Well here we go, I had a friend, this person was a bit on the immature side and had self esteem issues. And she is a bit obsessive too. Well, she liked this guy that I disliked. They use to talk all the time and so on. Well without my knowledge she gave him my phone number and email. First of all that was disrespectful because I didn't want him to have my number and second of all why would she give my number to the guy she liked??? Anyways, after a while I started talking to the guy. Then she turned obsessive with me. Wanting to know what I was doing, where I was going, if I would write messages she wanted to know for who....It got crazy. She did the same to him and so he stopped talking to her.
So then she says I betrayed her. And I got weird phone calls at 1 am. Obsessive much? I have limited my contact with her. We barely speak. Now I see that shes trying to find a way to hurt me. Most recently she send me a text message saying somebody was talking trash about me. I know my close(small) circle of friends. And I honestly have no problems with anybody....just her.
So my question is how the heck do I do to get away from her??? She's just annoying me because I honestly don't get hurt or bothered easily, but is like I know shes the one behind it all and I find it so stupid!
She needs pschological help... ignore her completely. Keep records of every contact attempt she makes with you, and make the local police aware of your situation. I presume your circle of close friends (which don't include senorita psycho!) are aware of the situation as well?
Baby_Monkey: Well here we go, I had a friend, this person was a bit on the immature side and had self esteem issues. And she is a bit obsessive too. Well, she liked this guy that I disliked. They use to talk all the time and so on. Well without my knowledge she gave him my phone number and email. First of all that was disrespectful because I didn't want him to have my number and second of all why would she give my number to the guy she liked??? Anyways, after a while I started talking to the guy. Then she turned obsessive with me. Wanting to know what I was doing, where I was going, if I would write messages she wanted to know for who....It got crazy. She did the same to him and so he stopped talking to her.
So then she says I betrayed her. And I got weird phone calls at 1 am. Obsessive much? I have limited my contact with her. We barely speak. Now I see that shes trying to find a way to hurt me. Most recently she send me a text message saying somebody was talking trash about me. I know my close(small) circle of friends. And I honestly have no problems with anybody....just her.
So my question is how the heck do I do to get away from her??? She's just annoying me because I honestly don't get hurt or bothered easily, but is like I know shes the one behind it all and I find it so stupid!
If you only have a small circle of close friends, I'd change phone numbers and email addresses, and get a sturdy lock for the door or a dog.
Michael211_2000: She needs pschological help... ignore her completely. Keep records of every contact attempt she makes with you, and make the local police aware of your situation. I presume your circle of close friends (which don't include senorita psycho!) are aware of the situation as well?
Regards and best wishes... stay safe!
- Michael
.......Excellent advice Michael...Young Lady,I would sincerely heed this Gentleman words her....
Keep your distance from her. Do not confront her or you may enrage her anger even more. She is obviously looking for some kind of a challenging fight. No telling if she may shoot or knife you if you decide to confront her.
I agree that you need to keep a written record of any phone calls or if she stalks you. For your own safety, the police should be contacted if she keeps up threatening behaviors.
She sounds rather loco to me. You may need a restraining order before this is all over yet.
What I don't understand is if you disliked the guy, why did you have anything to do with him. Could you not smell...set up? I would have dumped her right them and certainly would not have had any thing to do with him.
HavinFuninTx: What I don't understand is if you disliked the guy, why did you have anything to do with him. Could you not smell...set up? I would have dumped her right them and certainly would not have had any thing to do with him.
It does sound like som,ething is up, and was that Girl, working with THAT GUY, For Wrong Reasons??????????????
HavinFuninTx: What I don't understand is if you disliked the guy, why did you have anything to do with him. Could you not smell...set up? I would have dumped her right them and certainly would not have had any thing to do with him.
Well I didn't know the guy that well but what I knew about him I didn't like. But still I decided that we could talk (no harm in that), eventually I noticed he is a cool guy.
Both of them don't speak. I know this for a fact, so I don't think it was a set up. Maybe on her part to see what I would do.
Baby_Monkey: Well here we go, I had a friend, this person was a bit on the immature side and had self esteem issues. And she is a bit obsessive too. Well, she liked this guy that I disliked. They use to talk all the time and so on. Well without my knowledge she gave him my phone number and email. First of all that was disrespectful because I didn't want him to have my number and second of all why would she give my number to the guy she liked??? Anyways, after a while I started talking to the guy. Then she turned obsessive with me. Wanting to know what I was doing, where I was going, if I would write messages she wanted to know for who....It got crazy. She did the same to him and so he stopped talking to her.
So then she says I betrayed her. And I got weird phone calls at 1 am. Obsessive much? I have limited my contact with her. We barely speak. Now I see that shes trying to find a way to hurt me. Most recently she send me a text message saying somebody was talking trash about me. I know my close(small) circle of friends. And I honestly have no problems with anybody....just her.
So my question is how the heck do I do to get away from her??? She's just annoying me because I honestly don't get hurt or bothered easily, but is like I know shes the one behind it all and I find it so stupid!
Personally, I think you get off on how this person makes you feel important.
amelie13Sydney, New South Wales Australia327 posts
Baby_Monkey:
So my question is how the heck do I do to get away from her??? She's just annoying me because I honestly don't get hurt or bothered easily, but is like I know shes the one behind it all and I find it so stupid!
This girl you are talking about here is very immature, you're right. I suspect this girl drinks a lot before she e-mails, texts and phones people. Either way she is nursing some serious self esteem wounds & is a very unhappy girl. That however, is not your problem. She is upset and angry and I suspect, very VERY jealous of you.
You need to be very direct with her. I would send her an email and tell her that you want nothing to do with her, and that you don't want her to contact you again.
Tell her that you are deleting her phone numbers and email address & that if she phones you at home at 1am again you will report it to the cops.
If you see her, ignore her. If she emails/texts you, delete them. If you can block her email/online contact in any way you should.
First of all you both are a mess in my book; you should have never talked to this guy but you liked the drama I think, or the attention. it's funny how you think he's a jerk and a loser but you talked to him.
Second of all take responsibility; no one put a knife to your head to be friends; YOU CHOSE HER.
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So then she says I betrayed her. And I got weird phone calls at 1 am. Obsessive much? I have limited my contact with her. We barely speak. Now I see that shes trying to find a way to hurt me. Most recently she send me a text message saying somebody was talking trash about me. I know my close(small) circle of friends. And I honestly have no problems with anybody....just her.
So my question is how the heck do I do to get away from her??? She's just annoying me because I honestly don't get hurt or bothered easily, but is like I know shes the one behind it all and I find it so stupid!