eachother better. Then shes gone...just like that. =[
I would feel better if someone could explain how this problem happened.
why you should feel bad & sad ! your still lucky that you find out everything clear at the beginning !
You coudn't know even if he/she is real or not !
your still young and Deserve all the best !
Good luck
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KARBOWICZ: I met this girl on here. She matches everything I match in. She is perfect for me and everything. She even shows interest in me.
Then all of the sudden....just 4 days after meeting her on this site...Her profile disappears. The following day before this happened...she wasnt answering my emails...at all...but she read em. It makes no sense at all as to what happened. We were perfect for eachother. This is just horrible. Probly one of the worst days of my life. Idk what happened. We were doing fine and everything...asking eachother questions to get to know eachother better. Then shes gone...just like that. =[
I would feel better if someone could explain how this problem happened.
Then all of the sudden....just 4 days after meeting her on this site...Her profile disappears. The following day before this happened...she wasnt answering my emails...at all...but she read em. It makes no sense at all as to what happened. We were perfect for eachother. This is just horrible. Probly one of the worst days of my life. Idk what happened. We were doing fine and everything...asking eachother questions to get to know eachother better. Then shes gone...just like that. =[
I would feel better if someone could explain how this problem happened.
It's possible "she" was a scammer and administration deleted the profile. This can happen very suddenly if you are in the middle of "talking" to one of them. Sometimes when an account is cancelled the other person can still read emails but not answer them...or maybe administration read them...did the emails she sent you before remain in your box or did they disappear too? If the emails she sent you disappeared from your emailbox she was a scammer and administration deleted her profile from the site.
If not, any person who would just disappear on someone isn't perfect. They are bad news and just plain rude. You really are better off knowing this about her now before you really got attached.
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Well the strange thing is....i joined this site cause i saw her profile. She couldnt have known i was going to be joining and at no point after i contacted her did she ask for any really personal info like email adresses. All we did was ask eachother random questions. Then around a day and a half ago there were no answers back from her. They were read but she wouldnt reply back.
And of course..i felt i had made her mad...but i really dont think i did cause she was very open to me and was willing to meet me sometime. And also..she had 4 pictures which were all of the same girl but all different poses. None were super revealing or anything but idk how the people on this site take things. Maybe she responded to a message in a bad way and was deleted???
Seems very odd.
And of course..i felt i had made her mad...but i really dont think i did cause she was very open to me and was willing to meet me sometime. And also..she had 4 pictures which were all of the same girl but all different poses. None were super revealing or anything but idk how the people on this site take things. Maybe she responded to a message in a bad way and was deleted???
Seems very odd.
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damo9: dude you are old enough to use your brain i am sure you could have put two and two together you were probably being scamed i had this happen a female contacted me her profile and messages she sent me vanished and then she came back to this site under the same name but new pic and sent me a message again i told her i was not intrested and simply said i am not into toying with people or playing games
i have never had this problem i have made two good friends and i keep in touch and soon i wil be heading out of australia for a first date and face to face meeting
the women i met is bright very attractive and she is even making sure i dont waste my money when i am in her country
we keep in touch away from this dating site we both have each others personal email adresses
this one is showing me that she is serious with me and a mate of mine who lives in her country with his wife and kids is going to have cofee with her soon his wife wants to meet her and she is ok with meeting my friends what suprised me i am being offered to stay with her family and i was told i wil be looked after and she does not want me wasting my money even on food play it safe like i have been playing it safe and you will be fine
damo9
I don't see why you would think it was a scam, she didn't ask for anything.i have never had this problem i have made two good friends and i keep in touch and soon i wil be heading out of australia for a first date and face to face meeting
the women i met is bright very attractive and she is even making sure i dont waste my money when i am in her country
we keep in touch away from this dating site we both have each others personal email adresses
this one is showing me that she is serious with me and a mate of mine who lives in her country with his wife and kids is going to have cofee with her soon his wife wants to meet her and she is ok with meeting my friends what suprised me i am being offered to stay with her family and i was told i wil be looked after and she does not want me wasting my money even on food play it safe like i have been playing it safe and you will be fine
damo9
More likely, she just changed her mind and didn't want to tell him, so decided ignoring him was the easiest way
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Then all of the sudden....just 4 days after meeting her on this site...Her profile disappears. The following day before this happened...she wasnt answering my emails...at all...but she read em. It makes no sense at all as to what happened. We were perfect for eachother. This is just horrible. Probly one of the worst days of my life. Idk what happened. We were doing fine and everything...asking eachother questions to get to know eachother better. Then shes gone...just like that. =[
I would feel better if someone could explain how this problem happened.