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Oct 9, 2009 2:46 PM CST why do women
why do women hate to admit when they start going through menopause, it is natural and part of life, my sister said she started through her's in her early 40's she knew she was unbearable to live with, hated it, but didn't know why she felt the way she did, but that was 40 years ago and they didn't talk about such things, today is much different and things are more openly discussed yet some women don't want to admit or even consider that may be their change causing their emotions to go crazy, with men it is mid life crisis and we can't explain some of the crap we pull just out for discusion
, dunno dunno frustrated
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Oct 9, 2009 2:49 PM CST why do women
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
I havent even gone through perimenopause yetdunno
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Oct 9, 2009 2:53 PM CST why do women
it is not a cut and dried formula and you can say well i am fifty so my change is here laugh my ex,s aunt was in her late 60's
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Oct 9, 2009 2:54 PM CST why do women
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
I think i would know if i was going through it..

everything so far is still going smoothly

but my sister has been going through it terrible..

especially the hot flashes
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Oct 9, 2009 3:00 PM CST why do women
kissmedeeply: I think i would know if i was going through it..

everything so far is still going smoothly

but my sister has been going through it terrible..

especially the hot flashes



Us men do go thru Hormone Changes as well, as we all have a mixed Balance of Male and Female Hormones, Tho we dont Bleed, I thing for men it come out of the Mouthblah shock hole


did i admit that?doh
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Oct 9, 2009 3:01 PM CST why do women
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Us men do go thru Hormone Changes as well, as we all have a mixed Balance of Male and Female Hormones, Tho we dont Bleed, I thing for men it come out of the Mouth did i admit that?
laugh you did and to the whole worldgrin
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Oct 9, 2009 3:07 PM CST why do women
and ladies i do feel for you when it happens, my daughter is going through hers has been for a few years , poor son-in-law freezes in the winter as she has the window cracked open and the fan going
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Oct 9, 2009 3:08 PM CST why do women
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
why do women?

Gotta do somethin'.
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Oct 9, 2009 3:10 PM CST why do women
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
caspatch: why do women hate to admit when they start going through menopause, it is natural and part of life, my sister said she started through her's in her early 40's she knew she was unbearable to live with, hated it, but didn't know why she felt the way she did, but that was 40 years ago and they didn't talk about such things, today is much different and things are more openly discussed yet some women don't want to admit or even consider that may be their change causing their emotions to go crazy, with men it is mid life crisis and we can't explain some of the crap we pull just out for discusion
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I think possibly it's the knowledge that they are getting older and unable to hold back time.Also the fact that child bearing days are possibly over, and some may feel that they are no longer desirable.

In all cases it is a very personal problem and for some it can be very embarrassing.Some women have been known to go mad literally during the change ,so it is for some a fragile time in their lives.

We are all different in our approach to how we handle the changes that take place as we get older,so a lot of understanding is required for both men and women.You are right in my opinion that it shouldn't be hidden away and people need to talk to each other about how they are feeling.It would lead to a better understanding on both sides.J.M.O.wave
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Oct 9, 2009 3:10 PM CST why do women
goodfriend
goodfriendgoodfriendglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK2 Threads 2,573 Posts
I think i came out my mum's womb with the menopause,for me its no big deal caspatch and i cope fine with it, i always laugh about it and i dont take any kind of medication for it.
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Oct 9, 2009 3:14 PM CST why do women
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
bestbefore: I think possibly it's the knowledge that they are getting older and unable to hold back time.Also the fact that child bearing days are possibly over, and some may feel that they are no longer desirable.

In all cases it is a very personal problem and for some it can be very embarrassing.Some women have been known to go mad literally during the change ,so it is for some a fragile time in their lives.

We are all different in our approach to how we handle the changes that take place as we get older,so a lot of understanding is required for both men and women.You are right in my opinion that it shouldn't be hidden away and people need to talk to each other about how they are feeling.It would lead to a better understanding on both sides.J.M.O.
I agree, i had a hysterectomy when i was 29 and felt as if a chapter in my life had closed, as a women i felt inadequate and useless. bouquet
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Oct 9, 2009 3:18 PM CST why do women
i do know it can cause the madness in some, but a lot will not even see a doctor for confirmation they just get hateful with out knowing why, and heaven forbid if you suggest they seek medical opinion for it, you just crossed the unholy boundry and you will rot in helllaugh if it could be discussed openly men would have more compassion jmho
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Oct 9, 2009 3:21 PM CST why do women
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
caspatch: i do know it can cause the madness in some, but a lot will not even see a doctor for confirmation they just get hateful with out knowing why, and heaven forbid if you suggest they seek medical opinion for it, you just crossed the unholy boundry and you will rot in hell if it could be discussed openly men would have more compassion jmho


It's because they don't want to admit that there is a problem. It's like oil fired central heating, if you run out of oil the system goes down.Same with hormones.
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Oct 9, 2009 3:22 PM CST why do women
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
caspatch: i do know it can cause the madness in some, but a lot will not even see a doctor for confirmation they just get hateful with out knowing why, and heaven forbid if you suggest they seek medical opinion for it, you just crossed the unholy boundry and you will rot in hell if it could be discussed openly men would have more compassion jmho


what,,,What...you say medical opinion

i dont need medical or pills or what havea you

there is nothing bloody wrong with mevery mad

heheheh just had tobouquet
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Oct 9, 2009 3:45 PM CST why do women
kissmedeeply: what,,,What...you say medical opinion

i dont need medical or pills or what havea you

there is nothing bloody wrong with me

heheheh just had to
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 9, 2009 3:47 PM CST why do women
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
I adore women who get the odd hot flash/flush when I'm around! blushing
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Oct 9, 2009 3:57 PM CST why do women
sultryash
sultryashsultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados36 Threads 3,203 Posts
i watched my mom go through menopause and didnt know what it was, she would go through bouts of depression and we never knew what was going on, it was a sad thing. By age 39 she had 11 children, being married at the tender age of 14 and started making babies from that age we all thought that her mood swings and bouts of anger had to do with having that kinda responsibility from such a young age. It takes a year for a woman's body to recover and mend itself back to health after giving birth to a child, imagine by age 39 having 11 children and then starting menopause from age 42. I often wonder if and is afraid that i may end up going through menopause at a young age too.
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Oct 9, 2009 4:00 PM CST why do women
RobertC2: I adore women who get the odd hot flash/flush when I'm around!


But when meeting you, hot flash has nothing to do with menopause! rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 9, 2009 4:00 PM CST why do women
Shewolf55
Shewolf55Shewolf55Columbia, South Carolina USA3 Threads 392 Posts
In response to: why do women hate to admit when they start going through menopause, it is natural and part of life, my sister said she started through her's in her early 40's she knew she was unbearable to live with, hated it, but didn't know why she felt the way she did, but that was 40 years ago and they didn't talk about such things, today is much different and things are more openly discussed yet some women don't want to admit or even consider that may be their change causing their emotions to go crazy, with men it is mid life crisis and we can't explain some of the crap we pull just out for discusion
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I don't have a clue what other women do but I went through surgical menopause 15 years ago and I never felt or saw any difference other than relief that I didn't have to put up with THAT every single month. All the ups and downs of hormone cycles were gone and so was PMS.

I'm sorry you've had problems with women during their time. I wonder though does it really have to do with menopause or is it the individuals state of mind regardless of hormones? dunno
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Oct 9, 2009 4:28 PM CST why do women
Shewolf55: I don't have a clue what other women do but I went through surgical menopause 15 years ago and I never felt or saw any difference other than relief that I didn't have to put up with THAT every single month. All the ups and downs of hormone cycles were gone and so was PMS.

I'm sorry you've had problems with women during their time. I wonder though does it really have to do with menopause or is it the individuals state of mind regardless of hormones?


laugh i got up one morning to find out she filed for divorce, out of nowhere, we got a long great, i said if that's what you want
and went down and signed the papers for her 2 years later she showed up at my door and wanted to know if i ever thought of getting back together, i declined but we are still friends
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