Just a thought about people that read but don't comment... do you think it might be because they feel intimidated that everyone in the forums seems to know each other..we just did it then, joking about things from other threads..when I first looked at the forums I was a bit scared to suddenly jump in with all these people that seemed so familiar with each other..almost felt like I was gatecrashing some private party.
bestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK4,701 posts
solsticemoon: Just a thought about people that read but don't comment... do you think it might be because they feel intimidated that everyone in the forums seems to know each other..we just did it then, joking about things from other threads..when I first looked at the forums I was a bit scared to suddenly jump in with all these people that seemed so familiar with each other..almost felt like I was gatecrashing some private party.
I felt the same at first,and actually took myself off the site several times due to unpleasant posters.I've now learned to stand up to people and give as good as I get. We are all here to touch base with each other and share our joys and sorrows.Most of the time it's a good place to be.
bestbefore: I felt the same at first,and actually took myself off the site several times due to unpleasant posters.I've now learned to stand up to people and give as good as I get. We are all here to touch base with each other and share our joys and sorrows.Most of the time it's a good place to be.
bestbefore: I felt the same at first,and actually took myself off the site several times due to unpleasant posters.I've now learned to stand up to people and give as good as I get. We are all here to touch base with each other and share our joys and sorrows.Most of the time it's a good place to be.
I love the forums..the dating side has become secondary now to them. I find I am now exchanging mail with nearly as many of the girls as the blokes..its nice and a great way to find out more about peoples lives in other countries
solsticemoon: Just a thought about people that read but don't comment... do you think it might be because they feel intimidated that everyone in the forums seems to know each other..we just did it then, joking about things from other threads..when I first looked at the forums I was a bit scared to suddenly jump in with all these people that seemed so familiar with each other..almost felt like I was gatecrashing some private party.
i feel that too sometimes,thats why im soo careful to post,otherwise i spoiled the thread or someone feel bad .
MY Merry CS Fellows.......You did well during the night.... How are you all.................. So shall we Get those last 5 pages done before Snuggs wakes up..
bestbefore: I felt the same at first,and actually took myself off the site several times due to unpleasant posters.I've now learned to stand up to people and give as good as I get. We are all here to touch base with each other and share our joys and sorrows.Most of the time it's a good place to be.
bestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK4,701 posts
solsticemoon: I love the forums..the dating side has become secondary now to them. I find I am now exchanging mail with nearly as many of the girls as the blokes..its nice and a great way to find out more about peoples lives in other countries
Isn't it great. Even nicer when some of the people here actually meet up and connect. I'm only here to interact as I enjoy hearing about other people's worlds.If only we took the time to share and care, more the world would be a happier place for all of us.
My bum's getting numb after 5 hours. Don't know how those girl's kept going yesterday. Have to go and stretch my legs.Keep up the good work.
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thanks for hug sweety u sweet..