a legal question (118)
petalbabe: You see, OP, its started already..
It is NO CONSEQUENCE who owns or pays for what. ALL THAT MATTERS is what is in the Separation Agreement, which I assume you and your husband have already in place. Anything other than the arrangements set out therein are IN BREACH. The husband obviously agreed to pay the mortgage, otherwise it wouldnt be set into the Agreement.
Obviously, either you or your husband can petition for amendments to the arrangements in the Agreement at any time. This is what your lawyers are for.
It is NO CONSEQUENCE who owns or pays for what. ALL THAT MATTERS is what is in the Separation Agreement, which I assume you and your husband have already in place. Anything other than the arrangements set out therein are IN BREACH. The husband obviously agreed to pay the mortgage, otherwise it wouldnt be set into the Agreement.
Obviously, either you or your husband can petition for amendments to the arrangements in the Agreement at any time. This is what your lawyers are for.
Girl power!!!
Would love to hear men in that postion say a few words on this. Not some no-it-all......
petalbabe: You see, OP, its started already..
It is NO CONSEQUENCE who owns or pays for what. ALL THAT MATTERS is what is in the Separation Agreement, which I assume you and your husband have already in place. Anything other than the arrangements set out therein are IN BREACH. The husband obviously agreed to pay the mortgage, otherwise it wouldnt be set into the Agreement.
Obviously, either you or your husband can petition for amendments to the arrangements in the Agreement at any time. This is what your lawyers are for.
It is NO CONSEQUENCE who owns or pays for what. ALL THAT MATTERS is what is in the Separation Agreement, which I assume you and your husband have already in place. Anything other than the arrangements set out therein are IN BREACH. The husband obviously agreed to pay the mortgage, otherwise it wouldnt be set into the Agreement.
Obviously, either you or your husband can petition for amendments to the arrangements in the Agreement at any time. This is what your lawyers are for.
BiggieSmalls: Girl power!!!
Would love to hear men in that postion say a few words on this. Not some no-it-all......
Would love to hear men in that postion say a few words on this. Not some no-it-all......
Actually, in this particular case, I DO KNOW IT!
petalbabe: You see, OP, its started already..
It is NO CONSEQUENCE who owns or pays for what. ALL THAT MATTERS is what is in the Separation Agreement, which I assume you and your husband have already in place. Anything other than the arrangements set out therein are IN BREACH. The husband obviously agreed to pay the mortgage, otherwise it wouldnt be set into the Agreement.
Obviously, either you or your husband can petition for amendments to the arrangements in the Agreement at any time. This is what your lawyers are for.
It is NO CONSEQUENCE who owns or pays for what. ALL THAT MATTERS is what is in the Separation Agreement, which I assume you and your husband have already in place. Anything other than the arrangements set out therein are IN BREACH. The husband obviously agreed to pay the mortgage, otherwise it wouldnt be set into the Agreement.
Obviously, either you or your husband can petition for amendments to the arrangements in the Agreement at any time. This is what your lawyers are for.
That just not fair on him at all, if i was him i would emigrate to a country with no extradition treaty in place, Botswana sounds good to me
HashBrowns: That just not fair on him at all, if i was him i would emigrate to a country with no extradition treaty in place, Botswana sounds good to me
The point is that the husband MUST HAVE AGREED to the paying of the mortgage, otherwise it would NOT be in the agreement at all. Nothing is put into a Separation Agreement until it has been reviewed and agreed by BOTH parties.petalbabe: The point is that the husband MUST HAVE AGREED to the paying of the mortgage, otherwise it would NOT be in the agreement at all. Nothing is put into a Separation Agreement until it has been reviewed and agreed by BOTH parties.
And he agreed to that
HashBrowns: That just not fair on him at all, if i was him i would emigrate to a country with no extradition treaty in place, Botswana sounds good to me
It may or may not be fair..none of us here know the circumstances in somebody elses life.
But the fact is..there are laws in place and they have to be obeyed. It is not up to any of us here to decide what is right or wrong in this case.
hey hashbrown sounds like u be a bitter guy .dont tink dat u would afford a bag of chips let love a morgage
let alone a morgage
HashBrowns: And he agreed to that
Sometimes 'he' is better off if he agrees rather than letting the judge decide for him. Have seen it where the judge decides on a 75/25 split
HashBrowns: And he agreed to that
Obviously he must have! As I said, either party is able to ask for the arrangements in the Agreement to be altered at any point, as long as both parties agree then the Agreement can be altered.
LusciousLibra: Sometimes 'he' is better off if he agrees rather than letting the judge decide for him. Have seen it where the judge decides on a 75/25 split
Exactly.
I had to go away for a little while and just came back and read all the posts. Thanks everyone for your input.
Petalbabe , you know what your talking about.
BiggieSmall, you have a lot to learn.
Yes he did. A Legal Seperation Agreement is just that . An Agreement between the two parties which is a legal document. It is worked out fairly according to the income and expenditure of the family, so that both parties can continue to live and obviously the one who is raising and caring for the kids has less earning power and needs more, therefore the one who earns more and does less looking after the kids has to pay more.
Thats life , thats reality . If you don't like it, dont have kids.
Petalbabe , you know what your talking about.
BiggieSmall, you have a lot to learn.
HashBrowns: And he agreed to that
Yes he did. A Legal Seperation Agreement is just that . An Agreement between the two parties which is a legal document. It is worked out fairly according to the income and expenditure of the family, so that both parties can continue to live and obviously the one who is raising and caring for the kids has less earning power and needs more, therefore the one who earns more and does less looking after the kids has to pay more.
Thats life , thats reality . If you don't like it, dont have kids.
0ne0faKind: I had to go away for a little while and just came back and read all the posts. Thanks everyone for your input.
Petalbabe , you know what your talking about.
BiggieSmall, you have a lot to learn.
Yes he did. A Legal Seperation Agreement is just that . An Agreement between the two parties which is a legal document. It is worked out fairly according to the income and expenditure of the family, so that both parties can continue to live and obviously the one who is raising and caring for the kids has less earning power and needs more, therefore the one who earns more and does less looking after the kids has to pay more.
Thats life , thats reality . If you don't like it, dont have kids.
Petalbabe , you know what your talking about.
BiggieSmall, you have a lot to learn.
Yes he did. A Legal Seperation Agreement is just that . An Agreement between the two parties which is a legal document. It is worked out fairly according to the income and expenditure of the family, so that both parties can continue to live and obviously the one who is raising and caring for the kids has less earning power and needs more, therefore the one who earns more and does less looking after the kids has to pay more.
Thats life , thats reality . If you don't like it, dont have kids.
One..I wish you all the best in this. Lots of us here have been through it. Some of us are still fighting!!!!
Talk to your solicitor and see what the ACTUAL legal position is.
0ne0faKind: I had to go away for a little while and just came back and read all the posts. Thanks everyone for your input.
Petalbabe , you know what your talking about.
BiggieSmall, you have a lot to learn.
Yes he did. A Legal Seperation Agreement is just that . An Agreement between the two parties which is a legal document. It is worked out fairly according to the income and expenditure of the family, so that both parties can continue to live and obviously the one who is raising and caring for the kids has less earning power and needs more, therefore the one who earns more and does less looking after the kids has to pay more.
Thats life , thats reality . If you don't like it, dont have kids.
Petalbabe , you know what your talking about.
BiggieSmall, you have a lot to learn.
Yes he did. A Legal Seperation Agreement is just that . An Agreement between the two parties which is a legal document. It is worked out fairly according to the income and expenditure of the family, so that both parties can continue to live and obviously the one who is raising and caring for the kids has less earning power and needs more, therefore the one who earns more and does less looking after the kids has to pay more.
Thats life , thats reality . If you don't like it, dont have kids.
I have a child that i pay maintenance every week so dont throw the if you dont have kids you wont understand thing in my face cause i do understand
funny, your profile says you have no kids
wexlady41: One..I wish you all the best in this. Lots of us here have been through it. Some of us are still fighting!!!!
Talk to your solicitor and see what the ACTUAL legal position is.
solicitors advice is usually good... for instance mine back in the day told me...to pay a lump some and maybe she might not take my house(had before we met) and a large maintenence(we`ve equal custody,tho they sleep at mine 90%).....Talk to your solicitor and see what the ACTUAL legal position is.
i asked why? when i`d done nothin wrong and that i wanted my kids more than anythin over the money...but that i wanted to be left the financial ability to do so...
his answer.... system/fam law is imperfectly balanced towards old ireland and the rights of the mum oveer those of the dad.. circa laws in 1965...
i answered... so do i just go and pray to good for the best and leave it in lap of gods or judge??
thankfully it worked out for me in long run....but not cause of any agreement..but because i perciveered and kept mindin kids and taking them and now its their choice to stay with dad most of the time..
point being...do the right thing by YOUR kids... their not any piece of papers, or judges kids... jmo
male or female... trust me! your kids ``ll thank you when their older...
puggle: solicitors advice is usually good... for instance mine back in the day told me...to pay a lump some and maybe she might not take my house(had before we met) and a large maintenence(we`ve equal custody,tho they sleep at mine 90%).....
i asked why? when i`d done nothin wrong and that i wanted my kids more than anythin over the money...but that i wanted to be left the financial ability to do so...
his answer.... system/fam law is imperfectly balanced towards old ireland and the rights of the mum oveer those of the dad.. circa laws in 1965...
i answered... so do i just go and pray to good for the best and leave it in lap of gods or judge??
thankfully it worked out for me in long run....but not cause of any agreement..but because i perciveered and kept mindin kids and taking them and now its their choice to stay with dad most of the time..
point being...do the right thing by YOUR kids... their not any piece of papers, or judges kids... jmo
male or female... trust me! your kids ``ll thank you when their older...
i asked why? when i`d done nothin wrong and that i wanted my kids more than anythin over the money...but that i wanted to be left the financial ability to do so...
his answer.... system/fam law is imperfectly balanced towards old ireland and the rights of the mum oveer those of the dad.. circa laws in 1965...
i answered... so do i just go and pray to good for the best and leave it in lap of gods or judge??
thankfully it worked out for me in long run....but not cause of any agreement..but because i perciveered and kept mindin kids and taking them and now its their choice to stay with dad most of the time..
point being...do the right thing by YOUR kids... their not any piece of papers, or judges kids... jmo
male or female... trust me! your kids ``ll thank you when their older...
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